We went out for three years. I really liked him.... and i still do. I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!! HELP.
2007-12-15 04:27:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get over it he doesnt like you shut up and move on
2007-12-15 04:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and think about yourself and the relationship. Do you see it working out if you get back together? Why did you break up? If it was something that you can fix and work on then it could be worth a shot. How long have you been separated and has he moved on? You need to post more information and details if you want a specific answer.
2007-12-15 12:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by TG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find out, let me know - i have the same problem :'(
i was thinking though that maybe trying to meet other people might help you get over yer ex and you will just really like this new guy and he will like you back so then everything is happy and even. i mean, if you eventually move on from this ex guy then there is not point in trying to make him like you anymore, if you fall in love with another guy you won't be hurting from the ex and therefore not be hurting anymore.
i'm working on this myself.
and shut-up yourself to all those people who post USELESS answers to questions like these who all you have to say is "get over it and move on" - - NOT THAT SIMPLE - AND IF YOU'VE EVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP LONG ENOUGH TO GET ATTACHED TO SOMEONE EMOTIONALLY AND INTIMATLY THEN YOU WOULDN'T BE SAYING S**T LIKE THAT. so YOU SHUT UP!!!!!!!!!!
ahemm..... sorry about that...
i've also herd that if you PRETEND (ok sounds stupid i know) that you are over him long enough then you WILL eventually be over him. time apparenally heals all wounds.
i guess i really didn't answer your question properly cuz you didn't ask how to get over a person you asked how to make them like you again..... well you UNFORTUNATLY can't MAKE a person like you. they either do or they don't, it's all in the way their mind operates - whether it attracts them to you or it doesn't..... it sucks large, i know, but if there was some kind of magic spell that you could cast over people that you love that don't love you back i would most certainly share it with you. i'd like it myself actually. even though i'm only 16, i dated the guy for a month, Dec 5th - Jan 17th of last year.....
:'(
good luck, and lemme kow if there ARE ways to make people love you! ;)
2007-12-15 12:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You take what you have learned in this relationship and move on. Look at what did not last or did not work out is really a waste of time. And ask yourself, "Do I really want to be with someone who does not want to be with me?"
2007-12-15 12:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by TAT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force another person to have the feelings you want them to have.
If it's over, it's over.
Distract yourself, reflect on what went wrong, and move on.
You'll get over him.
2007-12-15 16:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex's are just that ex's, and at your age, very young, should remain as such! Move on in your life.
2007-12-15 12:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 get him back by showing ur nice attitude. try 2 remember wat was d thing dat he found terrific in u n try 2 win his heart by pacifying him dat u'll b wid him in his every hour of need n den c u'll get him back!
2007-12-15 12:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ada S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u break up? repost with more juice to squeeze!
2007-12-15 12:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by Martin512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋