I find myself thinking more of her lately and i don't know why all the ones in my life that has passed keeps coming in my dreams sometimes i feel it is how they are reaching me but, i find myself when going out to eat they have them orenge half thing that she used to eat and i find myself always eating just a couple to think of her is that crazy or normal? I find myself daydreaming of my handicap son walking and seeing and talking It is so sad having a son that can not talk walk see and has cp he gets alot of surgery's it is hard and i am a strong mom....but, i feel so sad at times. anyways just wondering if there is others out there with these thoughts? and at times i miss a place i have never been yet never seen but, i sure do miss it....I was raised in church so i am a strong believer in Jesus and heaven.....my uncle and mom is pasters so just wondering how others feel if there is someone else missing a place (heaven) they have not seen yet.. and passed loved ones..thanks.
2007-12-13 12:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks for such good words....and i dreamed last night of my grandma it was so real it must be her visiting me i recall telling her one time if by chance you get to come see me come and maybe that is what all the dreams mean she is just wanting to say miss you too and one day we all end up together again....God bless.........
2007-12-15 05:14:17 · update #1
I feel your pain, & send prayers to &for you!! I'm sorry, We lost our 5 yr old grandaughter in a house fire a few months ago, and we're still not normal!?!?!
2007-12-13 14:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theresa,
You are not an unusual person. I have the identical dreams about my family that have passed on. I can't explain it other than I believe they are in my heart, and mind, and when your mind is sleeping you recall incidents that bring them to you, and you to them. I have a very strong feeling that they are watching over you, and that's their way of telling you that you are not alone.
You and your family must have been very close. I relish the time I spend with mine when I am dreaming, and the odd thing is that something in my thoughts and prayers prior to falling asleep triggers their presence in my dreams.
If I were you I would enjoy their presence in your dreams, as we never know when it will stop. I don't believe it's unhealthy or weird. If it is I guess we both are weird. LOL.
God Bless, Butchrgt
2007-12-13 20:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Butch. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when we think of our loved ones that have passed on, we are wanting advice from them , like they gave us when they where alive. We can think of them and remember how they would have handled a situation, it helps us get through a difficult time and we keep them alive in our hearts.
What Mother doesn't want the best for their children. You are dreaming of a place that will give you peace of mind. You will have to make things better in your life on a day to day living in order to grasp some of the tranquil moments we all search for. I'm sorry your son has the handicaps he has, but think of the day when things will be better for him. Your church upbringing will help you through the difficult times.
2007-12-14 11:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I feel exactly the same way. My mom died of cancer 4 years ago, and I miss her every day. Sometimes it hurts so bad that she's not here to see her grandkids. I am going through hell in my personal life, and both my mom and my grandma (who died when I was 9) would know EXACTLY what to do to help me. I hope and pray for them to come to me in my dreams, so I can feel as though they are still with me. Sometimes I wake up crying, and I think I know why....waking up is like losing them all over again.
2007-12-13 22:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom died a few years ago and in the begging it was hard i thought a lot about her when different little things happened i don't think your crazy and I'm glad that you know the lord and that you know your people are in heaven and you have something to look forward to just remember that while your here in the flesh you have a purpose so its OK to remember but dint dwell to long the lord has plans for you
2007-12-13 20:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by been there and know now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need a little counseling; not because you are crazy, but because you need someone to talk to and give you support and advice. You are carrying a very big burden and you need all the help you can get.
2007-12-14 01:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by cantbeme_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In God the soul finds rest. If it comforts you keep doing it as long as you need to. I'll pray for you.x
2007-12-13 20:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by Knowledge is Power. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just lost my little brother (16) recently so I feel your pain!!
2007-12-13 20:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lv Dr. 4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋