ask about love?

Question

i want to tell you my story...
when am 15 old i loved old girl (25) then she married now...
then i love when am 18 agirl and she left me for alot reasons..
so i stop all relations. Now am 32 age and I met girl with same age in the net . we can call here (x). we start new relation but she had a lot problems with here old lover … she don’t love him as she said.. but that guy have other lover girl and just want the (x) just as wife.
My (x) girl wana leave him now . but she don’t know what to do coz it is 4 years relation, she don’t know what to say to here family and what to tell them why she wants to end it now? I don’t know maybe she love him, or maybe coz she have relation 4 years. for me I start love (x) to much and now I have problem with here, I need here but I don’t know if she loves me or not or just respect me. i don’t know what to do to be with here with here problem then what. am so tired now. I want here to be happy . some time am thinking to love here from my side only.

Answer 1

Exactly, so close I almost wanted to kiss you!!! This was almost there!!! "some time am thinking to love here from my side only" Give her a purpose, give her a new life, give her more then just the hope of love, give her the promise. That IF she does descide to leave him, you well support her 110% in everything you can do, any less, and you ask that of her, is selfish. Realize that, unless you can give her your all, don't give her nothing and make her BELIVE you'll give her your all, anything less, is were you've been sitting. So if you want to obsesse about this, think how you can help her with the problems she see's with getting with her. If you take care of those, all thats left, is the choice, give her the choice, take everything else away......