And says its no big deal and his not addicted to it and can stop at any time but wont because he is enjoying it at this point in his life and wants you to understand as their partner and accept it.
2007-12-15 09:25:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes I would and I wouldn't even listen to his ****. I have seen too much bad stuff come from drugs.
2007-12-15 09:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn straight I would!
If someone's doing coke and doesn't think they have a problem, that's the time you know they're not dealing with reality. I'm not going to be sucked down into anything trying to hold onto someone like that when they're not in the real world and sane.
They can accept that some things won't be tolerated by their partner--and drugs are one of the biggies. Endangering kids and pets is another. Abuse of spouse is another.
2007-12-15 09:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop that person pretty fast. How do you know it is occasionally? How much money does he spend on the habit? When is he going to start asking you for money?
It is very difficult to expect someone doing drugs to support themselves. More often than not they become dependent on the drug and on a constant stream of money to keep the addiction up. Sometimes they will resort to more extreme measures, such as robbery.
To me, at least, it is not worth the risk to you or your future. There are many fish in the pond and many of them don't do drugs.
2007-12-15 09:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by cscpianoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get rid of him, if you don't do that stuff, you'll just end up having to hang around people that do - and there comes a point where it's really no fun to be around them. Plus addiction sucks and the addiction rate for both those is incredibly high.
2007-12-15 09:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Maris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
X I wouldn't worry about as much, but coke is NEVER good news. If he really cares about you he'll stop, if he can, it depends how you feel about them though, if you really love them it might be in your best interest to try and talk/work things out with them. I'd have to say if my b/f did something that dangerous I would dump him or give him the ultimatum to stop or I'd break up with him, but that isn't what I suggest you do, I know my b/f and I know he'd stop doing it rather than lose me, I don't know how your partner would react, so I suggest trying to talk to them and try and convince them to stop.
2007-12-15 09:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES - there is never an excuse and if he wont stop then he is only worth getting rid of before he starts to drag you into that life too.
Say goodbye and move on, get out while you can and go enjoy life
2007-12-15 09:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by geebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't leave him if it was just for that.
I would try to reason him and if he doesn't want to stop, then it's his decision. But if he's a good guy, I wouldn't leave him for that.
Of course if things were very serious as in getting married serious, I wouldn't accept it. But I'm still young (17), and not close to getting married, so it's not such a big deal for me.
2007-12-15 09:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats the comparable question that I easily have!! i in basic terms caught my boyfriend snorting rails at a social gathering, so he lied this finished time. It truly bugs me.. i mean alot. if he call's me i think of i'll get him to bypass with me to drug and alchohal councilling. I noted as a pair lines and that they pronounced its extremely worry-loose this too take place. I have not got any clue if it works yet im gonna attempt, we were dating for 2 years tho so it sort of sounds like its worth fixing properly i wish. in any case goodluck to you
2016-12-11 05:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd never leave a guy for it, unless it got out of hand. If he still did it when we are married and raising a family then that is wrong, but if it's just a one off when he's young I wouldn't mind too much.
2007-12-15 09:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave him cuz coke and x are very addicting and i doubt that hes not addicted and hun i think if u stay with him u might end up in alot of crap that u probably dont know about u know concerning from who he gets that stuff from and also he might be overdosed from it one day cuz X ..well if he cant control himself then he will end up in a hospital.
2007-12-15 09:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave! Drug addiction can't be controlled, and it will only cause pain for all of those around him. I have been around some in this situation and can speak this from experience. E mail me if you want.
2007-12-15 09:28:33 · answer #11 · answered by RB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋