my friend got married to a man from another country and no one else knew this except me. Im so scared if this particular guy cheat her. help!
2007-12-13 18:37:57 · 15 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
She's a big girl, and has chosen for herself.
It's up to her to manage her marriage.
Be her friend and stick with her. If things go badly, she'll need someone to talk to.
2007-12-13 18:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she got married on her own, she must be a mature and grown up person! She trusted you with her intentions cuz you are her friend! Unfortunately, you cannot take responsibility for her or him either! Just continue to be the great friend you have been up to now and keep supporting her cuz you all are friends in all this! There's not much you can do expect to be "a friend" a good one and keep your thoughts to yourself. Just be there for her should the occasion arise that you were right in worrying! For now you have to accept that this was her choice and she chose you for a friend! Keep the love flowing come rain or shine...friends are to be forever! Let's pray for the best!
2007-12-13 19:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by itzybit_303 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did she know this man a while before marrying him? Hopefully so, but I mean it's really her life and will be her mistake if it turns out to be a bad marriage. Its okay to be hurt by this since shes your friend and should of told you. But maybe your friend was afraid of anyone trying to talk her out of it. I think the best thing you can do for your friend now is just be supportive and try to see it from her perspective.
2007-12-13 18:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by sparkle_babi86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Malini,
They aren't all bad. Though this doesn't sound all that good. Stay friends with her. It may be very hard to watch this play out, but she will need a friend to support her if it does go bad. In the meantime, get to know her husband, always being polite.
2007-12-13 19:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those situations you have to take a back seat. Support her no matter what happens.
2007-12-17 14:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be there for her and be her friend if anything goes wrong, it is her life and her choice, she will have to live with it.
2007-12-13 22:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's her life and her choice and if you're that worried about her I hope you spoke b4 or forever hold your peace.
2007-12-14 15:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by ec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. Don't be negative about her decision with her. All you can do is be her shoulder to cry on... good and bad.
2007-12-13 18:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is probably using her. he is a cheat. just be a friend (if he allows her to talk to former friends) and support her.
2007-12-13 18:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably looking to get his green card and split. Sorry.
2007-12-13 18:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋