I met the love of my life 6 months ago, we've since travelled together & moved in together (about 3 months). We're trying for a baby, have joint health insurance and are talking about spending the rest of our lives together. However the M-word (marriage) has never been spoken...
We're both 40 and neither of us have been married before, mainly because we've been wating for the right person to come along.
I feel that he has and I guess that a ring for Christmas would be a pretty solid Hint that I do want to make things official between us. Is there anything wrong with doing that??
He currently often wears a ring that an ex gave him some time ago. He says he feels "naked" without one. I've previously mentioned that I'd like to get him a new one & he really liked the idea, but he was probably thinking we'd go shopping for one together....
2007-12-13 14:18:14 · 5 answers · asked by Jules 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's nothing fishy about him or desperate about me. We know each other through long-standing (15+ years) friends. Whatever you may thing of the ring idea, I'm not some twit who's being taken for a ride and neither is he.
2007-12-13 14:32:36 · update #1
"Are you psychic? I have a feeling he has no intention of marrying you or spending any longer with you than suits his agenda"
Missingora, obviously you consider yourself to be the psychic one.
2007-12-13 14:37:27 · update #2
No,,,,, guys dont want rings they want guns and beer and stuff like that,whats wrong with you,,,,,,a ring,,,,,,A Ring, ARE YOU SERIOUS,,,,,OK hows this,only get him a ring if you think hes gay
2007-12-13 14:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What makes you think he has marriage on his mind? Are you psychic? I have a feeling he has no intention of marrying you or spending any longer with you than suits his agenda.
If you must buy a ring, buy it for yourself!!! You got in an awful hurry to move in together. And at six months; no marriage vows and you're trying for a baby. You might want to take a good look at what you're doing and if you have your priorities in order.
2007-12-13 22:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take him shopping for a ring, and ask him to marry you after he picks it out. There's nothing wrong with proposing to the man of your dreams. Good luck.
2007-12-13 22:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by specialsuber 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Get the ring....
Just a recommendation.... you might want to get the ring before the baby.
2007-12-13 22:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Vitiran 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe hes just looking for a free ride??i wouldnt be so sure, get to know him better, you have done too much too soon, is too fishy, get him a perfume? sounds too desperate on your side
2007-12-13 22:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by suehellen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋