It's better to that then lead him on once I stopped be interested altogether, right? His best friend who was once my friend, pretty much hates me. He tells him it's because I likesomeone else but that's not it I just don't like him as much anymore. But i wasn't trying to hurt him it was for his own good?
2007-12-15 03:15:15 · 11 answers · asked by kate<33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But the poor kid is really really sensitive and we were only going out for 3 weeks and he took it like it was more like 3 years... and seriously I don'tthink it's that big of a deal but he's like making all of his...my friends hate me.
2007-12-15 03:21:02 · update #1
No, if anything you did him a favor. This way, you aren't leading him on. Don't feel bad hun, it's not your fault you fell out of love with him, it just happens sometimes!
Good luck
2007-12-15 03:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best that you were smart enough to break up with him sooner than later. The longer you would have gone out the more attached to you he would have gotten. And don't worry about him, most of the time guys just need time to heal. It may take a while, but he won't always hold a grudge against you. There's no point of going out with him if you don't like him in that way any more.
2007-12-15 03:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Music Addict ♪♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I wish more people would leave relationships when they no longer care about the person. Why waste your life and his? It might hurt but in the end he is better to find someone who can truly love him.
2007-12-15 03:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to follow what your instincts tell you even if it is after 50 years........You should always do what you feel is right even if it hurts him and sometimes even you to do it...Life is too short to regret anything and if you know he is not the one right now, then dont hesitate.....
2007-12-15 03:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by belbiv1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its rong at all
its better than going out wit someone you dont like in that way anymore
anywayz i think your boyfriend would be happier if u did (think of it this way... he wud never want to keep on gonig out wit you if he knew u sercretly didnt like him)
so you made a good choice and there is nothing wrong with it
2007-12-15 03:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what is right for you. Don't let these guys bully you into dating them when you don't like them. I think you are being too nice. From now on, if you date a guy and don't like him, don't go on another date with him. It seems you are giving them false hope that you like them and then breaking their hearts. :)
2007-12-15 03:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong watsoever
in fact i think it was better so that he didnt get to close to make it even harder when u break up
u must do wat it best for urself
try to become friends with him, maybe he will feel as if u guys are still close but not in the same way
2007-12-15 13:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by rawr. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.Some times the relationship is not working and must be finished.
2007-12-15 03:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didn't u go to do something different. If u really desided to dump him then thats the way to go, no give me backies
2007-12-15 03:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you were honest and thats good!!! its worse to play with other peoples feelings!!!!
2007-12-15 03:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by edie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋