ok me and my boyfriend have been really close for acouple of months, im 15, hes 17. We do love each other more than any other person. I didnt think it was possible. We have been 2gether....for about 2 months, but have been like best friends for 6 months. I asked him last night if he was a virgin, and he said no, and he said he losted it a year and a half ago. He said he regretted it so much, and that he was sorry, and i truely believe he is sorry that he hurt me, and im not takin it so well. Like, i do love him, but it just seems harder to say it, he even asked me if i do still love him, and even like him. And i told him i do and that i ment it when i wanted to be with him 4ever and will love him no matter what. It's just been really hard on me the last 2 days, ive been cryin, and so sad, and he feels soo bad. How do i handle this plz, i really do need ur help, i know he loves me, and he wants to be with me forever, and i dont want this to get in the way
2007-12-13 12:59:19 · 8 answers · asked by peaches and cream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he lost his virignity a year and a half ago, you 2 were not together, so really, whats there to be mad at? you cant hold peoples past against them, if he's sorry then take it for what it is, just bc you wont be his first doesnt mean you guys cant have an awesome relationship!
2007-12-13 13:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to like what I am about to say but I do not think you have anything to be sad about or to cry about.Your boyfriend is not a virgin since he lost his virginity long before he even met you.While he lost it a year and a half ago, you were best friends only about 6 months ago and together only 2 months ago.You can not ask someone to be sorry for actions of theirs before they met or knew you no matter how disappointed you may feel.Turn it around, would you like him to be mad at you for something you may have done before you met him.If you love him, then concentrate on building a beautiful , supportive, respectful, caring, and loving relationship with him and forget matters that not only happened a long time ago, but also have nothing to do with you.If you allow this issue to get in the way,you just may lose him unless you no longer want or love him.
2007-12-13 13:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all if he was ur best friend for so long and you've been with him for 2 months already then you should have already known this!! but i think your exaggerating..sorry to say
but im 15 my bf is 17 hes not a virgin either and when he told me..yeah i was upset but i didnt make a scene becuz thats the past. so ppl make mistakes and they deserve second chances.
2007-12-13 13:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by barbie <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is all in the past, plus he said he regreted it basically meaning he didn't like the gurl.you cant hold it against him. it was a year and a half ago!!
at least he told you the truth and didn't lie. that must mean he really loves you!!
2007-12-13 13:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by whiz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not be mad at someone for their past, you need to forgive them. You need to be happy with the person you have in the present, and think about the future you will have with them. Hope this helps. :-)
2007-12-13 13:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the past. tell him that its okay so both of you can stop suffering . Well at least he can both if you love someone you will want them to b a happy right
2007-12-13 14:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by helia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it change the way you feel about him? It happened before he knew you... as long as right now, all he cares about is you, it shouldn't matter.
2007-12-13 13:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by nimrod54bj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should be taking it all that seriously, let the past stay in the past.......move on
2007-12-13 13:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by greenday_idiot_rocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋