I truly think all men cheat! So here I'm going to leave my man because he cheated and then the next man I meet will do the same thing. So where the hell can I be going if their all the same? I do want to leave but if I leave and I get the same **** what I'm I complaining for. Men how long have you been with your girlfriends or wives and never cheated?
People are telling me I might have a self esteem problem cause I said he complete me. How many of you have husbands or wives who have cheated and complete you. He is a big part of me and when he's not here it just doesn't seem right.
2007-12-13 14:38:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't leave him if you love him and he is a good man. I have been all over the world. I have met kings, rich men, presidents, poor men, middle class, religious men, men in wheelchairs and I have honestly never met a man doesn't cheat. That is just the way it is. Good luck with everything. Here are the facts of life you need to learn:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything.
I don't lie. I know I sound bitter but I'm not. I know the truth and I'm happy no matter what. I'm just being honest.
2007-12-14 01:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All men don't cheat. Sure you've read some of the responses from the men who have been happily married and love their wives and have never cheated or wish to do so.
Well, my husband cheated and I feel that we compliment each other and 'go well together' but don't know that he 'completes me'. Think you really have to be complete with your self. We have a closeness that I've never experienced with anyone else. Mine was 'true blue' for many, many years and had a one night stand, and has been faithful ever since. So I don't know what to advise others to do when their spouse cheats; think it is according to if you can forgive and go on with your life together and if he remains faithful. All I know is I'm extremely happy I decided to stay in the marriage. You must do what you know is best for You; no one can tell you what is the right course of action to take.
2007-12-13 14:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever think that all men cheat. My ex-husband cheated through our entire marriage. I would be shocked if I found out that my 2nd husband was cheating. I completely trust him. We've been married over 30 years and I can honestly say I don't believe he ever cheated.
I have been suffering from several illnesses for more than 3 years now. About a year or so ago I was sitting outside and he was working on something. I asked him to come over because I wanted to talk (I was very depressed at the time). My medical expenses had exhausted our savings, among other problems. I told him that if he wanted I would leave because I felt guilty that I was causing him so much worry, trouble and I felt that I was ruining his life. I said a few other things, too. He said "I married you for better or for worse. I took our wedding vows seriously and meant every word. I know you've been sick but I love you anyway."
My 1st husband could say something like that and still cheat, but I would never believe that my current husband ever would.
2007-12-13 15:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, NOT all men cheat...maybe all the men that you have been with cheat but really there have been no men in my family that has ever cheated on their wives. I have a very large family, many extended. Not one of my uncles or cousins have EVER cheated on their wives and girlfriends. My parents have been married 39 years, my father has never cheated....and he worked overseas for a very long time and was away from his family for 6 weeks at a time.
My finace has never cheated on me, nor will he ever. This is his promise to me. We aren't even married yet and we have already said our vows.
It takes a real man not to cheat. A man who truly and entirely loves his wife/girlfriend to never cheat on her. I know of one cheater and we were only together for 5 months, he has been an ex for a long time.
Cheating is for losers, a**holes and the uncommitted. I will leave every single person who decides to cheat on me. I have a LIFE, a family, a forever with this man but cheating is the one thing I will leave and never look back for.
Cheating is a terrible, terrible thing. And no one deserves me if that is how they choose to treat me.
2007-12-13 14:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been cheated on by EVERY single guy I've spent 6 months or longer with so I know how you feel. You start to think it is something about you...at least I did. I don't believe all men cheat but I DO believe that the men I was going for years ago were the cheating type. I have changed what I look for in a man, been with my bf for 7 months, and am slowly restoring my faith in fidelity with his help and patience.
2007-12-13 15:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by laura1977 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All men do not cheat in terms of committing the act. All men do cheat according to the lust that sometimes pops in the mind and if not cast down, commit adultery according to the Bible in the mind, however this can also be said, of women who also have had encounters married or unmarried with men that made them cheat emotionally if not for a minute.
2007-12-13 15:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by nimnez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not all men cheat. I have never been with a guy who has cheated on me and I have dated a lot and now have been married 6 years.
And honey you do have self esteem issues if you are willing to be with a man who is not honest and faithful to you by not cheating.
Eventually you will meet a man who loves you and will never want to cheat on you.
2007-12-13 14:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by celtic_princess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no all men dont cheat and the phrase once a cheater always a cheater is a lie am man can truly change but one thing women have to understand as much as its out will to change teh woman has to be patient and she also has to be right for us to change i other words u cant expect him to do better if everything he does u have a question for or u dont give him any trust he has to know u truly are there for him for him to do better and no some men dont cheat i dont bu i have when i was in high school but once i got serious i never did it and it is very hard when u have women who dont want good men
2007-12-13 15:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the problem is not in all men just the one your married to. if u leave u may not get the same, u may get an honest trustworthy man. u don't need a man to complete u, unless your self esteem is low. all men don't cheat and betray, he may be a bog part of u, but it may be time to face reality and see him for who he really is, and not the fantasy u have built in your own mind.
2007-12-13 22:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first off... Your self esteem is suffering because the man cheated on you. Possibly your self esteem issues were there before, but your self esteem gets destroyed when your spouse cheats on you.
What you need to recognize right now is you have been traumatized by this, you are the hurt one and you have every right to be angry. Betrayal, especially by someone who supposedly loves you is a terrible thing to go through.
Give yourself time, heal, get rid of this guy and find someone who is actually worthy of your love
2007-12-13 15:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋