Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

2007-12-13 21:43:48 · 21 answers · asked by naturegirlhd 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We talk at least 4 times a day and IM almost daily. He and I have had a sexual relationship for over a year. He has called it off a few times, but always comes back. Even when we are "off" he calls all the time. He critiques all guys I start to date negatively. I am very confused because we seem to connect very deeply, but I know he is engaged, so it seems weird. What should I do?

2007-12-13 21:43:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 21:36:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why? I would like to know who reported my question and why? Is it really that offense that I dont understand why a woman would get so mad because her man has a tired/stress/med issue that has nothing to do with her? Is it so offensive that I have enough self confidence to know that just because one of us cant climax doesnt mean we are cheating or dont find the other appealing.

Come on people, it happens. Why do you people get so offended?

And I never did get any of the women to say how they expect their men to feel when THEY are the ones who cant climax or finish......

So what is it people? I want HONEST answers here. Why do you not have the self esteem or confidence to know this has nothing to do with you? With that kind of pressure, could you perform on cue everytime? What about medical issues? Medications, depression, anxiety?

2007-12-13 21:34:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 21:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by Shananigan Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the thing.
i only get to see my boyfriend on the weekend & friday after school...
& i just found out this girl that goes to his schol fancies him.
he text me saying he thinks shes okay.
I Dont no what to think really.
because he says he loves me & stuff, but he gets to see this girl every day.
im seeing him tonight.
& i dont no how to ask him straight if he wants our relationship to end.
but im going to ask him that.

What do you think should happen?
we have been out 3 months & im so in love...


and so confussed.

please help me

:]

xxxx

2007-12-13 21:15:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he drinks an average of 3-5 nights a week(we are financially burdened right now) and that does cost money, he has diabetes and is suppose to be watching his carbs, there are a lot of carbs in his v0 & 7's . oh yeah, and when you drink a lot he tends to take non-prescription pills so you dont have a hang over. why wont my husband help me out with bills and help his own health. He thinks he will live and be healthly for ever.

2007-12-13 20:57:56 · 17 answers · asked by nancy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

who do you think would be the most successful of the 3?

2007-12-13 20:39:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it illegal for a teacher to date one of their ex-students if they are 18 or older and no longer attending the same school?

2007-12-13 20:27:26 · 22 answers · asked by Vanessa H 1 in Singles & Dating

We worked together for over a year and became good friends and I really got feelings for her. I told her I liked her finally but she said it wouldn't work. I backed off from doing anything more and we just stayed friends. But since then she hasn't really dated at all and works more than she should. Does she just hate being in relationships?

2007-12-13 20:26:18 · 14 answers · asked by Stripe 6 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf wants a victorian vampire wedding you know everthing nice and pretty nothing ulgy and scary so can anyone help PS i dont care if you call me a freak cuz i am one lol

2007-12-13 20:22:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we had a long distance relationship. we barely see each other when were still in the realtionship. he calls me from time to time so as to have that communication. but when classes ends i visited him only to find out, he's not the person im used to be inlove with because i am particular with physical appearance. he was the ugliest boyfriend i could ever recall. i talked to him that he should improve for the better and broke up with him.

its been 4 years now and we havent seen each other. do you think we'll still be inlove if we bumped each other?

2007-12-13 20:20:56 · 8 answers · asked by ginger spice 2 in Singles & Dating

I looked at my husbands computer and on his external drive he has a bunch of porn on it.. and he labeled the file really good stuff. i was not too offended that he had it, because i know he watchs it, ( so he has told me) but he only watches it when i am not around.. so i feel like it is behind my back, most men would say they like watching it and most people would agree its okay if they can seperate that from reality on looks, personality and persentation of a person.. however my hubby seems to say and do everything he sees on the movies.. he never told me he had the porn on the computer, but after all it was his computer he had with him on his deployment to iraq.. should i be upset or not ? i know it if it was me i'd of deleted it off the computer. Not only was there porn but also video clips and pictures of "hot" girls in all sorts of poses. my pictures where also on his computer, but they werent in the section labeled " really good stuff". how would you all react ?

2007-12-13 20:18:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I could never understand this...I know what she actually looks like.

2007-12-13 20:18:04 · 22 answers · asked by V2K1 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,
My partner and I plan on having a small intimate wedding, with just close family and friends. My partner is not close with his siblings. They live five minutes away and still they only see each other on special occasions. (You can just imagine how much he sees his aunties and uncles). On his side we plan on inviting his parents, siblings, and their children, which will total 15 people. My problem is that we are both very close to my brother and all my aunties, uncles and first cousins (we see them every weekend). My family that we plan to invite will total 19 people. He doesn’t want to invite many of his friends just his close ones which is 6 including their partners. Where as I have 18 close friends I would like to invite, as I have been friends with them all for years. My parents think his side of the family will think it is rude that I have invited all my aunties, uncles, and cousins and he has only invited his siblings. Is this wrong?? Will it look bad him inviting 21 people and me inviting 37??

2007-12-13 20:17:34 · 19 answers · asked by pinkheels01 3 in Weddings

why dont they let go?

2007-12-13 20:13:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 20:10:57 · 7 answers · asked by ADITHYA G 1 in Friends

My GF met another guy without telling and I saw them together.I know they are just freinds.But isnt it her responsibilty to tell me.

2007-12-13 20:10:48 · 15 answers · asked by asr24us 1 in Marriage & Divorce

..cut off his...ya know...or stalk him, burn his house, or eat him alive...i love him!

2007-12-13 20:08:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

still she watches online porns when gets a chance.is she cheating on him?

2007-12-13 20:07:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We been married for almost 8 yrs now, at first it was not a big deal to me then i got used to it. I literraly had to give him BJ for 30 mins just to get him real hard. Then once he is indise me it wont last long according to him I cut off the cerculation by slowing down. Does he have a erection issue or its me??

2007-12-13 20:03:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to fight your battles .

2007-12-13 20:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Has being in love with someone ever made u cry when u wake up or when u go to sleep at night or even at work or where ever.Did u ever break down in cry at anytime like when they broke ur heart.

2007-12-13 19:56:47 · 15 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay... I've been married almost 5 years (together 7). When we first got engaged, we were 20 and still very very young (obviously), and college students. We could not afford a big fancy ring, but I never really wanted one either. The ring I have now is 1/3 carat and was $450 for the set. It is very basic round solitaire. Anyway, he told me it was only temporary and he would eventually get me a larger one. Am I horrible to want an upgrade? Like to a 0.75 carat?

I don't want to change the whole ring, just the actual diamond.

2007-12-13 19:54:08 · 25 answers · asked by Just Tryin' to Help 4 in Weddings

i liked this girl and went in too fast or maybe she didnt like me and she rejected me. i felt terrible. a month later i sent a text asking if were still friends and she said of course. weve been maintaning a friendly conversation via text for the past week. im not sure if i should pursue her. the other day she said she was looking foward to leaving for awhile to go to another country and i said basically i would also if i had the chance and she seemed happy with my answer. she is single and i do not bombard her with messages, only about twice per week. three the most. should i send her a message today concerning the weekend? should i still be her friend? she doesnt seem annoyed to receive my messages as some girls do. but then again she doesnt send me a spontaneous message. should i just forget her and move on or keep the friendship and hope for the best?

2007-12-13 19:49:23 · 10 answers · asked by jim 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 19:49:12 · 20 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3 in Singles & Dating

About ten days back I was partying hard at friend's place. While driving back I was unable to control my car and hit a woman! I got her admitted in a pvt. nuring home and made all arrangements for her treatment. I contacted her husband and explained everything. We met at the hospital when he came to visit his wife. The guy was drunk and insisted on been paid for the mishap. I found out that the lady is the only one with a regular income. Her husband is alcoholic and abuses her. He also shouted at her in the hospital saying that this served her right and should be a lesson. He never came again to visit her! Now I have to visit her every day. She insists on this; gets the hospital staff to contact me over phone if I miss a day. She wants me to promise her not to leave her ever. Yesterday I had to promise to be able to pacify her. I want to help her in the present condition, but I have my own life. I am in a big big mess, it's driving me crazy. Please help!

2007-12-13 19:45:14 · 25 answers · asked by chamkadaar 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This couple from my gym(good acquiantances,the guy is 30,the girl is 23).He said that they want to invite me out with them.I'm one of the only ones that know they are a couple there,but what is the motive here?I'm just fairly good acquiantances with them.I dunno if he's pissed at me for something or what.Or is he just being nice?I know i'm being paranoid,but why would people who barely know you(save for the gym)want to all of a sudden invite you out. I just told him i've been busy lately and we'll grab numbers sometime and maybe down the road.Again am i being paranoid?I've formed many relationships in the past where i thought things were solid but i ended up having differences with the person.What is the motive here?

2007-12-13 19:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you had a chance to relive your life what would you change?

2007-12-13 19:29:05 · 31 answers · asked by maram 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How much did your engagement ring cost?

2007-12-13 19:28:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce