Married 10 yrs & is it normal to lose that spark in the bed?

Question

It's not like when we met. I'm 35 & hardly ever think about sex. I don't watch porn. I don't fool around. I don't mastrubate at all & she's nearly 30 & wants to do it all the time. So it's pretty safe to say my sex drive is low. She's a good woman not no skanky bar fly one nite stand. What can I do other than ED drugs to get up to her speed.

Answer 1

Sometimes I think you have to just do it!!! And for me once you start having sex a little more regularly again you will find that you want it! Being married for 10 years there is a lot of other things that you put first before yourselves. Maybe work,kids,finances. but remember the 2 of you love eachother very much. My husband bought us toys which we had never used before!!!! Try something new !

Answer 2

I think you need to speak with a professional if your only 35 and having problems getting it up it is not a good sign. i do think though your wife is just hitting her sexual peak and her drive is going threw the roof. I would consider getting some form of ED med if that is your problem and lay off the steroids
if your doing those if thats your pic you look massive.

I think some help from your Dr. is a crucial step you chose to marry young lady time to please her in her times of need so if that requires some intervention by drugs then so be it.

Answer 3

I to have been married for 10 yrs and there's times that me and my hubby cant keep our hands of each other and there's times he doesn't wanna do it at all.
I am 30 and i guess i am going thou my phase that i want it all the time.
Why don't you want it anymore , maybe if you try something different maybe it will spark up something u to do it.I ask my husband if hes bored or if there's something wrong with me and he says no to all the questions he just says he just doesn't want it all the time and i don't get it.
Just try to ask yourself why and you will find the answer if not you can also get drugs for it
Good luck

Answer 4

You are just in a sexually low period and she is in a high one. Its unfortunate when this happens. You are a great guy to understand this. I don't think that you are not attracted to her anymore you are just in a low sex peak. You will reach another one in a few years. Educate yourself and her and talk about it often. Be understanding to her sexual needs. Get her a good supply of batteries lol. Best wishes

Answer 5

What do you like to talk about? What other things do you have in common...Marriage is NOT all about SEX..
Go to the movies, go swim together, take a marriage class together to learn that marriage is more about relationship than SEX..
If your relationship is lousy SEX will not keep the marriage going...
You dont need drugs you need a good marriage counselor....

Answer 6

This is a twist for a change. Woman wants but man doesn't.

This definitely cries out of ED problem. Yes, you got to consult first, then go on ED drugs. Don't rush.

If you don't give her what she wants, she is going where she can get it. I can tell you this will happen.

Answer 7

men tend to lose there sex drive in their 30s as woman tend to get theirs....its normal. i dated a guy in his late 30s when i was 25 and we had the same problem.

Answer 8

Don't get offended but by the photo you have posted you look pretty buff steriod use can drive away your sex drive

Answer 9

make her feel good about herself do things to make her emotionally happy men think about sex all day long every 10 minutes they say but woman need to be stimulated with mental things things that stimulate...

Answer 10

idk...but...good luck with tht...