Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

Ok so I want to talk to this girl at school, because she always looks at me when she walks through the hallways....... I dont know if shes sending me mixed signals or what but since the first time I saw her i was hooked on to her....

the problem is i don't see her enough at school, and when i do see her at school shes always with her guy friends.. I want to find the right oppurtunity to talk to her so it won't be awkward..
hopefully when she is a lone, and i'll talk to her subtle and natural...

I don't know if this girl is in to me or not, because she seems to stare at me all the time, maybe she likes me maybe she doesn't? But I'm hooked !! I need help yahoo !

2007-12-13 16:03:03 · 18 answers · asked by Untypical 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i let my bf of 5 yrs that I don't want to be with him anymore?I am more concerned with if he will b okay than what is best 4 me.He didn't have a good childhood & i want him 2 have a good adulthood.We have lived 2gether for 3 yrs and i make a little more$ than he does, and i know that he can't afford to pay rent and bills by himself, his ma don't want him 2 move home.i always took care of paying bills he would just give me cash.He tried 2 take care of them but it didn't go so well, we ended up getting behind so I took over again.I have $5000in cc debt &am stressed about that.1 of the things that bothers me so much is that I feel like I do a lot 4 him/us and he doesnt offer to help, cooking,cleaning,dishes,laundry,bills, catbox.I asked him to pick up sticks in the yard @the beginning of the summer(been there since last summer) & they still r, w/snow covering em, y couldnt he do that 1 thing?We r both shy &have trouble communicating feelings 2 each other. Help

2007-12-13 15:59:41 · 6 answers · asked by lucky 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I be afraid of this moron - husband of my niece who's been abusing her and is threatening to come to my house with a gun? I am trying to give her some kind of protection so she can get the nerve to denounce him. She totally stricken with fear!

2007-12-13 15:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by Pivoine 7 in Family

our children didn't get along. Never met the mother of his kids. actually she is mother of youngest but raised his oldest as her own. we are together all day everyday (we own our own business). at night he picks his oldest up from work and goes home to live with them. was waiting for oldest to turn 18. oldest is now 22!!! says that oldest got into some trouble with wrong crowd and isn't ready to live on thier own yet......like i said, we are together every day!!!! live as married couple. He stays at my house thu, fri, and sat nights....i guess i'm a part time wife...but, i am getting sick and tired of waiting....I have asked for a divorce several times but he cries and says how much he loves me and that he is coming...SOON...uuuhhhh!!!! he swears he has nothing to do with the kids mother and they have separate bedrooms,yet I am not allowed to call him there. In fact I found out that his family thought we've been separated for the last 5 years..PLEASE HELP. I have no parents for advice.

2007-12-13 15:58:26 · 13 answers · asked by badazzblondechick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Dads girlfriend of 3 years passed away 11-03-07 ... He is in complete shock because they had a big fight because he had to move from Miami to Tallahasse for a job and she didnt want to go . She stayed in Miami and a week later she Drown in a lake ... My Dad was on his way back to Miami to pick her up because she changed her mind and before he got there she already passed away... I came from Texas to my dads place to go to her services and ive never seen him so depressed... My sister and brother told me that i needed stay with him for awhile so he wont be alone and when i asked him if that it was he needed he said that he didnt want me to wate my time on him but im worried cause now all he does is drink and cry ... Should i move in for awhile and take care of things for him ????????????? ... What do you think?

2007-12-13 15:57:34 · 5 answers · asked by LEXI ♥ 1 in Family

i was with this guy for 5 years. we broke up for about 2 weeks and he ended up getting another girl pregnant. i was so hurt i told him to marry her. he did. they have been married for 4 years, but me and him have continued sleeping together. i realize now that i want him all to my self. give me pointers on how to get them to divorce without telling her about our relationship.

2007-12-13 15:57:17 · 26 answers · asked by adk_in_ar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 15:56:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and i who are seperated finally seemed to be getting along last week. We ate out together and the week and sleep together a few days before that. I wouldn't say it was really great being with him because so much has happened hurts on both sides. But we have a two yr old and i have a 7 yr old from previous marriage that is close to him. Well i thought things could be moving in the rite direction slowly because it was the first time in a while we can be nice to each other. Well Sunday nite me and his daughter and him ate together and parted ways around 10:30 pm. I called him because his daughter went to the phone and said da da and cryed he answered i said say goodnight to her he did. He mentioned he would call me. Well mon and tues i tryed calling him and even texted him. He didn't answer here it is thursday and he hasn't answered or called me? I don't know what is goin on in his head maybe men can answer this for me why was he nice to me?nice enough to eat with me?

2007-12-13 15:56:43 · 10 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my whole life i have had problems with girls. i am 17 and have never had a girlfriend, whenever i am talking to a girl my stomach tightens/tenses up and i say things that sound very awkward as i don't know what to say. i'm even like this with girls that are just my friends (which i have very few female friends) i am a very attractive guy and have been told so many times; i'm not concerned about my looks. just talking to girls that are my friends i always find myself avoiding eye contact or feeling very uncomfortable. idk what it is. am i thinking about sex with the person i'm talking to? do i not know what to say? i just don't understand how some of the ugliest losers in the school can get a girlfriend and i can't. i don't even know how a relationship works. i do know that i have a fear of marriage.. being stuck with the same person for eternity.. and i have a fear of a future spouse becoming fat. idk. i just don't know. please help me, i dont want to be forever a lonely virgin.

2007-12-13 15:54:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, well my boyfriend is so awesome around me, but my friends hate him because he is and idiot, and so they want me to break up with him, but they dont kno him liek i do, but sometimes he really can be and idiot and almost make me want to break up with him but i dont want to lose him, i dunno. im confused.. wat should i do??

2007-12-13 15:52:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you think is going on there?

why do they do that to each other. to just let each other go for the sake of each others happiness?

2007-12-13 15:51:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

"Wow that guy sure is an oddball"

"well there are some oddballs living in that apartment complex"

Do they just mean weird or mentally ill, psycho, stalk you peeping tom raping freak?

2007-12-13 15:50:15 · 4 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-13 15:50:06 · 4 answers · asked by ashley2004to19852001 1 in Singles & Dating

they have been dating for a little more than 4 years but a little less than me and my boy friend have been dating...her boyfriend (my ex) and my boyfriend are good friends...well any way.....my ex is still in high school and me and my friend just started college and my boyfriend is in the Marine Corps. and she has really started to act out....she likes all kinds of other guys and has actually went to one of their dorms and she said she didn't kiss him, he kissed her....I want my ex to realise all this but I want to keep my friend and my boyfriend knows but he promises not to tell...not sure what to do....so confused??....advice please!!!

2007-12-13 15:50:06 · 6 answers · asked by :) happy with me! 2 in Singles & Dating

i try to go to church every sunday, but i wouldnt consider myself the average church type i drink, dance and talking about inaproprate things doesnt bother me. are thier girls that go to church that are good people but somewhat chaotic so to say

2007-12-13 15:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by njmizerny 2 in Singles & Dating

im 40 and my daughters 17 and shes pregnant. my husband kicked her out of the house ( i was very upset) and shes in with her boyfriend. he has another kid and the mother left the baby with him. they are very responsible. the only thing is that in the house its the boyfriend,mydaughter, step sister, and 3 step brothers and step mom and dad. one of the step brothers have a crush on my daughter and he walks in their room when shes changing or when shes in the shower, how can i get her to come back home and make her boyfriend and her step child come live with me and my husband.

2007-12-13 15:49:26 · 11 answers · asked by Cheyanne L 1 in Family

my girlfriend is wanting to find her dad who she has not seen since second grade. her mother is now deceased and she has no information on him or family members other than his first and last name.

2007-12-13 15:46:42 · 2 answers · asked by amc_1970_sst 2 in Family

We are looking to get married in the next few weeks. Nothing fancy. Just us probably. Does anyone know of a decent afforable place in bucks or montgomery county pa?

2007-12-13 15:43:13 · 4 answers · asked by k 2 in Weddings

I hate it when my fiance mentions the guy she dated before she met me. she knows it to and i know in my heart that she does not do it on purpose, but it just slips out sometimes. for instance, i was like 'oh my sisters a leo' and she replied 'oh i know a leo too' and when i asked who, she paused realizing she made a mistake and said 'oh just someone' and quickly chnaged the subject. but now im sitting here thinking about it, i dont want any info no the guy, now im picturing how she got him some special gift for his bday and what they did etc... the less i know the better....but, like i said she keeps blurting out details here and there, as i mentioned she knows i dont like it... i cant change her past, how do i learn to deal with her past.... it really drives me nuts, also we live in different states, which makes it worse, i never have any issues about this when we are together...

2007-12-13 15:39:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 15:38:13 · 19 answers · asked by kayville 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I didn't pursue him. Well, not really. I flirted with him but I never acted on anything. He came to me. He kissed me first. He told me things about his marriage and his wife that made him miserable. He called me. He arranged times for us to meet each other. He initiated the sex. He told me that he loved me. He charmed the pants off of me (literally)! He said all of the things that I needed and wanted to hear. He used me for sex and then he bailed on me when things got tough.

I accept my share of the blame. What I did was wrong and I know it, but I wasn't there by myself. Why doesn't he get blamed for his part? Why do some people act like what happened is entirely my fault?

2007-12-13 15:37:39 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok..i met this guy in college and at the time he was dating this chick i had met back in middle school...they were together for 2 months until he left her for me. I at the time had a bf but i was rlly feeling that guy so i left my bf for him as well. However, now after only a month & 1/2 hes actin WAY diff..he doesnt call me anymore he avoids me in school...and he doesnt visit anymore..he claims its bcuz hes tryna study for finals..however his brother tells me hes always on the phone with all his friends including girls....what do i do i have mad love for him and he does to...but were just not clicking everytime we talk..we argue!

2007-12-13 15:33:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my bf. have been dating for four months and i really want to have sex with him. we are both 18 and madly in love. I personally think he is the one for me and i want to be with him forever. He completes me. He feels the same way and told me that he wants to marry me someday, after he goes and gets settled into college. He tells me that he isint ready to have sex yet. What do i do? and why do you think he isint ready?

2007-12-13 15:33:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My little brother has a speech problem. He's almost 11. Speech pathologists don't know what it is. He says "awh" "uh" and he tends to repeat his words alot, but not like stuttering. for example: "awh, mum? awh, awh, awh mum?..." he also sometimes says a sentence and repeats the last phrase 2 or three times really quietly. Yet whats weird is that he speaks fine when he reads out loud. Me and my mum and dad feel bad for him, and he doesnt even know he has a speech problem. How should my mother or i approach this?
Man, i wish kids werent so cruel. hes actually really funny haha

2007-12-13 15:31:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or would you hold in the most outrageous anatomical demand for sexual release till...god knows when? I would go find a woman to do it with but I am a man...is it different?

2007-12-13 15:30:20 · 20 answers · asked by highthoughts 4 in Singles & Dating

im thinking about moving out and i just wanna know how much money i would need a month to survive!!!

2007-12-13 15:28:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I tell my wife I'm sorry I said what I did or didn't do what I said I would and she still nags. I ask her to forget it, but she won't
she'll remember next year!!

2007-12-13 15:22:02 · 22 answers · asked by donscountry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my granddaughter's mother..said she would had nightmares if she saw her father (my son) in the casket i said if there is someone to instill nightmares then she just might have them..I told her that would had been the end of the story .(seeing him in the casket ).and my grandduaghter won't have to be waiting for him to come home...i have a 6 year old daughter and she saw her brother in the casket and 2 other close family members she never have nightmare.i tell my daughter god took her brother because he needed a gardner to plant the trees and flowers ( seeing her brother in the casket. was the end of his store only memories) .my daughter in law tells my granddaughter her daddy is in heaven with the angels ..but my grandduaghter keeps asking when will daddy come home?..what do you think?

2007-12-13 15:21:24 · 19 answers · asked by gengen 3 in Family

she is a good friend and I love her a lot..but right my situation is so bad..so that I don't want to ruin her life...which is very good

2007-12-13 15:20:36 · 4 answers · asked by chinnu 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering, does someones weight really have an impact on their emotional relationships? Physically, it obviously would, but if someone decided to be less shallow do you think it would be hard for them to love someone that is overweight?

2007-12-13 15:19:53 · 7 answers · asked by Jennie 2 in Singles & Dating