Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

My daughter is 17 and every other word is profane. She uses profanity to emphasis the importance of whatever she is saying. The 'F' work and 'C' word are common place. It drives my husband nuts because he feels it is disrespectful. This has been going on for years but in the last few months she has tripled it's use. I am tired of hearing my name (or anyones name) followed by "fu--ing b--ch!" or "C---t"

She has no computer privileges and she has no favors from me (rides, money, cleaning). My next 'tool' is to ban her from eating dinner with us unless the swearing stops completely (I cook dinner every night and we always sit down) Any constructive ideas would be great.

2007-12-13 17:20:57 · 15 answers · asked by t. 4 in Family

2007-12-13 17:20:25 · 11 answers · asked by Mere Mortal 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with my older brother's best friend. his friend likes me back.

should i tell my brother?

2007-12-13 17:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by catlover112790 1 in Singles & Dating

place to honey moon? We are planning to stay at the economy resorts because of price, we dont really look for super fancy rooms especially since we will be in the parks, MOST OF THE TIME!!!! wink wink!!! LOL!

2007-12-13 17:16:22 · 13 answers · asked by DJ C 4 in Weddings

Generally he is a good guy, he helps her with groceries, helps to clean the house and stuff. The only thing is: he treats her like **** in front of people. He tells her to buy him expensive stuff, drive him around, call her ignorant and stupid to his friends. she finds out , breaks up with him, and 2 days later goes back. Should I convince her to stay away from him or keep my mouth shut?

2007-12-13 17:08:17 · 33 answers · asked by monique 2 in Friends

in a cowardly move to put off doing work that I was taking home with me, I decided to go and see a film. It was a rainy grey day and London just seemed to increase the miserable atmosphere. As I stood there in the queue, aware that I might be standing there for a couple of minutes, my thoughts and gaze began to wonder. As my gaze fell over the electric sliding doors that formed the entrance to the lobby I saw a most beautiful sight. A young sophisticated woman, impeccably dressed and immaculately finished. Her perfectly straight brunette locks fell over her red felt figure-hugging coat, and formed a perfect frame around her model face. Her lips, simliar in colour to her coat proved to be a magnet to the eyes. I barely noticed the rest of her when I realised I had the biggest erection. The queue had dissapated and as I stood there all stiff, the till lady giggled to her friend and others stood around and just stared at me . I can't stop thinking about it what should I do to feel better

2007-12-13 17:05:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom makes me wear a jacket when it's horribly warm, makes me wear something that looks horribly ridiculous, and every time I try to object, she makes sounds like it's necessary! I really don't know what to do! This problem has lasted for the previous few months. Please help me! Also, tell me how you resolved your problems, if you had one similar to mine.

2007-12-13 17:01:00 · 4 answers · asked by bobroberts 2 in Family

Most beautiful women out here know it, and they are diggers, unfaithful, or something along those lines. I am attractive, don't look for dates in bars, and a UNLV student. I'm 27 so most women at UNLV are too young for me/I'm too old for them (on their account, not mine) Why cant I find a woman? I make 50k/year, my own place, my own suv etc? I repeat, I am not fat or ugly!

2007-12-13 16:58:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my bf, we had been dating for 3 months and were really close. I have started seeing another guy, we have only been dating for 4 days. I am starting to regret going out with him. Whenever i see my ex i still feel something towards him, something i never will for my new bf. We have almost broken up once already but in the end stayed together. We are going to a concert soon and if I do break up with him it might be akward. Yet it is akward enough because when we are together he hardly talks. What should i do?

2007-12-13 16:54:32 · 7 answers · asked by Just a Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Just want to know how many men, think American women are spoiled and Un-gratefull of American men???I know "not ALL" women are like this, but I feel because of the American Media women are seduced by this monster and behave in selfish ways these days.I also blame Feminism, do I think women should make as much as a man if she's doing the same job?? Yes I most certainly do.Do I think Women are above men and should treat them rudley just because they have a hot @ss NO I most certainly do not. K have fun with this one.

2007-12-13 16:45:43 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want cookies ;)

2007-12-13 16:42:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for women who didn't wait until marriage...did you somehow regret it???or was it an advantage???? I mean did you ever tell you hubby that you wished he was your first???...


i'm 17..i'm planning to save mine...but of course it still confuses me....

2007-12-13 16:38:46 · 35 answers · asked by justME 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and this married man were messing around/talking to each other for about 2 weeks. I have a b/f and he has a wife. Yes I know it was wrong and everything but I learned. Please just answer the question I am asking. We met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. Well we stopped talking a couple of weeks ago b/c his wife was finding out and going w/him everywhere including the gym. There is still an attraction there def.! Tonight I was up there playing with my b/f and the other guy was also there playing his friend. One time, I got up and walked by him and he smiled at me.Then later he walked passed me and banged his racquet right by my leg up against the bleacher thing I was sitting on and looked at me and smiled and asked me if my b/f was mad cuz of him. I catch him looking at me when he is playing w/ his friends. I just want to know from a guy what all this means? I feel like he still likes me... he is still flirting with me... am i right? Will he come back for me one day?

2007-12-13 16:37:11 · 7 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Family

My daughter is 18. Her mother and I split up when she was like two and a half and I haven't had any contact since. I had to sign custody rights over allowing my ex's husband to adopt her because I was not in the position to be any kind of father at the time and he was. Now I've managed to get in touch with my ex and I'm trying to get in touch with my daugher just to let her know my side and try to form some sort of relationship with her. Now, I'm scared . What if she doesn't want to talk to me at all? What if I never get the chance to speak to her ever? Granted I'll have the answer to my question but what then? I can't see just giving up if she refuses but what??

2007-12-13 16:36:44 · 9 answers · asked by Mikey D 5 in Family

Ok me and my ex broke up this summer in july07 we had sex one more time so i moved away and we never spoke again so i recently found out i was pregnant late october so i try 2 contact him 2 let him kno and i find out he has a gurlfriend and they been together since April07 and now they r so in "love" so of course he denies my baby at first because he is young and immature.

so later he contacts me sayin ok he wants a test. and now his whole family knows and his girlfriend knows and she is really young she is 16. so i agree on takin a test but im not due until march08 so what can he do now until the baby is born? he is only 18 and im 20 . i talk 2 him on the phne and we just have normal conversations but i want him involved during my pregnancy. at first he said its not his tthen he want a test and now he think its his but he wanna b around.

2007-12-13 16:35:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my stepmom has been cheating on me all theses years. she has made my life hell and adding to that my dad is supporting her .now i am going to get married in 3 months and i fell that she is going to cheat my wife also. i think i will face great problem ahead what should i do ? please help

2007-12-13 16:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by arindam roy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm just confused at myself. I don't like the guys that like me and the guys I do like, are the guys that love being single and aren't looking for a relationship. Does anyone know what my problem is?

2007-12-13 16:30:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband & I recently sold our house & we have to move in with family for 3 months until our new house is ready. My husband works & I stay home with our son, he' 2. I get along good with my inlaws but the thought of staying with them is making me REALLY nervous & uncomfortable. I get a knot in my stomach just thinking about it. I guess I feel that I'll have to be this super perfect wife, mother & cook while we stay with them. I would LOVE to stay with my mother (she loves my husband & we're really close) but her house is smaller & my inlaws have a SUPER huge house with lot's of rooms. We'd still have room at my mother's but not as much & she has a dog (small one) but I know she worries about him & my son. Soooo...I don't know what to do! My inlaws offered for us to stay with them a long time ago & my mom did but she was kinda reluctant about it cause of the dog but she seemed unsure. Please help me decide...I just want everyone to be happy with our decision

2007-12-13 16:30:09 · 10 answers · asked by Another baby boy! 3 in Family

i dated this girl for almost 3 years then i ****** up and broke up with her to see another girl that last about 3 weeks and now im tryin to work things out with her and she is comeing to see me tommorrow what can i say or do to get her back i broke her heart and now mine is breaking cause she is scared to get hurt again and i know for sure that i would never put her thre tht again i love the girl more than life i tried to take my own life but i couldnt pull the trigger cause i still have hope for us what is there for more to do to get her back shes all i want...

2007-12-13 16:29:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So I pulled it off.. I did three girls in one night (individually, old flings) and now I don't want them around me. How do I get them to leave me alone for good?? God I'm so hot

2007-12-13 16:28:15 · 31 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband bothe are indian citizens.And our marriage is registered in Delhi - India. When my husband married me.He was studying in UK. I filed my student dependent visa for UK but got rejection.But later he advise me to go to some other country as an International student so that after finishing his course of study.He will come and join me. I came to New Zealand as an International student. But now my husband says that he dont want to come and join me.And our marriage is anulled.And he wont be liable to give me any claims.As we dont have children. And he can remarry in UK or india without getting legally divorced from me.

My first question is -
Is it true that our marriage will be considered as anulled in Indian court of law?

Secondly is can my husband remarry without taking legal divorce from me?

Thirdly will he liable for any claims if he remarry in UK or India?

2007-12-13 16:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by Raj K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he called me to say happy birthday after we didnt talk for like 2 months and we talked. he hasnt changed and that is a bad thing couse he's still an idiot and i do have a bf who's great and i really wish i could say that i didnt miss him(my ex) but i do i do like my bf and my ex is an idiot who doesnt want a gf but he just wants to makeout with every girl and he said call me tomorrow and i know i will and i wont cheat on my bf dont worry but. why do i have to have feelings for him? and i dont know im just really confused

2007-12-13 16:26:56 · 5 answers · asked by lalcutiepie 1 in Singles & Dating

My Grandmother is coming from mexico.And she is pure mexican and i dont know what i should give her for chirtmas i really what it special becuase this is her first time here for chirstmas.

2007-12-13 16:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by M queen 1 in Family

2007-12-13 16:19:20 · 1 answers · asked by highthoughts 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok I need help finding a tiara for wedding any ideas? Preferrably not a way expensive one.Also I need ideas for what kind of shoes and tiara would look the best with my dress here is the link for it. http://davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2630&prodgroup=10
what other jewelry would you wear with this dress? And do you think an updo would look best or half up half down? Sorry for the tons of questions but I am so damn indecisive and I need to get stuff decided on. Only 5 1/2 months left!!!! Thanks everyone!!!

2007-12-13 16:15:59 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings

me and my fiancee want to buy wedding rings, we want to have our names written on the wedding ring
do you know if this can be done

thanks

2007-12-13 16:11:19 · 27 answers · asked by Student 2 in Weddings

I'm not like most guys my age. I am 19 years old and a sophomore in college, but I'm not really the party type.

I don't drink, or smoke. I'm a virgin. My guy friends sometimes joke around using sexual slang terms when talking about girls, and I don't really know what these slang terms mean. They'll give me a hard time for not knowing. My sense of humor is more G-rated. I like clean, "dorky" fun. I'm also pretty quiet and shy. I get bashful easily, so I'm sometimes worried about expressing myself.

Like I said, very different from most guys my age. I've never had much luck with girls and I was just curious as to how this "dorky" style is viewed. Any thoughts?

2007-12-13 16:07:40 · 37 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Singles & Dating

When my husband married me he was a international student in UK .Later i filed my application as an student dependent.But got rejection so he suggested me to apply for some other country as an international student.And told me that after finishing his course of study he will join me. I am currently student in New Zealand. But now husband is saying he dont want to come and join me and that our marraige is annulled as we had been staying seperately for more then 2 years.So there is no need for him to get divorce legally from me. Our marriage was performed in India (delhi).Our court marriage was also done. And i have photo copy of my marriage certificate.We dont have children.And he is still in UK. My question is that is our marriage annulled? And can he remarry on that grounds?

2007-12-13 16:05:15 · 11 answers · asked by Raj K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Judging by the number of "does he like me???"s and "how do u ask a girl out"s, I'm going to say 12.

Maybe 13.

2007-12-13 16:04:44 · 8 answers · asked by Lanani 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 16:04:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce