We been married for almost 8 yrs now, at first it was not a big deal to me then i got used to it. I literraly had to give him BJ for 30 mins just to get him real hard. Then once he is indise me it wont last long according to him I cut off the cerculation by slowing down. Does he have a erection issue or its me??
2007-12-13 20:03:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's him.
2007-12-13 20:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
BJ's help but if he's turned on and stimulated he should be able to maintain it until he orgasms.. I don't know what to tell you.. For me when that happens it's usually because my wife has done something that turns me off or gets me thinking about something else.. Sometimes I have to really concentrate especially when I'm physically or emotionally tired at the time.. I wish I could help more I know how frustrating it can be for you.. The only things I can think of are maybe try spicing things up a little, watch some porn together, get some toys, try something new or a in a new place.. Other then that you might want to get him to try the little blue pill "Viagra".. Good luck..
2007-12-13 20:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to marriage and reality. What is going on is he is bored out of his mind and doesn't want you anymore. He probably can't get an erection anymore becuase he lost his mistress. You should have learned the facts of life before you got married:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything.
I don't lie.
2007-12-14 00:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has problems big problem
nothing to DO WITH YOU
do not let him tell you that it is you.... ....Unless he is over 60 or a diabetic.....He be able to have a ROCK hard "P" if he can not he needs to go to the doctors something is wrong with him
Edit "V" should be the last thing on your list he needs a physical.....
2007-12-13 20:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by abuelamah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a psychological or medical issue on his part. I would assume that it's a medical issue first and see a doctor... there are medications like Viagra nowadays that could help you. If that doesn't work then you might want to get yourselves into something like marriage counseling.
2007-12-13 20:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i guess you try penis rings or something else along those lines...but i would recommend a visit to the doctor just cause there are many causes of these kinds of problems that can be easily solved. good luck!
2007-12-13 20:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is him. Time for a trip to the doctor for a physical.
2007-12-13 20:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor...It's time for a good physical
2007-12-13 20:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by weewab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what have you been doing for 8 yrs?
2007-12-13 20:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your vagina is like throwing a susage down a hallway...
2007-12-13 20:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He difinately has issues. He either has ED, or hes a closet gay, one or the other.
2007-12-13 20:06:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋