they have been dating for a little more than 4 years but a little less than me and my boy friend have been dating...her boyfriend (my ex) and my boyfriend are good friends...well any way.....my ex is still in high school and me and my friend just started college and my boyfriend is in the Marine Corps. and she has really started to act out....she likes all kinds of other guys and has actually went to one of their dorms and she said she didn't kiss him, he kissed her....I want my ex to realise all this but I want to keep my friend and my boyfriend knows but he promises not to tell...not sure what to do....so confused??....advice please!!!
2007-12-13 15:50:06 · 6 answers · asked by :) happy with me! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Concentrate on school. This is the time you need to focus on what you want out of life. All the B.S. nammby pammby bf/gf crap won’t mean squat when it comes time to graduate and go on with the remaining 70-80 years of you life. Concentrate on being the best person you can be and great relationships will come to you!
2007-12-13 15:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ralph 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear broken heart, try to neglect this situation, your happiness is not in your boy friend it is within, love yourself & respect your degnity, if he really loves you he will find out the difference between you & your best friend within few days and will come back to you with more respect for you & if he contineous with your best friend, I say it is worth loosing him as he does not deserve a positive person like you!!! In both the cases you have every reason to celebrate it.At times life is much better without boy friend. my best wishes to you.
2007-12-13 16:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much you know its a weak move to rat her out and you wanted someone on here to tell you to rat her out... So I'll be that person
Rat her out, its the only thing to do...or tell her that you are gonna rat her out unless she does herself..or take the spineless anonymous email/letter to your ex-route. In any case you gotta light this girl up, its the only thing that will make you feel better
2007-12-13 15:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by tudsy4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mind your business. I would mention it to my boyfriend and let him mention it to his friend. If you say something to him she will think you are trying to get him back. You can mention it to her and let her know it's not cool. If she asks why you told your boyfriend just tell her you were confused and needed to talk to someone.
2007-12-13 15:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
jus mind your own business.. people have to learn and find things out for themselves
2007-12-13 15:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by kate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her...if she really loves him she will stop...but if it continues...tell him.
2007-12-13 15:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋