ok When my bf and me broke up (I'm 14 by the way) I realized that I still wasn't really over him. So I wrote him a note during class that said "So r u over me or what?" so he wrote back "not really, I still like u about 30%" so I wrote that I still liked him about 30% too. But then he wrote: "I sorta have a girlfriend now" So I decided not to write back, because I felt kinda bad when I read those words. Anyways, when the bell rang, he went straight up 2 this girl and made sure I was watching him before he gave her a note. Anyways, a close friend of my ex likes me, and I think I should give him a chance because I'm beginning to like him now and because I just want to forget about my ex. Do you think it's a good idea to go out with my ex boyfriend's friend? By the way, I knew him since we were 9, so I really know him well (my ex's friend)
So my questions are:
1.Is he trying to make me jealous or what?
2.Should I go out with my ex's friend?
Thanks!!
2007-12-15 07:27:15 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ღαsнℓэч vαиэssαღ♥™ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well when me and him started going out he told me that he loved me 100% but when we broke up he said that he was desperately trying to get over me, but that he still wasn't. And when he wrote me that he had a gf he looked at me as if he were waiting to see my reaction. He has been very nice to me lately, but what I don't get is, why is he giving notes to his "gf" right IN FRONT of me???? And everytime I talk about his friend (the one I plan to go out with) he seems jealous and wants to change the subject....what does that mean?
2007-12-15 09:22:26 · update #1
you should go out with your exes friend. i'm thirteen and i can't stand those off again on again relationships beleive me its a waste of time. and just a broken record (same thing over and over) this new guy adds flavor to you life. who cares if the ex is trying to make you jealous. your beyond that.
live life to its fullest
sympathetic hugs;
2007-12-15 07:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Free-bee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you first need to spend more time doing school work, and less passing notes! Second, the guy is an obvious tool, he made sure you were watching when he gave her the note, so he wants you to know he has moved on. 30 % is not exactly a flattering amount. As for the ex's friend, stay right out of that mess! You would have to be around the ex all the time, and some might take it as an act of desperation, as opposed to you actually liking the guy. Do your school work!!
2007-12-15 07:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I don't think he's trying to make you jealous. He just got a new girlfriend, and 30% sounds like an acquaintance.
2. It is probably NOT a good idea to go out with your ex's friend. It could split up their friendship, make you look bad (it would look a little like you're trying to get close to your ex again), or both.
2007-12-15 07:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by Yahoo person 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy whoever it quite is, is so no longer worth it.. i don't be attentive to how previous you're yet once you're in extreme college or junior extreme opportunities are high which you at the instant are not likely to marry this guy. So what i'm attempting to assert is recover from him. it may additionally be style of relaxing to make him thoroughly jealous, so get a warmer guy it quite is prepared to help you with it and make out proper in front of him, or do regardless of he did to you proper decrease back
2016-11-27 03:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still very young and boys that age are SOOO immature. It would take a lot more than 30% to keep me around! Honestly, I don't think he knows what he wants but I'd know for sure I didn't want him. Consider yourself FREE of him and yes, of course, go with the other one. And honey, don't try to hurry through your teen years; they'll be gone soon enough. Stay safe.
2007-12-15 08:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is making you jealous or he wouldnt have went to his girl friend right away when the bell rang. he could have waited at least when you went out. he dont have feelings for you. And i think its fair for you to go out with this new guy.
2007-12-15 08:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by ranjumthw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would dare say forget it all and focus on school, relationships will come and go but your school record won't ever change. Who cares what Juan carlitos thinks de ti aritta, la cosa impoartante es donde estas in your life in 10 years. Becuase in 10 anos Juan Carlitos won't even remember nada de ti ni tu de el y estaras actively engaged in something mucho mejor.... la universidad.
2007-12-15 07:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by gklein99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 yeah hes trying to make you jelous
and 2 if you realy like him then sure there is nothing wrong
2007-12-15 07:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋