so just randomly she brakes it off cuase shes stressing over other things and it was pointless cuase its just a phase shes gonig thru and im sure it will pass so y brake up right? and like she never even told her best friend that shes was with me this whole time and weve been together for like 5 months and i never ment for any of it to happen cuase i really love her..it wasnt even that great it was more of an anger bang..and all i could think of was my ex while were were having sex..and i didnt even wana kiss the bestfriend after it all happend...
2007-12-15 03:52:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well whats done is done,
you cant change anything you did.
im sure your ex wont want to
get back togther cuz word might
get around since you did it
with her best friend & all, not a
smart choice, theres nothing you
can do about the situation.
2007-12-15 03:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All i can say is, Wow!
First of all, you shouldnt have even done what you did if you cared about her that much. I can understand that you did it out of anger and hurt, but I would have taken a different path.
I cant promise you that the chic you banged who was her best friend wont go back and tell your ex.
The best thing I would do would be to leave it alone, let your ex have her space and then try and work things out when she's ready. If you guys were really meant to be then she will come back, and if she really cares then she will understand and accept what took place.
Good luck
2007-12-15 03:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends, If you care for your ex and want her back you may need to tell her. If you don't tell her, her friend will tell her. So that's just a chance you have to take. Just be honest who knows what will com of this. The friend was dirty to sleep with you if the girl was her best friend I would never sleep with my best friend ex. Sorry to say you can expect that of a man. Just let her know that her friend isn't her friend she may not believe you though, cause the friend is going to twist the story to make her self look good. Hope this helped.
2007-12-15 04:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by missluckiecharm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go apologize to your exs bestfriend. Tell them you are sorry and what you have done. It was very wrong of you to do this and drag another person into the breakup. Now this other girl will feel used by you and really hurt. It was a terrible thing to do to another person.....even close to rape, I think. You have led her to believe that you want to be her boyfriend and you don't even like her at all.
2007-12-15 03:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and her best friend betrayed the sanctity of a relationship and friendship. It's a shame, it sucks and you regret it. There is nothing you can do other then be honest and allow her to figure out where she wants to stand with you...you gave up equal power in the relationship for however many minutes of pleasure. Oh well.
2007-12-15 04:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, what do you do? Looks to me like you've already done it. She broke up with you, and if she wants you back, she'll have to deal it. Besides, what kind of best friend would sleep with her ex-boyfriend the day after?
And what is an "anger bang?"
2007-12-15 04:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by lisawithcats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are such a jerk... u say its because shes stressing over things but ur ex most likely broke it off cuz she realized you were a shallow A$$hole ya dig?
I mean gosh now she'll deff. wanna date you.
I hope you never get another girlfriend..try getting therapy instead. Anger Bang? Puh-lease
2007-12-15 04:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by TheyCallMeClaire© 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....hmmmm. srry if i offend you
1 take the abortion, no further complications in life
2 keep the babe and be like never go to college
3 run away to home
4 keep on lovin the bf and be with her the whole way
5 (sounds cruel but) send the baby to an orphanage..
(y did i say that...)
6 dont do anything, just let it flow with time
7 pray to God and hope for the best
2007-12-15 04:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by AsteRisque 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense...
Your an ***. You're not mature enough for a relationship at all. You don't know what love is.
Don't say that you love someone if you can't wait for a phase in her life to pass. And ESPECIALLY when your willing to have sex with her BEST FRIEND out of SPITE.
Again... you're an ***.
2007-12-15 03:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by A Firefighter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say you lack the maturity to be in any genuine monogamous relationship at this point in time. Put your energy into education, (like spelling), job training and just growing up...seriously.
2007-12-15 03:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Marie Q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋