Ok my situation is really complicated so Im going to do this one at a time:
I am in a common law relationship right now. My spouse and I have a kid together and been living together for about 2 years now. Lately him and I are not getting along. Ever since I got a job and got back to school, he became so distant. I've wanted him to go back to school coz I know it will be best for our family but he just keeps procrastinating. I finally just gave up and just live with what I have: a highschool undergraduate.
On the other hand, I started working. I didnt realize that there are several guys at my work that really liked me. I particularly liked this on guy. He's very educated, eloquent, and good looking. Only one problem: he's my supervisor. I learned that h liked me too. So we went out for a couple of dinners and lunches. Soon we decided to have an affair. Only prob w/ this guy is he loves to flirt. Im the jealous type. We just had our major fight last night. Should I work it out with him?
2007-12-15 02:38:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like your getting knee deep into some sh*t. I would try & work it out with your SPOUSE and ditch the guy from the affair for the time being if you have any conscience at all. Just think about your kid maybe?
2007-12-15 02:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Psylence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Hot Moma you have yourself in quite the spot now. Not only are you cheating on your man but the man that your cheating with has no real interest in you other than perhaps having some form of a relationship with. But he is also your supervisor so you must tread water carefully as you could lose your job if your too forceful. Why not take a good look in the mirror and be honest with yourself. If you are that unhappy with this uneducated high school dropout why not end it with him and then get into a relationship that is meaningful and where you don't have to cheat. Not only would you feel better about yourself but you'd be allowing your boyfriend to find someone who might value him better also. As for making things right with your affair that is your BIG decision and one that you must make carefully. Best of luck.
2007-12-15 02:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If the guy that you are having an affair with is flirting with other women then he only looked at you as somebody to sleep with. You should also work it out with your husband. If you both decide that your marriage won't work, then get a divorce. You are basically lying to your husband and to your child. Lying is very detrimental to those who love you. Don't settle with your supervisor. He's not worth it. Treat yourself better. You are being desperate which is why the guy you are having an affair with is not taking you seriously. Just end all of that
2007-12-15 02:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It may be better if you just don't say anything. Hopefully you two were just kissing, becauase that would mentally mess me up for a long, long time. Didn't your friend, Peyton & Colton know what was going on? There are some serious issues here.
2016-05-24 01:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by migdalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off u shouldn't do that to ur husband. try 2 work things out with him at least and talk to him about ur problems. if nothing works then u should divorce...dont have an affair on the poor guy. i doubt he's done that 2 u and he wouldn't like it. besides, think about ur kid. his/her feelings. oh and dump mr. affair guy. flirters are only bad news anyway.
2007-12-15 02:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by cookie monster! RAWR! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes to flirt, yet your name here is hotmamma? You sound like a perfect couple living the American dream.
2007-12-15 02:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by Paul W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not satisfied w/your husband, then you two should discuss it out and see if you want to get a divorce. going behind his back and cheating on him w/another man is not the way to do it.
2007-12-15 02:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your leaving one disaster to get into another one.
2007-12-15 02:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop having the affair ..then your problem will go away..shouldn't have a affair anyway.. that is how it became a problem..
2007-12-15 02:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you no heart? tsk.
2007-12-15 03:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anjo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋