2007-12-13 15:56:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you can't. the best you can do is try to charm them, but the feelings have to already be there.
2007-12-13 16:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by sportzchick143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone love you.
Causing a person to change the way they feel about you is also difficult but not impossible. Unfortunately, the easier way to change their feelings is for the worse. If you try to get them to change their feelings and are impatient about it, you usually give the people grounds to dislike you. They would think of you as a spoiled, selfish, impatient, self-centered person.
So the only way to constructively change someone's opinion of you is to let the person see you doing constructive things, non-selfish things. And that takes time.
2007-12-14 00:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by The_Doc_Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear ady....you can not "make" someone love you. the best shot is to find out what this subject is looking for in a mate, and find out what this person thinks about you and what you need to do to change yourself to fir this persons need. people change all the time. you will too. the things you think or beleve now, you may not feel or think the same way in 10 years. adapt, overcome, achieve. best of luck to you.
2007-12-14 00:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by oskar smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that it is my belief that it is better to move on, you are probably only going to waist your time and end up getting hurt. I tried to change my ex for yrs., and now we are happily divorced .; I am remarried and happy to have started over, but wish I had not waisted so much time with the wrong one. GOOD LUCK
2007-12-14 00:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a guy - Start being an asshole and be mean to her. Then she can complain about you to her other friends rather than complaining to you about her mean BF lol.
If you're a girl - Just get naked and ask him if he wants to do it. I doubt he would say no.
2007-12-14 00:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by NoName113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be ur self and if they dont even like you forget them, the trick is to be your self!
2007-12-14 00:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Soccer Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should forget dem. find sum1 dat is in love with you. for who your are!
2007-12-14 00:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋