Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

Did your sweetheart come into your life when you least expected it? Is it true that it happens when you least expect it?

2007-12-13 14:42:16 · 16 answers · asked by DO YOU LOVE ME♥*´`*•.¸★｡ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In the past year, I won an North East Coast multi-state Lottery jackpot that after taxes, came about to a little over 48 million.

I was living on SSI due to anxiety problems caused from a violent and abusive childhood. I had been dating this guy for almost six years. He left for two of the months without even saying good bye b/c we'd been arguing about his rock & roll lifestyle partying. n the past few years he's been back, he plays a lot in bands at bars coming home drunk and high. His sisters have been demonic to me. He warned me they are drama queens. His mom and dad have been sometimes warm sometimes cold. They side with their daughters.

I have decided to give a quarter of my money (12 m) to charities around the world that I've already chosen based on reviews.

I am keeping half (14 million in a Swiss bank account and 10 million in USD here. *At some point I'd like to marry and get out of cold East coast for NW coast or maybe abroad. IDK.

I will ask questions now:

2007-12-13 14:41:57 · 9 answers · asked by Lil Blousou 3 in Family

I am a college student, and I met this girl from a club organization. We are both premeds while she is in her third year and I am in second.

We have been friends for about 2 months, and we went out once. Since she was extremely busy, she couldn't go out anymore. I asked her out like twice, but she declined them all. I thought that was over, but she was willing to study with me even though we studied different subjects. After study, we had dinner together at campus many times.

Today, on the day before her final, I just spent more than 2 hours to answer her question in organic chemistry, so she could ace the final exam tomorrow. Then I asked her to go out and have a dinner with me after the final, but she made excuses and declined.

So, this is the third time rejection. I feel like I am a complete loser. I even planned to take the most difficult premedical with her, so I could help her to get an A.

Is this pretty much game over? No more chance? What should I do?

2007-12-13 14:40:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I truly think all men cheat! So here I'm going to leave my man because he cheated and then the next man I meet will do the same thing. So where the hell can I be going if their all the same? I do want to leave but if I leave and I get the same **** what I'm I complaining for. Men how long have you been with your girlfriends or wives and never cheated?

People are telling me I might have a self esteem problem cause I said he complete me. How many of you have husbands or wives who have cheated and complete you. He is a big part of me and when he's not here it just doesn't seem right.

2007-12-13 14:38:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother was an A hole to me growing up. I always hated it when someone smacked their food, and he knew it. He would always smack on purpose just to make me mad, whenever he could. Handing out gum to everyone around me, all that stuff. He always did it with that same smile on his face. Even after years of this, after begging, pleading and crying for him to just leave me the hell alone, he wouldnt. I don't think I can forgive anyone for that kind of mental torture. We are both older now and live outside the house and in our own apartment. Recently, he stayed with me for three days and it was the worst three days ever, because all those feelings came rushing back. Who is he to stay at my place after what he did to me? But I just held it in. He comes over every now and again cuz he left his phone charger, or some papers, he gets his stuff but then stays and sometimes even tags along with me and my friends. This is NOT cool. I;m gonna have to tell him to stay out of my life from now on.?

2007-12-13 14:37:24 · 43 answers · asked by Keith 2 in Family

i am a sophmore in high school, and from when i was in about the 5th grade to the ninth grade and i would almost always have a little girlfriend but now i havent had one in about a year...i am clueless as to what this is...i really dont try to get a girlfriend but i never really did, girls would always come to me...does anyone have an idea to wut this is

2007-12-13 14:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thats the color of the bridesmaids dresses...any ideas about linens or other color options for the flowers?

2007-12-13 14:34:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

is there a certain thing that you do or have that just gets you through life. that makes everyday worth living for.

2007-12-13 14:34:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He means marriage papers. Also he wants to be boss of the house. I told him that this has to stop and he needs to move out because of several things besides this. He said he legally is supposed to get a 30 day notice before I can tell him to leave. He doesn't work and finds excuses not to.

2007-12-13 14:33:32 · 15 answers · asked by catsangel777 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok why do guys ask me out via text? its sooo annoying! i dont even get why they like me im so mean to them. anyways. i turn them down so why do they keep asking me out? please help me understand....

2007-12-13 14:32:52 · 18 answers · asked by mariah p 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife wont come to court to get a divorce and has her family lieing about her and my sons whereabouts and now the judge has ordered me to serve her one more time what happens then and if cps gets involved which he said will happen if she doesnt come the next court hearing how long after that will i see my son cause she is avoiding the courts and the mentor called to speak to her family and im the back ground heard the mother of my ex talking a bunch of crap?

2007-12-13 14:31:35 · 4 answers · asked by yourtowny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 14:30:55 · 7 answers · asked by luvs2shop2494 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, this morning, i asked my dad if he would drive me to school, but he said no cuz he had too many appointments later that afternoon to be able to come and pick...so, i asked my friend for a ride...when school ended i called my grandma to see if she could come pick me and my friend up - we were originally going to walk home, but decided otherwise...to call my grandma...i used my friends cell phone...a little bit before my grandma got to the school...my friend and i spotted our other friends riding their bikes towards the library...so we started talking to them and decided to go to the library and volunteer with them...when my grandma got there, we had her drive us to the library instead of my house...when i was in the middle of organizing books, my dad walked in and said, "ur in trouble, we're leaving, let's go." i was so confused! when we were in the car...he started telling me how irresponsible it was not to call him and blah-blah-blah...but he recently took my phone away...

2007-12-13 14:30:38 · 6 answers · asked by smashley:) 2 in Family

Everyone around her including her own family can see that she is destroying her life and the life of her 2 children. She blames everything on the husband but she can not tell him what it is that he has done to cause her to want out of the marriage. She has disconnected herself from her children and asked for a divorce. She does seem to think that by asking for a divorce and having the husband served with papers is painful and destructive to him. It is as if she is a totally different person that he married. The body is the same but the spirit living in the body is someone that he does not know. No history of marital problems no drugs no abuse nothing at all just one day the wife up and asked for a divorce and said tha she no longer wants to be married. What can be done besides let her go, sell the house and move on, knowing that one day she will hurt very bad for what she has done but she can not see it.

2007-12-13 14:29:10 · 6 answers · asked by lyvine27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought if I would give my wife something that would give her more energy (venti caramel frappuccino), she would have more energy and show more interest in having relations with me. But apparently this is not the case, she says it does nothing for her. Our time together has not increased.

What do you think?

2007-12-13 14:28:44 · 9 answers · asked by Elven Archer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 14:26:43 · 13 answers · asked by juanillo57 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When a guy says he loves u and wants to be with you then two weeks later he doesnt. Did he just want to get in ur pants

2007-12-13 14:26:10 · 23 answers · asked by Blondes Have more fun 6 in Singles & Dating

To want to start over with your life? My daughter will be moving out next year. Then all my children will know where to find me, but I want to move on and not let anyone else know where I am or What I am doing. I'm talking another state and job

2007-12-13 14:24:38 · 14 answers · asked by catsangel777 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 14:24:35 · 6 answers · asked by AggieMom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My and my wife are in the process of divorcing, She just recently lost her job and is very depressed. When i first talk to her she said that will only see my daughter when she says so. I pay child support.She refuses to signed the divorce papers she just gives me such a hard time, then she starts to open up and tells me that she been feeling like killing herself.She said that she filed for bankruptcy and she will lose her car.she said that she hated me sometimes and sometime she dont. I felt very sad about that. And the arguing stopped, and well talked regular. She said that she feel uncomfortable with men and little girls(she doesn't know y), that y she gives me a hard time about seeing my daughter. Can my wife do this?

2007-12-13 14:21:59 · 10 answers · asked by ace82 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, well I think I'm starting to develop feelings for this guy, and this guy is NOTORIOUS. He's known to be popular, but not for the best reasons. First of all, he's known to be loud, obnoxious, with a scandalous sense of humor. He's also known to be very bad with the girls, as no girls have really liked him enough to go out with him. Finally, he's not that attractive, it's awful for me to say something like that, but it is true. I also thinks he wants to be with me for the sake of having a girlfriend. On the flip side, he says he really likes me, and that he wants to be with me. He's a very trustworthy and kind friend, and ugh, I'm just so confused! Do you think I should give it a shot?

2007-12-13 14:21:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am goth, and just wondering about this, im bored.

2007-12-13 14:21:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay this is how it goes.... i like two guys and they are both my friends (the one ive been talking about lately is treating me a little bit better) and i know they dont like me back but tonite they were both hitting on this girl and normally im not a jealous person but wen i heard wat they were saying i wanted to cry my eyes out and i cant understand y but anyways.... like i said that just added on to my being depressed...... someone talk to me please.... and if anyone knores a song that wil fit my situation please tell... that always helps me.....

2007-12-13 14:20:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like I need to do something important? I have 2 kids bought a house already what should I do now?????

2007-12-13 14:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who's in a weird situation. She stays with her husband, and I know mainly because she's scared of life...she's truly had a hard life, in her defense, not your ordinary "life sucks" situation that we're all tired of, but that's highly personal so I'm keeping that to myself, really because it would take all year to write about it She has no family left except for her two daughters, because everyone she had died in the last two years. Her husband treats her like a child. He even tells her what to think. She can voice her opinion, and he will say, No you don't feel that you, you just think you do. This is why you feel this way, and then lecture her about it for the next three hours. If they try to go out with friends, she just stays in the background afraid to say anything, because if she says the wrong thing, guess what? LECTURE TIME!
There's not enough space left to explain more, but how do I give her the courage she needs to leave him? Her spirit's broken :(

2007-12-13 14:19:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met the love of my life 6 months ago, we've since travelled together & moved in together (about 3 months). We're trying for a baby, have joint health insurance and are talking about spending the rest of our lives together. However the M-word (marriage) has never been spoken...
We're both 40 and neither of us have been married before, mainly because we've been wating for the right person to come along.
I feel that he has and I guess that a ring for Christmas would be a pretty solid Hint that I do want to make things official between us. Is there anything wrong with doing that??
He currently often wears a ring that an ex gave him some time ago. He says he feels "naked" without one. I've previously mentioned that I'd like to get him a new one & he really liked the idea, but he was probably thinking we'd go shopping for one together....

2007-12-13 14:18:14 · 5 answers · asked by Jules 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 21 years old and my aunt is 32 years old. She married my uncle 2 years ago but I met her this year like in April. When I saw her I thought she was really pretty and hot. When I starting knowing her I fell in love with her. She has a good personality, funny, makes me smile, and really cool. She has such a pretty face. Last week I stayed at her house while everybody else was on vacation for 3 days. On the 3rd day in her house I was sitting in the couch watching a movie and she sat next to me. The air conditioner was on and she said she was really cold but I thought it was still hot. She started hugging me and she didn't take off the AC. Then she came on top of me and really started hugging me. I liked it but I didn't know what she was doing. She kept moving and was really hugging me and couldn’t let go. She was really grabbing me and then she put 1 hand under my shirt and 1 in my pants. Then I started hugging her and was touching her butt. I was so happy. I lied down on the couch and we were making out. I never knew she liked me. After making out for couple of minutes I wanted her so much I couldn’t let go of her. She was the reason I didn’t ask anybody out the entire year because of those feelings. After making out I carried her to the bedroom. I took off all my clothes except my boxers but she took every single clothes off. I didn’t know if I should take off my boxers but she took it off from me and we had sex. I stated with her the entire night. When we woke up I was facing her and she was facing me. We started talking on how great that was and I told her how I was in love with her for the entire year and how strong it was. She told me she always wanted to kiss me and be with me but she never knew it would go this far but she was really happy it did. She told me that she didn’t want to tell anybody yet and I agreed. As I was about to get dresses she stopped me and told me we still have 3 hours then she was like I want to take a nice hot bubble bath and was pulling me if I wanted to join her and I said hell yeah. We did it for like an hour and a half making love. After I left because everybody will be back soon I was se excited and happy. The next time I will see her is next Tuesday and I don’t know what to do. I’m really scared and nervous. I’m in so much trouble help!! This is serious and true and I don’t care if u don’t believe me just tell me what to do. Help!! She is very special to me. I wanted this for so long. When I jerk off I think about her. Please tell me what to do? I care about her so much.Even if i dont have sex with her i dont care. i love her before even the sex. When i saw her i fell in love. I want to be with her. I want to hold her hands, talk with her, smell her she smells good, touch her hair, kiss her, touch her lips, eat with her, when i wake up the first thing i want to see is her in my arms, and etc. i care about her too much.

2007-12-13 14:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-13 14:14:56 · 29 answers · asked by blah 1 in Singles & Dating

any low cost items on the shelf to brighten someone's day?

2007-12-13 14:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long did the relationship last?
( if your not in a relationship how did you meet your last bf or gf)

2007-12-13 14:14:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating