Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

theres this really annoying kid in my class that is like a stalker to me. when he teacher isn't around he takes out his phone and takes pictures of me and posts them on myspace. now hes memorizing stuff i've written to my friends!HOW DO I GET HIM TO STOP!?

2007-12-13 13:34:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

would you get a hard on when making out with your girlfriend. if not what is the absolute minnimal thing a girl could do to give you one.

2007-12-13 13:34:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got this new job and I'm very happy about it. Well I called a friend of mine to see if he wanted to go out to celebrate with me tomorrow. Well his answer was " uuh I don't know, It depends on how I feel tomorrow after work". Okay I understand you work late, but why couldn't I get a definite answer? To me it seems like he does'nt want to go. I then asked him did he have any suggestions, this is his responds, "No, I've been everywhere around this side of town."So he said he'll call me after work. My question is do you think he'll call? Does he sound a little hesitant or is this just how guy are? Do you think he'll spoil my happiness and I should try celebrating with someone else.

2007-12-13 13:34:10 · 3 answers · asked by tc22 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex left me for his ex few months ago. I decided to make totally no contacts with him. The reason why I let him go was I had some personal issue, I know if I do not work on it, I can not have a good relationship with anyone. After realized my weakness, I started to focus on my career and improve my own weakness. This morning, I received an email from my ex, I read it, but I did not reply it. Three hours later, he recalled the email. Any idea about why he did it? I love him very much and still do, but I did not plan to contact him any sooner because I am still feel I need some times to get everything together.

2007-12-13 13:33:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I had a dream that my boyfriend left me at the alter, and no one could find him. Now, he always gets a little antsy when ever any of our friends get engaged, but I had that dream , and it bothered me. Anyway, I asked him today if someone offered to pay for a wedding, EVERYTHING, but we had to get married in a few months or so, would he go for it. He said no, and that he wouldn’t be ready.He wants to wait.
Understand that we are both in college, and that we have been dating for four years. I guess I don’t understand why I feel so crappy about it now.Plus he's mad at me for bringing it up.Any ideas about why I feel so crappy?
Thanks.

Other times he wants to talk about it.

2007-12-13 13:33:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What are a list of possibilities of why a husband would lie about watching porn?

2007-12-13 13:32:14 · 55 answers · asked by Hawai'i 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf have been together for more than 2 years we are pretty serious.he will be 19 a couple ofweeks before I turn 18 this upcoming february. he lived at my house with my parents in his own room for about 6 months then he just moved back to his moms house cuz since he is incollege & he has a car to pay and time for a part time job only and had to pay also my parents for rent his mom finaly desided to be nice and said she will pay for the car if he moved back.so he moved back. 3 weeks ago she is very rude to him and can be bipolar and .she never keeps her world orchanges what ever she said.... and me at my house I am out of high school now I dont start college until june08 and I am getting a job soon with my bf and we were thinking that as soon as i turned 18 and got a job and a car for myself we can move to a nice aparnment together.that is our plan i kno my mom would not approve because she said i have to be married to move out.sso weird so what should i do about that,

2007-12-13 13:31:28 · 3 answers · asked by tink 2 in Family

My sister is 14 years old and I'm 26. She's all into emo and that bs which I hate. Anyways I love her with all my heart cuz she's my sister. A while back she told me she cut herself. It brought great alarm to me and she swore to me up and down that she wouldn't do it again. So I agreed I wouldn't tell my father. Last week, I found out she did it again, cuz she posted it on myspace. Not the cut but just the fact that she did it. I was so enraged that I called her and started yelling at her and blamed it on the emo image. I was mad to think that she's following this lifestyle that teaches you to do this to yourself and thought it was all to blame. I had it finally and told our dad and he doesn't get that it is wrong to do this to yourself. He isn't seeking help for her, and tells me I'm making a bigger deal of it then it has to be. What do I do? I love her with all my heart, and don't want to see something happen to her and it sickens me that my dad isn't doing anything.

2007-12-13 13:30:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want a picture of me for myspace and i promised her to make it private so only my friends can see it and i wont expose myself or doing porn or anything but she still think its dangerous! i also want to do photography but my mom laughs at me about it.

i told her i wanted a cam for christmas but shes not going to give me one. i told her i want to save up for one but she's not going to allow it. WHAT CAN I DO? i feel left out that all my friends have pictures of themselves on THEIR private sites and all i have is a stupid picture of some cartoon

2007-12-13 13:30:15 · 2 answers · asked by stephine 1 in Family

I need help. Please I ask anyone that can help me. I'm 18 years old and hate my life. I do the same routine everyday:

Get up
Go to School (Tech College)
Come Home
Play Xbox 360
Go to Bed


I do it all over the next day. On weekends I do the same thing except without school. I have 2 friends. One that I hang out with once a week usually and the other lives about 45 minutes away. I never had a steady relationship with a girl I admire for more then 2-3 weeks. It never got serious because I find some way to screw it up........so I never kissed a girl. I don't think I'm bad looking, but mainly....

My life feels so empty. I think if I had a girlfriend that would make me happy and make me feel like I'm worth something to someone other then my parents.....I think for the FIRST time in my life, I'll be happy. Please help me figure out what to do. If I didn't have God, I probably would have commited suicide by now.

2007-12-13 13:29:35 · 7 answers · asked by Tyler 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been thinking alot about a male friend of mine i cant get him out of my head i really miss talking to him all the time. I've never felt this way before is there anything wrong with what im feeling for this guy?? i feel the urge every time i see him to look him up and down and check out his package!!! Does this make me gay?? Why am i feeling this way?

2007-12-13 13:29:13 · 35 answers · asked by Timo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 13:28:39 · 1 answers · asked by miley 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a student Primary Education teacher, and looking forward to Graduate and pursue my carrer in Education and teaching children, it's all i have ever wanted to do and b independant, i love my boyfriend so much and would do anything for him,
but i told him i don't want to get married and i never plan to have children (am in my early 20's this could change) and he went crazy he said, " he wants his life with me and he wants me to commit to him, to have children with me"
" i am being selfish because it's all about me,"
but he said its about give and take
but how can he say am being selfish when am i am saying am not ready for children,
I don't complain about his carrer as he got his degree last year so why is it such a problem for me to have one?
and i love him more than anything and don't want anyone else but he wants to marriage and am not ready,
Am i being selfish?
Should i agree to this?

2007-12-13 13:28:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 22 and live in my own apartment. My mom and dad are going through a divorce. My dad cheated on my mom with a girl who was a lot younger than him.He is also on meth.This is the second time this has happened too. Yesterday he arrived back at my mom's house and she let him in (no idea why). I called today and my mom asked if my sister called and what she had to say about this. I said she was pretty peeved about it. My dad started yelling and freaking out. My mom said bye and hung up. She called back saying she called the cops and that she might need me to drive up there. Im freaking out. I love my mom (not my dad really) but am sick off all this. What do I do?

2007-12-13 13:27:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if you are having woman troubles, who, in general, do you think is more capable of answering your question?

women, who may know how the other party is interpreting events, or other men, who may have been in your position before?

2007-12-13 13:26:38 · 7 answers · asked by DocLove 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel so...:)?
I feel so...:)?
today i was filling my tank and i guy was trying to get my attention i didnt pay any attention to him then i decided to turn around the guy asked did i remember him i said no then he said he went to school with me i still didnt remember,i graduated from h.s. nearly 4 years ago, he told me his name and that i took a class with him. i finally remembered him and we conversed for a min. the thing is i was surprised to see that he knew me he was attracive then and still is. but i never talked to him i was quiet. well afterwards i left should i have gotten his number

2007-12-13 13:24:14 · 2 answers · asked by gofigure86 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I tell my boyfriend that I want to be with him for the rest of life and that he means the world to me and how should I tell him that I want to spend the rest of my life with him I'm 26 and he is 30 we have been together a year and a half now and he buys me everything that I want and he also pays for everything he is kind caring loving and really sweet to me he has never hit me or hurt me in any way my family really likes him a lot he also feels the same way as me.

2007-12-13 13:21:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she said i can get it done but won't let me she changed her mind and is being really mean i need soo much help!

2007-12-13 13:21:33 · 5 answers · asked by pellie4 2 in Family

well, i just got my school report back, (1st year of highschool) and it turned out really good. i got good comments and good marks. my dad is extremely pleased, hes rewarding me $250. and i showed my mum and she was pleased as well. she looked a bit down when she told me that she never got good reports. now she dosn't look so pleased and looks a bit annoyed(i can just tell when she is annoyed, it's in her eyes and tone) with dad being so proud, coz he can't shut up about me and stuff. i wouldn't call this jelousy i dunno it's just she is down about me getting really good reports because it makes her remember how her ones were. how can i cheer her up?

2007-12-13 13:21:16 · 3 answers · asked by Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!! 4 in Family

Be honest about whether you think i'm hot or not....

2007-12-13 13:20:26 · 46 answers · asked by tweetie545 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so this kid asked me out at school and i sed i dont know cauz i didnt know him that well.Well we have been talking alot on myspace and stuff and im kinda falling for him, because i really started to like him!! well heres the deal......My friend told me that he might be going out with this new girl at school!! i was like omg! i dont see how he could do that to me! i mean isnt that messed up or wut?!?! Then once she told me i felt kinda jelous... =[
( and im in 8th grade)

2007-12-13 13:19:29 · 9 answers · asked by Molly 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband dearly but it is sometimes bothersome that he doesn't listen to my needs and concerns. He just retired from the military which I didn't like much at all for the 8 years I lived of the 20 with him. I always dreamed of a 50's type of lifestyle due to all the time away and unpredictable lifestyle and he knew and agreed to slow things down and find a job to be home at night etc. once he retired at 20 years. After trying one home business that didn't supply a steady enough income I caved and offered for him to be a vol EMT or firefighter (which firefighter was never on my fav list) but something he always wanted to do. I had been on him for nearly a year to get in better shape and I got my wish now that I agreed to the volunteer thing. (I feel hurt that he didn't do it for me but now is going to the gym.) I feel as if my needs and wishes are 1/2 heard and he is always giving to the community, and 50% to what I want. Our love life is down and he wonders why.

2007-12-13 13:19:17 · 10 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with my ex for almost 2 years and we have a daughter together. Though
he has never seen her, she is 3 weeks old. When we were dateing he was
abusive and when i found out I was pregnant i left him, in fear that he
might hurt the baby. I got with my current boyfriend who was also my very
close friend almost right after i left my ex. He helped me out my whole
pregnacy and was there when she was born. He also has a daughter who is
almost a year. I lost contact with my ex through my pregnacy because
besides him being crazy his family and him denyed the baby being his. My ex
went into the marines and is going to marry his new g/f, and me and my
boyfriend are supose to get married. But i talked to my ex the other day
and all the feelings i had for him came back, and now I don't know what to
do. I feel horrible for haveing feelings for someone other then my b/f and
I don't know what to think anymore. Its horrible. What should I do?

2007-12-13 13:13:44 · 34 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or wanted to watch it in order get turned on, would you be offended??

Or feel as though you aren't good enough alone?

If you were OK with it, how would you suggest that you are and offer that to your man?

2007-12-13 13:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Renesme 5 in Marriage & Divorce

She says nothing is up, but I suspect she is cheating. What do you all think?

2007-12-13 13:12:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 13:11:10 · 8 answers · asked by dalyn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been with this guy for 7 months and i love him to death. The problem is he has a 2 year old son and no place to live. He is looking to buy a house and trying to have his son legally on a full time basis. Im a mom with a 7 year old and i know how important our children are to us. I miss him terribly and want to see him but there is no time. He takes his son every weekend and works alot during the week, im willing and trying to be patient but i cant help but to feel so lonely some nights. I want to be there for him and wait this whole thing out because i feel he is worth it, but how do i handle feeling so lonely sometimes. We are in our late 30's and i dont want anyone else.

2007-12-13 13:07:27 · 20 answers · asked by Steviemercury 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex of 3 years in September out of anger b/c he didn't attend social events with me and when I tried to get him back, he wouldn't come back. He told me he was unhappy in the relationship and he was stressed. Honestly, I think he wanted to go awhile ago but wasn't sure, and this was the opportunity for him to escape. We are both 25 and now I really regret what I did, and I am suffering through the consequences. I know I need to move on but I can honestly say he was my true love, he made me really happy, and I feel like I can't find another person who would make me as happy as he did. He has already moved on, probably dating other girls already. I went on a few dates, but none of them can compare. I was wondering if anyone's ex ever decided to get back with them years later under similar circumstances? I know the odds are against me, but when you truly feel that person is the one, it makes me wonder.

2007-12-13 13:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by angelgirly111 1 in Singles & Dating

I am best friends with a guy, "Alex". We are really good friends, and i honestly have no other feelings for him. I am going to see a movie with him and another one of my guy friends tomorrow, and my mom thinks I should invite another girl just because they are guys!! I told her that they are two of my good friends, and I trust them with my life! Iwas talking to Alex in science once, and He asked me what I'd do if he had cancer. I said cry, then asked him. he told me that he'd give me his kidney if I had kidney cancer, his liver if I had liver cancer, and half his brain if I had brain cancer. See waht I mean??? And she was freaking out. I just was wondering wether or not she is being sexist or fair. I really think its wrong to judge someone by sex!

2007-12-13 13:03:20 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

i think that it doesnt exactly matter what hand it's on it matters that you love each other. i know about the myth that the vein leads to the heart.

2007-12-13 13:00:28 · 13 answers · asked by alinab8s 1 in Weddings