K so i have been the nice guy my whole life. But it seems every girl i like always ends up sayin i like you as a friend right before she goes out with the a**whole guy. So should i just start bein an a** or do girls really like the nice guy???
2007-12-15 20:21:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband is a very nice guy..he didn't find me until he was 21...BE PATIENT!!!!!! ;)
2007-12-15 20:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always like nice guys, for friends and for oh so much more. I even married one. Arrogant creeps might seem like an exciting challenge (not to me, but to some), but not much fun to be with. And hey, if you are a nice guy, then you couldn't just change yourself into a jerk anyway, so you are stuck, lol. But really, the kind of women that go for jerks aren't ready for a nice guy. Hold out for a nice women and you'll be great together!
2007-12-16 04:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by spydermomma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always liked the nice guys, but they seem to want the witches. (Well, rhymes with witch anyway.) I'm being sarcastic. I think you just need to date more mature women -- liking bad boys is a sign of immaturity. Or you could do a survey of the women you've wanted, asking their sincere advice on what you can change. Tell them you're not interested in getting them back, you just want to improve. Most will lie and say, "It's not you" but someone might give you something you can use.
2007-12-16 04:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the good guy does win because with girls like that they soon find out they are put in a spot that they dont like. With the nice guy it may take longer to get the girl but it is more then likly goin to end better then with a guy that is a *** hole
2007-12-16 04:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Cass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like nice guys but nice guys seem to go for mean girls. I'm a nice girl but nice guys wouldn't give me a second look.
2007-12-16 04:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Laughing all the way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly yea girls likes the nice guys but for some reason we always end up with the guys that treats us like ****.... sometimes girls jus like the challenge when a guy is o so sweet to you it kinda gets boring but then when the otha guy doggs us out were ready to cry n **** but i mean b who you are dont let no girl change you cus honey thrust in due time the right girl will come along and you'll see.....life is jus complicated like dat we want the wrong things sometimes.... its like we ignore who adores us and then we adore who ignores us aint dats crazy
2007-12-16 04:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by rocky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like nice guys. Dont give up on this!
2007-12-16 04:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be a good looking nice guy to make things work. Otherwise, the bad guys with more "character" will usually grab the attention of most girls.
Be sincere. EVENTUALLY you'll meet someone great. =)
2007-12-16 04:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!
Don't change!
It's not you. It's those girls!
How old are you anyway?!? Most young girls are looking to have fun and not so much settle down or be serious. That's there way of saying "just friends". Just be who you are and they'll come back around and you'll be with a hot chick who apreciates you and it will be too late!
AND whatever you do, don't listen to TMACK!
2007-12-16 04:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by :::cognac & cuban cigars::: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you this much...
Sure, the girls are attracted to the "bad boy" types, but when it comes down to it, the "bad boys" aren't the ones we want to take home to meet daddy, you know?
Maybe you should stop messing with the girls, and start looking for a woman...
Btw, just how old are you?
2007-12-16 04:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by **[Witty_Name]** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep being nice. one day those girls will grow up and realize what a catch you are. right now they are just immature and don't know a good guy if they were slapped in the face with them.
2007-12-16 04:25:45 · answer #11 · answered by Brian D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋