Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

ok me and my boyfriend have been really close for acouple of months, im 15, hes 17. We do love each other more than any other person. I didnt think it was possible. We have been 2gether....for about 2 months, but have been like best friends for 6 months. I asked him last night if he was a virgin, and he said no, and he said he losted it a year and a half ago. He said he regretted it so much, and that he was sorry, and i truely believe he is sorry that he hurt me, and im not takin it so well. Like, i do love him, but it just seems harder to say it, he even asked me if i do still love him, and even like him. And i told him i do and that i ment it when i wanted to be with him 4ever and will love him no matter what. It's just been really hard on me the last 2 days, ive been cryin, and so sad, and he feels soo bad. How do i handle this plz, i really do need ur help, i know he loves me, and he wants to be with me forever, and i dont want this to get in the way

2007-12-13 12:59:19 · 8 answers · asked by peaches and cream 2 in Singles & Dating

I was at lunch today. I was buying some candy canes to send to my friends. I was filling out the name cards to go along with them when all of a sudden, a guy tapped my right shoulder. Then, he and his friend walked off. What could that mean?

2007-12-13 12:58:37 · 13 answers · asked by Stephanie S 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 12mths has just brought my the most beautifull
ring for owe engagrment surprise surprise for me last night .I want to buy him somethink but what do you buy a guy who has everything ??any ideas welcomed

2007-12-13 12:58:20 · 3 answers · asked by this account is no longer in use 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was looking forward to Christmas and New Year's this year. The first time in a Loooong time as a matter of fact. But of course, the special girl that I was going to spend time with for the Holiday's left me high and dry. She threw a monkey wrench in my whole game plan. So here I go, alone and depressed for Christmas and New Year's again. How do you feel about the Holiday season?

2007-12-13 12:57:42 · 2 answers · asked by Rico Goldstar 7 in Singles & Dating

i'm 13

2007-12-13 12:57:39 · 3 answers · asked by Heather R 1 in Friends

I'm only 16 and I feel like I have no power over what happens to my Grandma. She's very old, and there's no question that her eldest daughter (my aunt) is brainwashing her to get her will changed. My mom had 10 brothers and sisters. She was the youngest. She was so far apart in age that she was too young to understand what her sister was doing...at first. What my aunt would do (still does) was she would become good friends with elderly people. She would take care and befriend older people. She'd take them to get alcohol when nobody else would, she'd take them shopping, drive them places and pretty much replace their children in their life with herself. That was fine...but, she started to convince them to change their wills so she could obtain their money. They would leave their money to her when they died, and leave their children nothing. My mom's older siblings were, as bad as this sounds, paid off not to speak of it. They got a portion of the money to keep quiet....continued!

2007-12-13 12:57:24 · 1 answers · asked by Laney 2 in Family

2007-12-13 12:53:55 · 4 answers · asked by x_Three Days Grace_x 4 in Family

Ok my husband likes to play fight alot... Some times its funny, but most of time its too rough. I tell him to stop but he calls me a pussy. I mean its never like punching me or leaving bruises. but i must have sensitive skin, but most of the time he squeezes too hard ( my hands or leg) bends my arm, throws a kick backwards into my shins or does something stupid like that.. why is he doing this?...he thinks its funny. he doesnt know when enough is enough... and its ALLL the time! .i have seriously tried to get him to stop . ive tried talking, by either getting upset or (once i went to punch him where it counts) but nothing seems to stop it. he is much bigger than me?..have any other women had this problem?...does anyone have any suggestions to get him to stop? or rather to know when enough is enough?.

2007-12-13 12:50:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 16 and I kissed one of my friends as just experimentation, when she slept over at my house.

My mother and I got into a fight about her, and she doesn't know that we kissed, but my mother doesn't like my friend at all. Now, my mother means the world to me, she is second only to the Almighty Himself, and when we fought it made me feel awful.

For the past weeks, I've felt a change in my heart towards my friend, and upon examining her behavior, I found that there are several qualities I don't like about her. I feel extremely awkward around her, I just feel so weird around her. n

She asked me what's up, and I made up a bogus excuse that I'm trying to discoer who I am. Today, when I finally hung out with our group at lunch, she was very quiet and when my other friend asked what's worng with her, she said that she's been like this for awhile.

I'm desperate for help, please help me.
I don't want hurt her feelings, but I don't really feel "right" near her.
What should I do

2007-12-13 12:49:51 · 1 answers · asked by Zoey P 1 in Friends

what does it mean when your bouyfriend is always saying how badly he wants to have sex with you but when you get time to he waits untill last minuet to say it doesnt feel right yet....??????

2007-12-13 12:45:21 · 3 answers · asked by tori 1 in Singles & Dating

Although I have gone on maybe two dates in my entire life, I feel that it may be time to give it a try again now that I will have some more time. I haven't tried it since I was 23 years old about 5 years ago. It's pretty scary getting back into the "game" but it is kind of exciting as well. I still have a lot to look forward to: my first girlfriend, my first kiss etc. While some people tell me I have started much too late, I have so much more to look forward to than they do. I also have a lot to offer a woman! I am employed full time, I am educated, I am secure financially and I live at home with my parents and other adult siblings, which indicates that I am a family man :-) . The question I have though is this: Why do I encounter so much jealousy regarding my situation? More people actually mock it than respect it. I don't want praise but I don't understand the mockery, especially from girls my age. Clearly they are jealous for some reason or they wouldn't make the comments.

2007-12-13 12:45:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 and I have huge student loan. I moved home after university, and found a job I really enjoy (I can see myself doing this for the rest of my life). However the job is only part-time, I can not get full time status until the company I work for "gets to know me". So my plan was to live at home, help pay the bills, and put as much money on my loan as possible. But my Mother recognizes no privacy. She still treats me like a child. She goes through my bank transaction slips, goes through my room, looks at anything that I keep private, asks nosy questions, and tries to influence my career decisions. I ignore her, but she knows people I work with, and she uses them as pawns to get me to make career decisions that she would have made. When I have talked to her, argued with her, or ignored her, we have huge fights, or she plays a guilt trip on me. I have thought about moving out to the city, but then I would lose everything I have worked for, and enjoy. What do I do?

2007-12-13 12:43:46 · 6 answers · asked by the_scarlet_cardinal 1 in Family

I'm haveing a small church wedding in the fall. Its friends and close family only so I want it to be fun and not the reg boring music you here at weddings

2007-12-13 12:42:44 · 11 answers · asked by ?? 2 in Weddings

2007-12-13 12:42:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She trying to get my attention?
she hugged this guy infront of me and i noticed she glanced at me while doing so is this a good thing. She ignores me all the time were not even friends yet she is 18
she has called me cute before

i ignore her to b/c im nervous

2007-12-13 12:42:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Look, I like my friend and all and we hang out everyday at school. When we get off the bus he begs me to beg my mom for him to come over. When I say I have homework he says he'll do it with my but I end up doing the work or he makes me play games. I'm a nice guy and please don't say,"Just tell him straight to his face," or something like that.

2007-12-13 12:42:00 · 6 answers · asked by Lee C 3 in Friends

recently he was sick, (nothing serious), and i took care of him as i would my child. when i started not feeling well a couple of days ago his reaction was definitely not the same towards me. not only has he not even asked how i'm feeling or if i need or want anything, but he ignores me when i'm coughing and sneezing by making believe he doesn't hear me. he hasn't even offered to take the dog out so that i don't have to go out into the cold. this isn't the first time that he's behaved this way and i fear that it won't be the last. what do i do without being spiteful or starting an argument?

2007-12-13 12:40:03 · 18 answers · asked by ST 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm somewhat emo, but i'm not seriously depressed. Girls around school say that emo's ar HOT (pete wentz) but idk.

2007-12-13 12:39:35 · 71 answers · asked by Chantz 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a friend of mine, who has recently been distant from our group of friends. she has been in and out of depression, is a horrible cutter, and anorexic.
she's under the impression that she's not good enough and that no one cares about her.
Us, as her former friends, want to all pitch in and buy her a christmas present, reminding her that she is loved and that people do care about her, and most importantly that she is a daughter of the King, and is loved deeply by Him.
we know she needs help, and so do her parents, and they're working on it, we just would like to get her a little something to get her through the holidays, but we're not sure what would be appropriate.

any ideas?
thanks!

2007-12-13 12:39:16 · 7 answers · asked by something or other 2 in Friends

its that time again... to buff up, and shine...

would anyone like to lend me a hand.....

take your pick, maybe you have a fa bit to polish for me....

will you assist me ?

2007-12-13 12:38:44 · 14 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Singles & Dating

I can handle my anger really well. But sometimes i just go crazy like i hit stuff and i feel like i wanna pull my hair out and mess up everything i see. But i try not to. Plus im only 13. I get fed up with my mom all the time. She really pisses me off. She yells at me when i dont even do anything. Like shes gonna be nice to me then in like 2 minutes she yells at me. But is it bad to control your anger? Because what if i control for so long one day i might go crazy. Is that possible?

2007-12-13 12:37:06 · 5 answers · asked by Kristy H 2 in Family

My friend got pregnant out of wedlock and she is afraid her family will find out. I am a starving students but I let her stay with me without paying bills, foods, or rent. The father of her baby wanted to be part of the baby's life but she dismissed him. I thought that she should allow him to be part of the baby's life if he is the biological father. She got mad at me and said that I betrayed her. He has no history of ever maltreating her. She even told me that she plans on marrying him. After the baby came out, she left her baby for the father and moved to a different state. He was heartbroken and the poor baby had no mother. I was happy that the father is taking care of the baby. How can I support somebody who abandones her own baby? I need a second opinion on this. I don't know if she has post partum depression or not. Do you think this friendship worth saving? why or why not.

2007-12-13 12:36:37 · 6 answers · asked by Gurio 1 in Friends

I find myself thinking more of her lately and i don't know why all the ones in my life that has passed keeps coming in my dreams sometimes i feel it is how they are reaching me but, i find myself when going out to eat they have them orenge half thing that she used to eat and i find myself always eating just a couple to think of her is that crazy or normal? I find myself daydreaming of my handicap son walking and seeing and talking It is so sad having a son that can not talk walk see and has cp he gets alot of surgery's it is hard and i am a strong mom....but, i feel so sad at times. anyways just wondering if there is others out there with these thoughts? and at times i miss a place i have never been yet never seen but, i sure do miss it....I was raised in church so i am a strong believer in Jesus and heaven.....my uncle and mom is pasters so just wondering how others feel if there is someone else missing a place (heaven) they have not seen yet.. and passed loved ones..thanks.

2007-12-13 12:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes I know that I could leave.
Yes I know that I could cheat.
But we have 2 small kids.
Issues are:
no orgasm from him for 13 yrs.
Sometimes he brushes his teeth and most of the time no. His breath smells so bad that it actually smells like a garbage can or poop. no exaggeration.
He leaves **** on the toliet and the shower stall after he has used it is just plain nasty.
He doesn't wash his hands after using the bathroom.
I am mean and nasty at this point when telling him because it's been so long and I am so tired of not having an orgasm because I am repulsed by his hygiene. It's just nasty. I've tried the nice. I've tried the cuss out. I've added him to my dental insurance but nothing seems to help. He still has the same issues. I am just angry. At this point IF he brushes his teeth, I am so angry that I just can't focus.
My question is what are my options? Cheating? psychiatrist? Can/would you divorce someone for being so filthy?

2007-12-13 12:35:08 · 31 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this party I want to go to this weekend. It is just like a regular party, except the guy I like might be there. I really don't even know if he is coming. Also one of my best friends that I haven't really been able to hang out with that much is supposed to be there. It is just a normal 14th birthday day for one of my friends. No alcholol. No drugs. No anyhing like that, just like all the other parties I have been to. Also, I haven't been to a party in over a month!! He told me he wasnt letting me go because he doesn't have a good feeling about it?!?!? I don't get, he just randomly decideds not to let me go to parties anymore?? It make NO sense. Help?? What do I say to him?

BTW- I am 13.

2007-12-13 12:33:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-13 12:32:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can someone out there with their marriage experience share with me how to be someone's wife? what do the wife do and how to show the respect to the husband.

Even i have married for several years but I still failed to be my husband's wife, I have fail to do what all the wife suppose to do and thats why I had a broken marriage until my husband said lets get our own way

help me, how to be someone's wife and has a successful marriage?

2007-12-13 12:32:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But true I need The money..!

My Life is like a joke, but to me it isnt funny
People all around, telling me what to do
When all I want to do is Stay at home with you.

2007-12-13 12:31:44 · 1 answers · asked by Music Is The World 2 in Singles & Dating

Our first Anniversary was great!!!! Now he says we dont have the money. That could be true, but our Anniversary always passes us by. It upsets me.

2007-12-13 12:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by ladonna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 20 years old. I am the youngest out of 3. My parents act like i'm 12 years old and still give me curfews which is ridiculous even though they deny it. They complain that i go out too much and when i get home at around 11 or 12 they complain. I am sick and tired of getting treated like a child..i've told them that they treat me like a child, but they are so hard headed that nothing goes through their head. Its like they want to protect me from the 'bad world' and it seems like they think i havent been exposed to anything...my brother and sister seem to do nothing about it and it seems like they can put up with it..but I always end up arguing with them.

I have no idea what to do at this point. Any suggestions?

2007-12-13 12:29:37 · 4 answers · asked by vinyldeejays 1 in Family