get to meet this weekend and I'm excited. He is going to stay the night and he mentioned how much he doesn't want us to hook up becuz the time wouldn't be right and he doesn't want to lose our connection we've created. He mentioned sleeping in my bed together and we could just cuddle becuz he doesn't want to have sex yet. I don't know, but I felt like that was really premature since we've never met and the first time we hop in my bed? Even if it's to snuggle, I was like not so much. I told him tonight he could stay in the guest room or I could get reservations for him at a hotel. He said he was cool with it but acted disappointed and responded "Well, that seems to be a chick thing, always thinking ahead." I don't care, if he doesn't like it he doesn't need to come up here. He said that wouldn't be a deterent from him coming, did I do the right thing?
2007-12-13 17:28:32 · 4 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
absolutely. if i were mother or friend i would be so proud of u. i only wish u stay like that all your life - always think with your head, not like other women with a place between their legs. u did the right thing. if he is there for u he will sleep in guest room ( i would prefer hotel if i were u. who knows what might happen if u both have alcohol) and he will love it. if he is there for sex only he will sulk and try to talk u into going into bed together. i suggest right on that point u dump him cos he only wants a ***. it was absolutely unacceptable when he proposed u to spend a night in the same bed. what is that? u don't know each other and u hop in the same bed? who does he think u re? u did absolutely the right thing
2007-12-13 17:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's too fast for u guys to just met and hop into the same bed. It's really crazy if u ask me. U really did the right thing. Even he said that but who knows what's he's thinking.
2007-12-13 17:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a mature way of dealing with this type of relationship>i highly appreciate it.I think you probably couldn't do anything better .How can you allow a guy at the very outset to jump into your bed .It seems a very " cheap proposition".Maintain your dignity.Let the relationship between you two take firm root. You may think of having all fun of life once you accept him as your right guy after getting fully convinced of his behaviour and other traits.
2007-12-14 00:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely. You havent met this guy. Take your time and he'll respect you more :-).
2007-12-13 17:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋