I am a year older then my wife, since she turn 46, 3 years ago we hardly had sex, 1x a month i going crazy.?

Answer 1

what???.. I want it all the time....lol..
maybe its just her...
find yourself a lover. to satisfy u....lol

Answer 2

Be considerate. Understand she may not have the option for more kids much longer. That said, if you really can't bear to have one more, it is better to tell her than ruin you relationship over it. I knew a couple who had a 6 year old girl; she wanted a boy, he was happy. She insisted, finally he agreed on the condition that she have her tubes tied after, whether or not it was a boy. She had a boy, got her tubes tied, and it was such a source of contention still that 3 months later her husband had moved out. Now 5 years later he is involved with someone else (with whom he has 3 kids) and she, who wanted more kids, is involved with someone else and can't have any more. So, don't let it ruin your marriage, but if you can give in, do. This is her last chance to have kids, short of adoption, and she wants to take it. BUT as some others have said, suggest waiting a few months (or suggest she ask her doctor how long to wait; he'll probably suggest at least a year). Don't say 'so we can see if your hormones calm down' say, 'so you can be at your best health for the pregnancy'.....and then see if maybe her hormones do calm down.

Answer 3

I think that you need to be honest with your wife and have a talk with her on how you feel. If she is not sure what is wrong then I think you should bring up about going to the doctor and you should go with her to the visit. You both should talk to the family doctor about this problem. Some times the family doctor can help figure out if there is some thing going on with her body that may be causing this kind of thing to happen. Some times it is hormone problems or stress related if she is not having other issues with sex. It is worth the visit and the money if she is willing to go see a doctor to make sure every thing is alright with her. It is nothing to be embarresed about because it happens to other couples as well be it the wife having problems or the man having problems. Men usually want sex more then woman at this age and it may be a lack of interest. Some times it helps by trying more forplay, such as kissing her neck or doing some thing romantic to get her in the mood. you may want to try diffrent things first to see if it helps and if not then talk to her to see if it is some thing that the doctor may be able to help you both with.
Good Luck!

Answer 4

Hello your wife might be going through the change of life,or maybe you need to spice up your love life.Sometimes when 2 people have been together for a while it becomes ho hum,If you ate your favorite food every day it would become that to.First you must find the right time to discuss the problem and read books take a tour to one of the stores that have lots of oils creams etc,etc, and contrary to what some think people are still active even in their 60's it just depends on the people and what they are opened to.Some women become more active as they feel free from child birth. Going through the change of life is not a death sentence it is what it is another change of many that we all go through with our bodies from the time of birth and it will forever do so.Talk to her most important listen to her and be sensitive to what she feels and needs and remind her gently of your needs, experiment and try different things until you find what works for the both of you. Happy Holidays

Answer 5

I am not a cheater..I am American and my boyfriend is from India...he is marreid to an Indian women....He tells me he does not love her and has cheated on her several times..because they have sex about 2 times in a year..He says that he loved her when they were having sex..but he seeks others because he has needs as every man does. There is nothing physically wrong with her...she just refuses.he bought sexual toys..etc..not because he is a pervert but needs affection.So he found me and made it clear that he would never leave his wife...until about 1 month ago he say's his wife has hurt him enough..Not giving him what he needs/desires....so he wants to get married to me/divorce her...He is not lying and he spends all of his time with me..Once a cheater is not always a cheater...She does nothing to help this situation..he has warned her and she don't care.....so when she calls him, he is with me..I didn't steal him.....there marriage was over way before me..Maybe she should realize this...make her read this. He is 44 and I am 38 and we are getting ready to plan a baby..He ask why we didn't meet sooner.

Answer 6

First go to marriage counseling....then to a doctor. If that doesn't work divorce her. This might sound mean but I waited too long myself. If she isn't having sex with you she has some sort of problem.

Answer 7

I think I hear the music to the "Menopause Blues" playing. I hope you sit down with her and open up the way to some good communication.

Answer 8

its called COMMUNICATION. she cant fix something if she doesnt know there is a problem. its not fair to you if she is doing this knowing how you feel, so talk to her. and get to know other ways how to satisfy self. maybe there are some issues with her. talk to her and see whats going on. and what can you do so that you can get what you need from her and you both are happy. GodBless

Answer 9

Whew....you need to get together with her and figure out what to do. You could use the help of a relationship therapist...what used to be called a marriage counselor.

Answer 10

Talk to your wife, maybe suggest going for annual physicals, etc.

You are asking what to do, or if you are going crazy?

Answer 11

this is a big lesson for who says age doesnt matters
those people of yore were not fools.age does matters