i hate my mam and have done since i was 10 ( i'm now 13) she has just told me to my face that she depises me and she doesnt care what happens to me and she keeps threatning me by saying i will go into care all because she is on a diet and she blackmailed me into giving her a sweet because i had said its for her own good. i have considred killing her twice now what can i do to keep positive until i go to university and i am free from her, also why is she like this ?
2007-12-15 08:02:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If she have told you she hates you 2, and u``ve tried to get along with her so hard, even tought, she hasent realised, now for gte it!. u have something from your side u hate her 2, if thats true she telling u she hates u should hurt you, so dont pay attention to her, whatever she says you instead of fighting her say "yeah mom, its true, sorry" i mean "AGREE" with what he says! because maybe she enjoys fighting with u so dont give her that pleasure! luck!
2007-12-15 08:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please consider calling her doctor... tell them what her behaviors are, and asking them to call her and tell her that it is time for an appointment... so they can give her an evaluation, and perhaps a referral to another doctor. She may be having major psychological problems or an imbalance causing her to behave badly.
The first thing I thought of was diabetes, which will mess with everything she has. My husband was diagnosed as diabetic this year and has done so much better on all levels now that we know what is going on.
Consider talking to a school counselor... who may tell you the same thing and may also have other means of accessing the system on your behalf in the case of abuse.
Try talking to other family members... perhaps your grandparents... you may need to go stay with them for a while.
About all you can do other than that, is keep a low profile and try to hold up your own end of things so you will stay out of trouble... keep your grades up, clean up after yourself, whatever little chores... graduate. Good luck.
2007-12-15 16:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
now this can be called stress but u do need to let some1 no about ur mother she needs to see a counselor and maybe lol u need to go live wit a friend for awhile
2007-12-15 16:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by beautful girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom shouldnt be blaming you.. i know what your going through though.. minus the diet part?
you should tell someone about your mom.
it makes me mad when parents treat their kids like that,
because when they were going to have kids,
what did they expect right?
2007-12-15 16:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by dolledupwords 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant hate ur mom if u hate her than u hate GOD...
2007-12-15 16:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋