Family & Relationships - 15 December 2007

well i just met this boy, hes very very smaart.
and hes not like other guys i've been with
hes in the top 10% in his class.
hes already started on college, won in the homecoming.
and is cute. im usually with the bad guys.

well we hung out this week alittle bit,
but my moms outta town today, and she took my phone cuz
i went over my minutes.
he asked if i wanted to go outta town with him..
and i know im gonna have to lie if i doo.
but i really like him, and hes a good guy.
my plan is to say im spending the night with my friend,
then have him pick me up there...
but i dont have my phone for my parents to calll so theyll
call her, but i wont be there..???!!
ill be bacc around 8-9 tho i hope,
he wants to leave about 5-6.
i dont know wat to do, but i wanna go with him.
HELP?!!

2007-12-15 08:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hate my mam and have done since i was 10 ( i'm now 13) she has just told me to my face that she depises me and she doesnt care what happens to me and she keeps threatning me by saying i will go into care all because she is on a diet and she blackmailed me into giving her a sweet because i had said its for her own good. i have considred killing her twice now what can i do to keep positive until i go to university and i am free from her, also why is she like this ?

2007-12-15 08:02:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hello!

My wife and I just had our first child one week ago exactly, but today she was saying to me how thankful she was she would have a period for a while. She just kept saying things about it and i did not know how to answer. Does this annoying you too guys?

2007-12-15 08:01:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am moving house next week and told my sons that I would appreciate their help but tried not to put guilt on them. My 22 yr old son has 2 days off work and would have to travel 4 hrs to get here, at first he said he'd help but now does not want to. His 19 yr old brother is coming over for midday on the move day, my sister will be here the day before, my husband is totally disabled and cannot do anything. Should adult children be expected to help out?

2007-12-15 07:59:38 · 11 answers · asked by youdancin 2 in Family

I've seen plenty of articles on the etiquette of women wearing white to a wedding, but nothing with regard to male guests or the wedding party.

We're getting married on the beach on a tropical island, and I (the groom) am planning on wearing a white suit with a red shirt (complements the bridesmaid dresses) and a white tie. I am also planning on having the groomsmen wear white suits with the same red shirt w/o the tie. Is this ok?

2007-12-15 07:57:33 · 7 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Weddings

Is this a good way to find out if he likes me?

My friend is going to call my crush and say: Haley and I are going to the movies tonight and so is Blake and Molly.

But you need to sit by Haley and I because Blake and Molly will be making out the whole time.

And if he says no then he doesnt like me. Is this ok?

2007-12-15 07:56:29 · 24 answers · asked by iLoveHim<33 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 07:55:55 · 21 answers · asked by lzbthsykes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

thnx

2007-12-15 07:55:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm in the 8th grade- 13 yrs. old. i have never had a boy like me. all the people in my class had at least had a boy like them. i'm not a big jerk, i'm actually pretty nice. i'm not the prettiest girl in school, but i don't think i'm completely ugly! i'm so upset! everytime i like a guy, they never like me back! i don't know what to do about it! does anybody have any advice?

2007-12-15 07:54:29 · 3 answers · asked by anonymous user 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 07:52:43 · 1 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i was wit my ex for 6 months n then we broke up cuz he was goin to a different skool, well 5 months later i started dating my current boyfriend and have been with him for a lil more than two years....but my ex still has feelings for me and he has tried to get back with me since then. my boyfriend and i had problems cuz of so i stopped talkin to him. but now he wants to JUST be friends! but im not sure thats right! wat should i do?

2007-12-15 07:51:02 · 4 answers · asked by *~dOrKaMoUs~* 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont want anything to do with him anymore because he moved away .. i just wanna return the small favor of saying happy birthday bcuz he wished me on my bday 5 months ago .. WHAT is better?

saying happy birthday online or txting or even saying happy birthday .. i just will feel guilty for not saying anything cuz last year i didnt say anything n it hurt him

2007-12-15 07:51:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to tell you my story...
when am 15 old i loved old girl (25) then she married now...
then i love when am 18 agirl and she left me for alot reasons..
so i stop all relations. Now am 32 age and I met girl with same age in the net . we can call here (x). we start new relation but she had a lot problems with here old lover … she don’t love him as she said.. but that guy have other lover girl and just want the (x) just as wife.
My (x) girl wana leave him now . but she don’t know what to do coz it is 4 years relation, she don’t know what to say to here family and what to tell them why she wants to end it now? I don’t know maybe she love him, or maybe coz she have relation 4 years. for me I start love (x) to much and now I have problem with here, I need here but I don’t know if she loves me or not or just respect me. i don’t know what to do to be with here with here problem then what. am so tired now. I want here to be happy . some time am thinking to love here from my side only.

2007-12-15 07:47:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last night was a dance and me and my bf went. while we were there we danced alot and had alot of fun. after 2 hours the last song was always a slow song and we danced during that one too. at the end i kissed him (we just started going out and never kissed before) in front of his and my friends and the song ended and we walked outside together. all this morning he hasn't called or anything and he was all quiet outside. we're both in 8th grade and are really great friends. he's a bit of a dork and i doubt a girl ever kissed him before. what does he saying from being all quiet and not calling me for once?

2007-12-15 07:46:54 · 19 answers · asked by Coraloni 4 in Singles & Dating

Iam going out to dinner with a female friend for dinner tonight. We have known each other for a year and are pretty comfortable with each other. We have never hooked up or anything.. just friends (for now) Should i pay for her dinner tonight.. would it be weird if I let her pay? Iam going to offer to pay at first and I know she will try and pay too so should i let her? Thanks for the help.

2007-12-15 07:45:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was overweight when he met me and fell in love with me. He told me once that he didn't care about my weight he loved me for me. Then he told me that his friends were saying she's so pretty if she'd just lose weight. Now he bugs me about my weight constantly and complained that he hates to see me stuff my face. The worst part of it is I hardly ever eat in front of him. He's turned me into a closet eater. If he fell for me overweight why would he change & start bugging me. I weigh 200 pounds and before I met him I had lost 85 pounds. He asked me to lose weight for him and I said I would never lose weight for a man I lose it for me and he was offended. What are your views on this?

2007-12-15 07:42:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it slutty if I want to see the goods berfore I buy them? You know what i mean.I've been dating this guy i dont really love but i still want to see if i take it to a diffrent level will it help? I dont know if it will or wont. I want it to but I'm not sure.I say i love you all the time but i really dont mean it. Am i crazy for wanting this relationship to work? The truth is i really do love him like a brother. And that sucks! What if i do see the goods and dont like them? I'm totally clueless!

2007-12-15 07:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by tiffinynb93 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-15 07:41:00 · 39 answers · asked by Baystar Homes K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out that he has a newborn baby with his new girlfriend, which means that while we were seperated, and going through divorce proceedings, he got her pregnant. I dont care about him cheating or anything, I just want to know if I can persue this legally even though our divorce is final?

2007-12-15 07:39:31 · 21 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well im twelve and myy bf asked me if i could show him my pussy.
should i??

2007-12-15 07:38:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew this guy at work for a few months, but we really got to know each other a few weeks ago. We would talk alot; he told me that he had never had a serious gf before, and that he really wanted to date me. I'm 17, not allowed to date, so I told him I'd try to work something out.

He told me that he could never do a relationship that was just over the phone and at work, so he said, "let's be friends with benefits." I did sexual stuff to him once, for a few hrs... not all the way, but close... it was my first time doing anything like that, i didn't even enjoy it...
Afterwards, my emotions were really messed up, i was feeling horrible and i told him.
Things were weird, he didn't talk to me as much afterwards...

He didn't act totally like he wanted to date me anymore... we didn't talk as much, but we still talked.

2007-12-15 07:36:43 · 6 answers · asked by Just a Girl ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

in comp.lab i was sitting next to my friend and they got up.my crush sat down next to me after comp.lab my friends started aggravating me about it and he was right behind us.help?

2007-12-15 07:35:16 · 14 answers · asked by miley cyrus rox 2 in Friends

The first time i french kissed i thought that it felt SO weird, it was all slimy and stufff...

p.s. i love it now though..lol!

2007-12-15 07:34:58 · 3 answers · asked by Me! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well my friend likes this guy and the guy is my friend too.
he wants a sweet way to ask her out and he is asking me.
at our local zoo they set up lights in the holiday season. he knows he is gonna do it there cause it is pretty romantic. he just wants more than a simple "will you go out with me?"

any ideas

2007-12-15 07:33:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my friend has like this guy for over 2 years. he is a guy in my school who is one of the guys who thinks he NEEDS a girl friend. so once he dumps one he goes to a new one.but my friend really likes him.and i dont know how to tell her that he's probly just going to end up using her or dumping her after the first day.should i tell her or should i just do nothing and help her win her guy?? beacuse if i tell her i will be a good friend but she may get mad at e for crushing her hopes.but i know if i don't then she WILL get hurt.

2007-12-15 07:31:50 · 19 answers · asked by Loverr 1 in Singles & Dating

HEY iiZ iiT BAD iiF ii LiiKE MA BF BUT ii LiiKE ANOTHER GUY BETTER BUT ii DONT WANT TO BREAK UP WiiT MA BF FO DA NEW GUY ii LiiKE, iiZ DAT BAD???

2007-12-15 07:27:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this guy since I was 14 and he was about 16 or 17. Our friendship of course was online, through distance. As the years went on and we grew up we continued to talk. We became close. Sharing dreams, goals, hopes, experiences, definitely relationship problems. When ever we were single there was always a flirtation between us. But never anything serious.

Here we are now 20 and 23. We've lived decent lives with interesting stories to tell. We're a bit more grown up and mature. Still going through with the struggles of life.

Recently I was talking to him online. He has a difficult day with his job and school so days are stressful for him. When talking out of no where he says he wants me to come visit and soon. All the years weve known each other we have yet to meet. I was excited because Id love to meet him finally.

Since then hes talked about just running away together, livinging happily ever after. Even said 'I want to love you' at a random moment.(cont'd)

2007-12-15 07:27:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok When my bf and me broke up (I'm 14 by the way) I realized that I still wasn't really over him. So I wrote him a note during class that said "So r u over me or what?" so he wrote back "not really, I still like u about 30%" so I wrote that I still liked him about 30% too. But then he wrote: "I sorta have a girlfriend now" So I decided not to write back, because I felt kinda bad when I read those words. Anyways, when the bell rang, he went straight up 2 this girl and made sure I was watching him before he gave her a note. Anyways, a close friend of my ex likes me, and I think I should give him a chance because I'm beginning to like him now and because I just want to forget about my ex. Do you think it's a good idea to go out with my ex boyfriend's friend? By the way, I knew him since we were 9, so I really know him well (my ex's friend)
So my questions are:
1.Is he trying to make me jealous or what?
2.Should I go out with my ex's friend?

Thanks!!

2007-12-15 07:27:15 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ღαsнℓэч vαиэssαღ♥™ 4 in Friends

Nice = smart, sexy, open-minded, hard-working, faithful, can cook well, clean, confident, and wants children. I'm worried about his happiness.

2007-12-15 07:26:00 · 14 answers · asked by shlomogon 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok- so this girl that I like, I text messaged her on Wed. and asked her if she wanted to hang out later that night. She responded back that she couldn't because she already had plans, but she said, "maybe this weekend?" So just like 20 minutes ago, I text messaged her and asked her what her plans were for tonight, she said that she's going to a hockey game. So I responded back saying, " Oh nice. Maybe we can meet up after the game." She just responded back with a text that said, "Yeah." That was it. What do you make of this? Should I call her after the game? Or does she not even want to meet up or is she trying to play hard to get or what? Also, we used to date each other and we liked each other a lot. But that was a while ago and we remained friends, but lately she has been wanting to hang out again. Any and all opinions here are appreciated! THANKS!

2007-12-15 07:23:11 · 5 answers · asked by DN1503 4 in Singles & Dating