Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

My mother divorced my dad 10 years ago.I am a teenager now and i had contact with my mother for all the years they were divorced,up until now.My mum moved to a different country got married and started a new family.It just came out of nowhere and i don't know what i did to make her abandon me.I've been getting really good grades at school and i've been receiving so many awards for my achievements but,its only started to hit me now that i have nobody to be proud of me.My dad is working all the time but he still doesn't have enough money to support me and my brother.I don't ask my dad for money and he still finds it very hard to save.I blame my mother now because she divorced my dad and took his house and car and all that he owned.So my dad has no time at all for me.And i used to be so happy,but now i'm always gloomy and people tend to see that side of me and don't like to talk to me much.

The school phoned my dad today because i started misbehaving in class and he didn't care....

2007-12-13 19:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by iLikecheese 2 in Family

fired my boyfriend,harassing me what actions can i take to make him leave me alone?

2007-12-13 19:15:08 · 10 answers · asked by peggysue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-13 19:11:51 · 2 answers · asked by ching 1 in Singles & Dating

Lets say I was in desperate need of perscription glasses when I met her, and now that I have those said glasses, it appears she has changed. Is it ok to cheat?

2007-12-13 19:06:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and just getting done with my first semester of college. I am not sure if it is a problem, but I don't like being touched by anyone. I dont like hugging parents or relatives and never kissed a girl or anything with a girl. I find girls attractive just from a distance dont want to be touched. Is there something wrong or are some people just like that and never like touching others. I mean I don't feel like it is much of a problem but never thought to much about it, WHat do you think????????

2007-12-13 19:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I honestly hate my body. I have naturally big breasts, a tiny waist, long *** legs and wide hips. I look fake. I hate it. I would get a breast reduction but I'm too scared to do that. I hate how women give me dirty looks and men think im easy because of my body. Is there any way I can down play the size of my breasts? Gaining weight won't make me look normal...all my fat seems to go straight into my chest...my legs and stomach won't get any bigger. And my wide hips drive me crazy. Anyone fuss this much over their body

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2007-12-13 18:58:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you feel....and what would make you seriously consider her offer.?

2007-12-13 18:53:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today I found out that my Fiancee has been posting himself as available for a discrete "good time" with several date match sites. Although these were from several months ago & I've confronted him which he apologized & said he was just playing around on computer. He's been very kind & wanting to rebuild our relationship but doesn't want to talk about it with me. How can I get closure if he won't open up. Does it mean he'll do it again? Should I truly give him another chance? I'm so hurt & confused but don't want to be played for a fool again. Because we have children together, I'd like to work it out & help him thru this without setting myself up again. Any suggestions?

2007-12-13 18:50:01 · 30 answers · asked by lovie808 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 18:48:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend got married to a man from another country and no one else knew this except me. Im so scared if this particular guy cheat her. help!

2007-12-13 18:37:57 · 15 answers · asked by rose 1 in Weddings

2007-12-13 18:36:24 · 36 answers · asked by zztech 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I have always had alot of friends, But it use to be cause i was funny, Now girls are always hitting on me and telling me they think im hot, My friend who has ALWAYS been a really pretty girl, told me you get use to that stuff after a while, But i think its really awkword when a girl hits on my infront of my girlfriend,.And now im even being stalked. People i don't know send me pictures on myspace, of me walking home, or at the mall, and now my girlfriend thinks im cheating on her cause all these girls are around me, so SHE IS STALKING ME. She is always confronting me about going places., and when im at the mall with friends, SHE JUST WALKS UP TO ME AND CONFRONTS ME. I really want people to leave me alone and go away, but at the same time, like anyone else, i kinda like the knew attention. What should i do?

2007-12-13 18:30:04 · 20 answers · asked by Nickhats. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 18:24:15 · 17 answers · asked by rose 1 in Weddings

I honestly hate my body. I have naturally big breasts, a tiny waist, long *** legs and wide hips. I look fake. I hate it. I would get a breast reduction but I'm too scared to do that. I hate how women give me dirty looks and men think im easy because of my body. Is there any way I can down play the size of my breasts? Gaining weight won't make me look normal...all my fat seems to go straight into my chest...my legs and stomach won't get any bigger. And my wide hips drive me crazy. Anyone fuss this much over their body?

2007-12-13 18:24:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My heart is not bound by a marriage. If I have fallen for a 23 year old, that is not a sin. It is love and it happens all the time. Do not be so rude in your comments, I would appreciate your support as this is hard on me.

2007-12-13 18:18:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 18:10:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married on March 1 of next year and i have 3 bridesmaids and the 2 have gotten there dresses and the last one hasnt and she seems to be putting it off. And its almost less than three months and I kinda have this feeling she doesnt want to do it. What should i do.

2007-12-13 18:09:28 · 22 answers · asked by Cathy 2 in Weddings

My husband is always angry with me because when he buys me things for Christmas or birthday, I never like it. If I dont tell him what to buy me, he always gets me something horrible. He has awful taste. When I do tell him what I want he always buys the wrong thing because he doesnt pay attention or wont actually think about it. This has been this way for years, the last 3 years I started making detailed lists like with the extact name of product, the store, the exact size (volume or measurement) and then the price. When I can I even include pictures, but still he always manages to buy the wrong thing somehow and then gets mad at me when I dont want it. He said he is never buying me anything ever again, he will just give me money for Christmas, birthday, anniversary etc from now on. But I wouldnt use it, I never buy things for myself except for basic nessisary items. So do I have a right to be mad about this? Should I just give up and just start saying "I dont want anything?"

2007-12-13 18:07:55 · 15 answers · asked by luv2bablondie00 1 in Family

so i took initiative, not i'm not. what's your excuse, if you can im your loved one and don't . pretty rude. waiting for my message like hello how are you?dare ya now...suprise me.

2007-12-13 17:54:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married....

2007-12-13 17:52:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't it means nothing to me anymore and just reminds me of what a crappy marriage I am in & what a mistake I made. Not wearing it makes me feel like I am not his property.

2007-12-13 17:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by Death Girl Am 6 in Marriage & Divorce

sister and brother get together i don't know what day if any?No plans and no date and i'm old or too old to be alone.Anyone else feel the same ?How can u change it or do u want to be single?

2007-12-13 17:46:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should a man do if he marry a woman before he have sex with her but it turns out the sex is bad should he stay if he lover or divorce her because the sex is no good. if sex is no good a marriage will never work?

2007-12-13 17:45:29 · 19 answers · asked by mr MAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello I am a Guy 23y5m...
My parents planing to get married as i am the only Bachalor left in my friends group of my community... normally in my community the guys are married with in 23 or max 24...
I am MBA started with my Job last 6 months...
I earn good but still have hunger to to earn better and do Phd...
I beleive my concentration will be diluted if i get into Marriage and family life...
What should i Do... ????

2007-12-13 17:37:18 · 21 answers · asked by vikas j 2 in Weddings

I have been with this man for 9yrs and he is addicted to pot. I was 14 when we got 2gether and back then it wasn't a big deal. Untill we had our first child and then i Realised i didn't want it around my baby, and how he should kick the habbit. Everything i said went through one ear and out the other he just started being sneaky and lying to me. When my son was almost 2 i decided enough was enough and we split for 3mths. During that time he gave up or so he claimed. We got back 2gether and 2wks later i found out he was doing it again. I loved him so i put up with it we now have a 3yr old daughter and 1yr old son now. Why does he not see what is wrong with it. I know find i resent him and not sure if i love him anymore. I'm now 23 and have started working again i feel now i'm getting older that i'm not as nieve as i once was and wonder if i'm making a stupid mistake by staying with him. I look at my kids and i love them so much that i'm scared if i don't stay with them they will hate me

2007-12-13 17:35:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In a wedding instead of bridesmaid.... like if one of the bride's closest friends is a male?

2007-12-13 17:33:23 · 15 answers · asked by hereceivedacall 3 in Weddings

get to meet this weekend and I'm excited. He is going to stay the night and he mentioned how much he doesn't want us to hook up becuz the time wouldn't be right and he doesn't want to lose our connection we've created. He mentioned sleeping in my bed together and we could just cuddle becuz he doesn't want to have sex yet. I don't know, but I felt like that was really premature since we've never met and the first time we hop in my bed? Even if it's to snuggle, I was like not so much. I told him tonight he could stay in the guest room or I could get reservations for him at a hotel. He said he was cool with it but acted disappointed and responded "Well, that seems to be a chick thing, always thinking ahead." I don't care, if he doesn't like it he doesn't need to come up here. He said that wouldn't be a deterent from him coming, did I do the right thing?

2007-12-13 17:28:32 · 4 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

For example, a very pretty young lady that works at me favorite coffee place has been rather flirty with me over the past year. About a week ago she asked me out. Now, I am head over heels for my wife but... I'm an ex player and this lady is unearthly looking. So... I said, "GET THEE BEHIND ME SATAN!" And left... havent been back since.

So... is it natural to be tempted by goodies or... not...

2007-12-13 17:26:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

IDK like 2 weeks ago me and mom had started to fight when ever she came home. She'd be mad when i dont pick up my mess or if she gets a phone call from my teacher. She says if i wanna live like some person that will get envoled with drugs, and drinking then i should keep up what im doing. The other day i kinda cursed her off and walked out the door and went to hang with my friends. IDK what to do anymore.. i say sorry but shes like u dont mean it. I cant turn anywhere only to my dad (not my REAL dad but my close step dad) but that'd be worse. What should i do to not come home to my mom screaming at me?


♥Keepin it Melina style♥

2007-12-13 17:23:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My 52 yr old boyfriend gave me a Shrek DVD for Christmas. I do not have a DVD player and already saw the movie once. I kind of thought it was a prelude to some other present, but that was it. It hurt my feelings and I cried everytime I thought about it for over a year. Now looking back, I still dont get what he was doing. He makes over $130K a year and I am not sure what it was about. Any thoughts on this?

2007-12-13 17:21:16 · 10 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating