Ok so I want to talk to this girl at school, because she always looks at me when she walks through the hallways....... I dont know if shes sending me mixed signals or what but since the first time I saw her i was hooked on to her....
the problem is i don't see her enough at school, and when i do see her at school shes always with her guy friends.. I want to find the right oppurtunity to talk to her so it won't be awkward..
hopefully when she is a lone, and i'll talk to her subtle and natural...
I don't know if this girl is in to me or not, because she seems to stare at me all the time, maybe she likes me maybe she doesn't? But I'm hooked !! I need help yahoo !
2007-12-13 16:03:03 · 18 answers · asked by Untypical 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off, thanks for the quick responses !
I think her guy friends really don't like me that much.. i have gym with them and i'm so much more athletic than they are which is why they don't like me...also they make it harder for me to talk to her because theyre like her entourage for some lame reason...
I want to talk to her before winter recess....I'm hoping for the right oppurtunity because it seems like I have everything going well for me right now.....
2007-12-13 16:11:11 · update #1
Well its too bad I don't have a mutual friend....
Well I think I'm going to go with what many of you are suggesting, try smiling back and see what happens.... I hope she doesn't have a boyfriend , geez if i knew her myspace or facebook it would be so much easier to find out things.....
thanks again everyone for the support! I really do appreciate it!
2007-12-13 16:18:41 · update #2
Next time you see her looking at you maybe you should smile at her, so she knows you've caught on. If she looks away, she might just be embaressed to know you caught on. Chances are she won't make a move. You have to do it first. Dont let the other guys intimidated you. Who says shes interested in them?? I'm sure you have female friends.
Does she have AIM or myspace? You could contact her through that first so it takes away some of the anticipation. Worst possible scenario is that shes not interested, and big deal. There are always plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-12-13 16:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by lala898 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want you to know that if those girls are talking about that you don't need to worry about what they think. They should be worried about the names they are making for them self for carrying on that way. If they are discussing that I'm sure their parents will be quite embarrassed or upset. Because that means their daughters are out there being street walker. It's not good what they are doing and should be turned in to the principal anonymously. Do not worry about your anatomy you have not reached adult hood yet. Your anatomy is private and should remain that way till you meet that special woman (not girl) one day when you are a man. It's ok to have girl friends as friends . Teens are not mature enough to handle subjects of sex and would only relay back anything said or done you have nothing to prove you are a gentleman. Stay that way.
2016-04-09 02:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think your right. You need to wait until the right moment hits and no one is around and then talk to her. If she's staring at you every time you see her in the halls she's probably into you, but it wouldn't be smart to make that assumption and be wrong. So don't go up and talk to her with that idea in mind. It's better to approach her with the idea that she's cute and YOU are into her, and try to pursue something like lets say a phone number. Once you are more comfortable with her, then that would be the REAL perfect moment to ask about her constant staring at you. Good luck
2007-12-13 16:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by bone_thugz_2pac 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well... that's a tough one because a lot of times you need some sort of connection...
Why don't you... somehow make it so you're next to each other, whether you're in the lunch line or at a pep fest or something...
You're going to have to be smooth and confident or she'll think you're a big loser. Hopefully you have good looks... Find her screen name or something.
2007-12-13 16:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gawd, what a classic.
Either go for the note or the throat.
The note may become an object of derision,
but asking someone quietly out for a coffee can't hurt.
As long as you have the notes to pay for it.
2007-12-13 16:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Master Anarchy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to the girls friends and just talk to them and ignore the girl you like. If you talk to them she will be hooked and try to get your attention try not to talk to her but if you do a simply hi will do. This is called playing hard to get and surprisingly it works.
2007-12-13 16:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by Austin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see this guy around so much, I want to talk to him but I'm too shy, I'm sure he has noticed but I'm not sure if he wants to talk to me, he's always with his friends too. If you've noticed her looking at you, I'm sure she wants to talk to you but she is too shy, just go for it, I'm sure if she likes you she'll be really happy that you talked to her. Chances are she noticed you a long time ago and she really wants to talk to you by now.
2007-12-13 16:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by .:Zany:. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask around - find a mutual friend to introduce you or find out who her parents are and call her at home.
2007-12-13 16:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ralph 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait to long or you will never find out if some else is after her so go for it she won't bite maybe a Little but you will love it.
2007-12-13 16:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by jorge b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wouldnt be staring at u for any reason, its better to know than not to know. next time just go up to her and ask her a question...make it comftorable....if u see her smile at u alot while u r talking to her then ask her if u can have her number.
its worth the shot
2007-12-13 16:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kika 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋