GIRL I like has BF, does she like me, help?

Question

I have known this girl for some time. the other day we went out for coffee and then I asked her what she wanted to do next, she said she wanted to find a quiet spot and watch the sun go down at the beach.

Thing is I am really good friends with her but before she told me she had a crush on me a long time ago. But now she is dating another guy, but I think their relationship is sketchy at the time being.

When I'm with this girl I really want to kiss her and I feel very romantic with her. We are friends but it FEELS so much more than that especially when she wants to watch sunsets and have long coffee chats with me.

I am not sure how to take it to the next level or how I should express my feelings for her? I don't want to scare her away because I value her friendship but I am wondering if she has feelings for me because she spends a lot of time with me and calls me and always wants to hang out. things are 10x more complicated because she is in a relationship

how do I tell her, help?

Answer 1

You like her and she's not married. What's the problem? She's giving you the right signals. Next time she wants to see a sunset, put your arm around her, let her lay in your lap, look her in the eyes and give her a kiss.

If you are careful, you won't damage your friendship. If she doesn't want it, she'll let you know.

It is not uncommon for girls to keep a spare guy "friend" on the side in case the relationship they're in doesn't work out. I'm NOT saying that's the case with your girl, but it might be.

You need to know because you are driving yourself crazy about it. So go find out.