I know it's a party, you're supposed to have fun but he was flirting like a real player... when usually he's quite normal. I was really surprised. we're together for some months now. he said he was doing nothing wrong... but I really was shocked when I saw all this. too much for a quiet and nice bf he always used to be. he talked so much about being true to each other and now this... I know it's nothing important but can't help feeling hurt. Feel like he lied to me about his true self
2007-12-15 08:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by ania361 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was not at this party. saw a video
2007-12-15 08:59:22 · update #1
he was flirting, there is no doubt about it. he says he doesn't see what's wrong, he didn't mean to do anything bad... but telling a girl who shakes her booty in front of you common, common... not so innocent
2007-12-15 10:44:06 · update #2
aww honey, I am sorry. This is life. People lie to us, guys cheat on us, but life must go on. He is not the only fish in the sea. Im sure you will have plenty, plenty more boyfriends before all is said and done. He doesn't seem very honest so my advice to you would be, be careful. You might get hurt. Take care of yourself. Everything always works out in the end. It will be ok!
hugs
smoke star
2007-12-15 09:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad of course and probably grow doubtful of him being faithful in the future. If someone truly loves you, they would not flirt with anyone else. Being nice to girls is one thing, but flirting is over the line. You need to talk to him about how you feel. If he doesn't think it's a problem, then maybe you are better off without him.
2007-12-15 17:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about it. Ask him what he was doing, and if he was indeed flirting. It may have just appeared that way or you could be overreacting. Or, he may have been flirting. You need to talk to him about it and find out. If he was, let him know that you do not like it in the least and he needs to refrain from doing it.
2007-12-15 17:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable and hurt when he flirts with other girls. Tell him you know its nothing big but you would rather that he didn't. If he cares about you he'll understand how you feel and won't do it again.
2007-12-15 17:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kate; 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him before he brings home something the doctors have to name....
Love being only a few months old, his only flirtations should be with you. He can't help but notice other women. He can help how he reacts to them, especially when you are around.
2007-12-15 17:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by MercurialMe :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set him down and see if y can work it out and tell him hoe you fell that is what i would do in that place if you find him doing that a Gan then slap that girl and show he how it is don
2007-12-15 20:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
darn those cameras!! he got caught!! har har!! just kick em to the curb!! atleast you found out now and not 9 m0nths later!!
2007-12-15 17:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by skimad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋