We have been married for 10 years, we have 2 children still at home with us. I work day shift and he works 1130p-730am. He has various days off during the week while I have steady weekends. The problem is that he does absolutely nothing around the house. He says its because he has a penis and I don't. I work a full day and then come home to a sinkful of dirty dishes, laundry to be done, housecleaning and general other stuff. On top of that he is always making comments that we do not have sex. Like I am ever in the mood. Tried counseling which was so much fun that I would rather stick needles in my eye. When we first were married I was home and had no problem doing the housework but the past 4 years of working outside the home and then working more at home are really taking its toll. So my plan is to hire a cleaning person for the bigger chores and tell him if he doesn't want that then he has to pitch in. Any comments????
2007-12-15
03:39:55
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