Am I the only one that doesnt get swingers?

Question

I just think its a disgusting lifestyle. I dont understand. I really don't want to judge people. I just don't agree at all. I just don't get it. What do you people think?

Cause this is a place to get others oppinions. I know people who do it. I have also ran accross some comments about it. Maybe I worded the question wrong. Its freedom of speach. I just don't get it and I was wondering what others think.

Answer 1

No you are not the only one who finds it disgusting and immoral. But i also think what goes on in the privacy of your own home or bedroom is know one else's business as long as it doesn't hurt anyone and know one is being force to do something against their will.

Answer 2

Here is my opinion; you haven't learned the facts of life yet so here they are:

1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair

Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike the other answers you will get. Once you learn the facts of life either now or the hard way your train of thought will change too!!!

Answer 3

People that think sex is just a recreational activity done just for pleasure can justify this as allowing each other to find as much pleasure as possible. I believe sex is not only a physical act, but a spiritual act, so to join with so many other people is really quite disgusting to me.

Answer 4

I think that if 2 people love eachother than the last thing that they should want is to have sex with or watch their significant other having sex with someone else. It would absolutely break my heart if my man wanted to have sex with someone else. And if he wanted to watch me doing it, I would think that he did'nt care. So I agree with you one hundred percent. I am sick of people acting like it is so cool and modern to swing now. Those kind of people should think about how the divorce rate is higher now than it has ever been also. So in that aspect I would prefer to be old-fashioned.

Answer 5

I think everyone deserves the right to live the life that they want. They can choose to ruin it or improve it but I guess we cant force other people to think the way we do, even if what they think/do is wrong.

=) don't bother too much about them. As long as you have a clear conscience of what you feel and try not to enforce your feelings/thoughts on others, I think its gonna be ok =)

Answer 6

different people have different ways of living as well as enjoying their lives. and how an individual enjoys his/her life depends on upbringing, lifestyle, personality, etc. you have to undestand that opinions vary and yours do not have to coincide with the rest of the society and vice versa. as long as swingers dont hurt or harm or force anybody (especially a minor) in the process, who are we to judge. if i may quote an adage, "those who have not sinned, cast the 1st stone".

Answer 7

Your not the only one, I guess I am just greedy cause there are some things I just don't share and my wife is one of them.

Answer 8

Me too, but my husband is. I also dont understand why they've to do this to hurt their partner, but also say love to them. Is that love?? Does love means hurting and betraying their loved ones?

Answer 9

the lifestyle is gross but to each his own.

Answer 10

Why would you worry about it? It's like saying that you don't understand gay people because you are not gay yourself. It's their lives and their decisions. Worry about your own.