She is a fren of mine, she likes me but I don't. She calls me very often. I respond to her very casually as a good fren n whenever she doesn't like anything I say, she bangs the phn, which I really hate. Later she calls me ask for forgiveness n I say its ok, but these its not just once or twice. It happens almost every day.
Sometimes back she even asked me if she was bothering me by calling and if she is then she would stop calling me to which I said no, however she did annoy me, but I didn't want to hurt her.
Even now she's calling me, but I don't want to pick up her call.
Please help me!!!!
2007-12-15 20:44:39 · 20 answers · asked by Damn Gudd!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been trying to avoid her for the past (almost) a year..... she still keeps calling me n it's frustrating.
2007-12-15 20:59:42 · update #1
Just be honest, she actually could think there is something more going on than there is and not fully understand the fact you're not interested. If you don't want to be completely honest with her, maybe just start hinting at you being interested in another girl. That could help her get the point that she's a friend, but she doesn't have a chance at being that kind of a friend.
2007-12-15 20:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by kat.1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and upfront with her.. If you dont, then shes going to keep calling you and asking you if shes annoying you and if u keep saying no then it will never end.. Next time she calls and asks that question be blunt and be honest.. tell her YES you are annoying me.. It might make her mad, hurt her feelings but telling her no each time is just dragging out the situation and making it worse and shes thinking that you like her back.. tell her exactly how you feel and dont hold anything back.. I understand you dont want to hurt her, but truthfully thats the only way that shes going to know how u feel.. If you can work this out and still be friends she has to understand that thats the limit.. only friends, nothing more.. and the next time she bangs the phone hang up on her, and dont answer her phone call back.. Good Luck
2007-12-15 20:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u ignore her for a while if she is not a total dumba's's she will understand. well, if she is a total u know what i really don't know what u do, cos even if u tell her honestly she is annoying u by calling she will not stop. she will start asking why and then keep calling and asking and then she will be just calling to annoy u. so anyway, the best way is to ignore her. just don't pick up the phone as u re doing now
2007-12-15 20:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by yeahright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the only way you really get out of this awkward situation is to be honest with her as delicately as possible. The more you lie/avoid the situation the worse it will get.
2007-12-15 20:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by RLN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her the truth in a very convenience way..
that all her calls are bothering u.. and all the things u dont like about her, just tell her, but also try not to hurt her..
and tell that "i am your friend but i cant handle you this way"... yeah sort of..
hope this help.
2007-12-15 20:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by mademoiselle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her and let her know how you feel. she'll either respect you more or never talk to you again. things happen a way for a reason and if she's REALLY your friend and not just trying to 'get in your pants' this whole time she'll understand. if not you're better off without her.
2007-12-15 20:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♥rogue♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be honest with her or you will break her heart.
Dont be harsh though.
Be honest and friendly.
Dont lead her on by taking her out to do so, as thats embarassing for her. And it makes it harder on her.
hope this helps.
good luck.
x
2007-12-15 20:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by :) 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just dont answer her calls & when she asks why - just tell her she is becoming a bit of a pest - if you dont have the guts to stand up to her...she will keep doing it!! start as you mean to go on!
2007-12-15 20:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up.
Tell her that you'd like her to stop calling.
This is part of being a grown up and dating.
2007-12-15 20:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear...not good. Can you bar numbers on your phone? if so do it! does she know your address? if so don't answer the door.
it sounds harsh but you might have to be firm and tell her out right.
Ha, good luck...rather you than me!
2007-12-15 20:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋