okay this is how it goes.... i like two guys and they are both my friends (the one ive been talking about lately is treating me a little bit better) and i know they dont like me back but tonite they were both hitting on this girl and normally im not a jealous person but wen i heard wat they were saying i wanted to cry my eyes out and i cant understand y but anyways.... like i said that just added on to my being depressed...... someone talk to me please.... and if anyone knores a song that wil fit my situation please tell... that always helps me.....
2007-12-13 14:20:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude... if you want something very nice and slow..and just a freaking sweet song, also to fit your mood of course, try rascal flatts, "winner at a losing game"
chorus goes:
Have you ever had to love someone that just don't feel the same?
Tryin' to make somebody care for you, the way i do,
is like trying to catch the rain.
And if love is really forever, I'm a winner at a losing game.
it's great...listen to it..oh warning
it might make you even more depressed
hey so listen to it, and tell me how you like it
2007-12-13 14:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over it. You know you will. As for your friends, maybe to them you're only ever a friend. I mean....that's how it is sometimes right? And as much as it hurts, you've got to live with it. There's this quote that I really like - "perhaps we all give our hearts uncritically to those who hardly think about us in return."
But there's nothing wrong with just being friends with those guys. I mean...even if you can't date them or anything like that, at least you have moments with them that their girlfriends won't ever have. All those good times...all those memories that the girl won't have with them.That's enough isn't it? And when their relationships fall apart, at least you guys will still be friends right?
To be honest with you... I've liked a good friend of mine for 2 years...in fact..I ended up telling him that I liked him and that put a barrier between us. And I'd walk down the halls and see him flirting with other girls and I'd feel jealous and stuff...but at the same time..I knew that one of his girlfriends was jealous of me because of the closeness, the bond we had. So..it goes both ways.
Some songs that I think are good for your situation right now is: I'm going to smile (by Lonestar) and Everything You Want (by Vertical Horizon)
2007-12-13 14:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sifauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do know a song(suffocate-j holiday) but if you think that they r happy it should be ok.Anyways if they hit on the same girl either niether of them get her or only one gets her which in ternially means that one just might come crawling back to you.
How do you know they dont like you have you asked them how they feel about you or did you tell them how you feel about them. Never sit back Always always go for the chase.
My friend had the same problem so she told the guy she liked the most how she felt and it turned out he had been crushing on here for 2 years. that was in 4th grade now we are in 7th and they will be haveing there 3 year annaversary on this coming v-day.
If you want to talk some more e-mail me or you can im me
2007-12-13 14:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Lyssie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Aww hun, we've all been there. Hang in there and stop hanging out with them so much, as people will think one is your bf and then no other guy will approach you. I'm not saying stop being their friends, but you need to be out with female mates and be reminded that there are other great guys out there. It'll take time but you'll be fine and the pain/jealousy will stop and you'll still have 2 good mates, I promise.
I've suggested the below songs. Listen to them, mourn what will never be, and then switch to Natasha Beddingfield - Single and strong songs like that, and get out there!
Breath me - Sia
How did I fall in love with you? - Backstreet Boys
2007-12-13 14:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tear Drops On My Guitar - Taylor Swift
2007-12-13 14:27:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best song for u is suffocate-j holiday one of my favz i think it would suit u. And don't worry bout the jealousy thing it'll pass, I'm not saying it will soon but it will I promise. The best solution is to pray about it, u'd be suprised of how much it'll help.
2007-12-13 14:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by KDS <3s U!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Survivor" Destiny child , "Irreplaceable" and "Me Myself and I" Beyonce, "Rise" Gabrielle
Don't worry about that, go shopping with friends, do stuff for yourself! Move on to another dude!
Tip: When u feel down, listen to songs from your childhood, because when u get caugh up in today's life, u sometimes need to go back
2007-12-13 14:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Aurel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok! I have so many guy friends that i like! trust me you don't want to go out with them. This is why. When you go out with them you guys have all this fun BUT when you guys brake up you NEVER hang out again or you guys feel way akward!!! listen to michael buble everything!!! It always makes me happy!!!
2007-12-13 14:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you mean about not being jealous, and yet still ending up crying...it sucks.
for a song...maybe "invisible" by taylor swift
sorry about your guy problems, hope all goes well!
2007-12-13 14:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ashlieee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be GLAD to talk to you. Contact me through the e-mail mechanism and we will chat. As to a song--try "HIGH HOPES"--something you SHOULD have, but these two losers are not giving you.
2007-12-13 14:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋