JUst thinking that christmas is coming , new year's eve is coming and I don't have a bf to be with makes me feel very sad !
Unfortunatly the only guy that I like is going to his country during all this ( and I'm sure that he is going to see his ex girlfriend because she lives in his country)
Believe me I feel so dippressed right now , I need a guy that will be there for me , that will take me out , make me happy and give me gifts . So my ex boyfriend called me 2 days ago that he wanted to talk to me ....so I don't know if he could replace this guy for this period because I need company , even though my ex is a jerk sometimes .
What do you guys think I should do????? By the way this is the only place where I can express my feelings and where I get good advise .
2007-12-15 09:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't got much friends ( and I know they won't be there for me !
I feel lonely!
2007-12-15 09:32:38 · update #1
Aww I feel your pain hun! A lot of people do. I'm single as well which makes me kind of sad. I've got me sights set on this really fantastic guy, we're not dating, but I wish we were. He's pretty much my best friend, so I'm just going to spend some time with him and see what happens. You never know!
Why not trying to spend the holidays with some close girlfriends, or perhaps go visit your family? They may take your mind off of men for awhile.
Happy Holidays!
2007-12-15 09:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who says a significant other is required for enjoying the holidays? Christmas is about spending time with family, anyhow. Don't fall back on your ex because it likely won't work out and it will just be more frustrating in the end. Instead, concentrating on having fun while being single. See your friends over the school break, visit with family, relax and have time to yourself. Bake Christmas cookies or go ice skating or bowling with a group of friends. There are lots of things to entertain yourself that don't require a guy!
2007-12-15 09:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was alone for about 5 New Years eves (my BF worked doing sound for bands those nights), two Thanksgivings and one Christmas for various reasons.
Rather than wallow in a 'I'm SO alone' mood I was finding myself in, I turned myself completely around and made those times into a 'this is TREAT ME night' and did things I'd wanted to do for a long time. Go to a spa for a massage! Go see the movie you wanted then go out for dessert afterwards. Grab a couple of good flicks, make popcorn and pizza and have fun.
If you need to be around people, call places and ask if they need volunteers--old age homes, the animal shelter, foster kids groups, etc. Your community newspaper often cover things that need volunteer time, and these may only require you to blow up balloons, to talk to people, to play cards, to carry a few things, whatever.
2007-12-15 09:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need love honey.
Everyone does.
The Holidays are no different.
Being single for the holidays doesn't mean that you have to be sad or miserable.
Any time that you are alone that is when you focus on your own improvement and desires.
Please don't bother "searching" for someone to love you for the holidays. I am not saying that you shouldnt date and flirt, just make sure you put yourself out there and talk to everyone who is friendly. This is how the most interesting things happen. I met this wonderful person by talking to his drunk sister all night! It was awesome, he helped me to dream a bit. You just keep open but work on your foundations. Discover talents. Keep it fresh. Take Care hun. :)-Rachel.
2007-12-15 09:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you should go with the ex because he might just try to get what he wants. Dont let being lonely make you make a bad choice. Go to your friends and find comfort in them. I dont have a girlfriend either but I dont feel lonely cuz i know that my friends are always there for me. You are never alone. If you still find yourself lonely, write back and I will be your friend. LOL Luck my friend
2007-12-15 09:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by honest gdtmes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to meet some new people.
Go to a party! The upside of being single is that you can flirt and not get in trouble with your boyfriend. :]
Another thing you could do is ask your friends if they know of any cute guys that you could possibly hang out with.
Also, being single for the holidays is great, too. I was single, and it was one of the best times I ever had, because you get to hang out with all your friends and not worry about getting that guy to like you.
Good luck!!! ♥
2007-12-15 09:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend or date to make you happy...how happy you are is up to you. Spend the holidays with friends and/or family. Make them as joyous as you desire...single people the world over have fabulous holidays every year, and have no romantic parter to share it with.
That's my "advice". ☺
2007-12-15 09:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew girl, I'll spend the stinking holidays watching tv and crying most likely.
2007-12-15 09:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by Moon 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why do you have to have a man? Hang out with friends or family or something..
2007-12-15 09:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by marya 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Drink and party like a rockstarr!!!
2007-12-15 09:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋