Nice = smart, sexy, open-minded, hard-working, faithful, can cook well, clean, confident, and wants children. I'm worried about his happiness.
2007-12-15 07:26:00 · 14 answers · asked by shlomogon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, obviously these people that have answered don't get your question. Don't worry about these dumb answers to your question. People are bored and overly critical. Yes, Christianity and Judaism are similar, but they are very different in a lot of ways too. And through out history people don't care about the similarties. Unfortunately, this is still the mentality around the world. Now to answer your question. Your friend must be Jewish and is having problems with his wife because of her over zealous Christianity. Tell him to worry about getting a divorce first (if he wants one) and then he should take a break from women for a while. After that he can start dating again. I don't think the girl would have to be Jewish. She can be agnostic, atheist, or not very religious. But when you mix someone who is very, very religious with someone who is not or a different religion all together, then there could be a problem. Obviously, your friend is having problems with the vast differences between them and her being extremely religious is just one of them. There are always deeper issues and usually not just one.
2007-12-15 17:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorcing Christians is pretty similar to divorcing Jews. You go see an attorney, pay an ungodly (no pun intended) amount to file and try to get as much as you can out of the deal.
You find nice Jewish girls by looking in a synogogue rather than a church.
BUT, it's not exaclty your business, particularly if you have no evidence that his happiness is compromised, AND the implication that Christian women are not "nice" (by your definition) is offensive.
Missy: No. No, no, no, no. They have the same roots, but that's about it. The Christian belief is that Christ is the Messiah. Jews are still waiting for the Messiah, and feel pretty strongly that Jesus Christ is NOT him. Basically, they're the same, except for the most important part. I know, beside the point, but for some reason, I have to correct people today. LOL
2007-12-15 07:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can date, and have fun, However, in the bible it states do NOT be unequally yoked. If the girl is an observant Jew, then she will choose to marry another observant Jew, so these questions might be asked.........these are questions you have to ask the girl first, and her parents if you want to obtain respect, and to see her background. Being kind and asking questions is the best way to go about it, and perhaps you just never know it might work out. Give it a try. Just think if they do marry, how will they raise the children Jewish or Christian, and if they say both, there will be confusion, or they may choose no religion altogether.......So it's mostly on the children who will suffer, if left undecided.
2016-05-24 02:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl who is Nice = smart, sexy, open-minded, hard-working, faithful, can cook well, clean, confident, and wants children wouldnt marry your friend who divorced his Christian wife.
2007-12-15 07:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be so ignorant.
Jesus was Jewish. Christianity incorporates the Torah in our holy book. All the stuff that's in the Jewish holy book, like Genises, Exodus, Ecclestiastes, Job, and all the others, are part of Christianity.
Your friend needs to understand that Christianity and Judaism are very similar. Christians and Jews essentially share a relgious heritage.
2007-12-15 07:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it is a mistake to be thinking about the "next" wife, when the marriage is not over (legally anyway). Vulgar even. If he is Jewish, there are singles groups at the synagogue but first he has alot of work to do on himself.
Oh!! and myob :)
2007-12-15 07:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pace the floors frantically and tell him until he gets that divorce and finds the girl of his dreams, you will not have one minute of rest as you're just so worried about him.
2007-12-15 07:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is his choice! a friend does not try to break up a marriage,being married is a lifetime commitment.he knew he married a Christian and she knew he was Jewish,this is not your business.a true friend supports and honors their friends even if you do not agree with him.as long as he is not harming himself or anyone else,he is not breaking any laws then you need to accept that.good luck to you and MERRY CHRISTMAS!
2007-12-15 07:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you can do is be by his side.Give him gr8 advice and be an awesome friend to him.Good luck.
2007-12-15 07:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
um, ok? jewish and christian are tenichaly the same thing exsept for a couple of differances
2007-12-15 07:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋