She says nothing is up, but I suspect she is cheating. What do you all think?
2007-12-13 13:12:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks for the answers. I just called her and the guy answered. He said she could not talk right now and she would call back after they were done eating. Then he said wink. What did he mean by that??
2007-12-13 13:24:52 · update #1
Should I cheat on her to get back???
2007-12-13 13:45:06 · update #2
WHAT??! She can't have a guy friend?? She probably likes chicks better anyways.
2007-12-13 13:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by slgraff✪✪ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, he said wink. Did you get to talk to her then? If so , he was kidding but I'm not sure how much of that is true for you. How would you allow this and think it's ok? My husband is pretty trusting and we aren't jealous people but there is no way that this would ever happen! She is trying out this guy and letting you know she is wanting to move on...is this for you to change and do something different? I don't know, do you? It really is your cal, we can't tell you any truth. It's up to you and her. I just don't think that works in a real marriage.
Not without it being an open marriage and you can do the same...that would be different. But, in your words you are questioning if she is cheating? Helll Yeah!! Miss Mary
2007-12-13 13:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on her will not solve your problems. Why did she want to go visit a man that she met online? Why is she chatting and meeting men online? There is some real problems in your marriage. Why is another man answering her phone and telling you you can not speak with your wife? That is crazy. It's time to start divorce presidings. She is really cheating.
2007-12-13 15:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Hotgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor thing...I feel so bad for you. Cheating is written all over this. At least she tells you that she is going to met this guy most people would never do that. I think its time for a one on one talk with her and if she still says she is lying you may need to go talk to somebody. Good Luck! I hope everything works out in your favor
2007-12-13 13:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lou Lou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask? You were ok with her going? A man she met online!? What else would she be doing out of state with a man she met online? There is NO doubt she is cheating. Just the fact that she went away from her HUSBAND to visit another man in another state by herself. WOW!? Big red flag.
2007-12-13 13:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you particularly have self belief you're being paranoid? Ask her why she maintains to be with you whilst it style of feels obtrusive her affections lie someplace else. If my husband voiced concern approximately my speaking to a guy (and that i do have male acquaintances), i might take those concerns very heavily. except you're a weirdo paranoid stalker loopy jealous husband - which i don't sense in any respect. i think of you're properly in line. If I referred to as a guy fifty 3 cases even my laid back very unjealous hubby might call me to the carpet. not something good is coming from that many calls. not something - do you hear me? She parked interior the back because of the fact she knew you would be pissed? what's she sixteen? completely out of bounds. i might boot her. i'm not being turn. each so often human beings prefer a ask your self. they ought to be attentive to you is unquestionably not taken care of like 3 day previous rubbish. If she would not get the ask your self, what have you ever lost. you have tried reason.
2016-11-03 05:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is WEIRD behavior. If my husband did that, it would be OVER. If you are uncomfortable with it, then TELL HER. If she still chooses to go visit him, then she is prioritizing her own needs over your marriage - not a good sign. I dont know whether she is cheating or not, but I do know, that this can not be good for your marriage. It will make you untrusting whether she is cheating or not - and will eventually put a wedge between you and your wife. Not good.
2007-12-13 13:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Las Julius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You Big Dummy !!! WHY in the world would you let your wife go out of state to meet a Stranger that she met ONLINE??!!! Suppose he was a Serial killer, or rapist??!! Frankly, she's more than likely Cheatin' !! Maybe you should Change the locks on your house. Good Luck !!
2007-12-13 13:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds fishy. What man is going to let his wife meet some strange man that she met over the net? Out of state or in? Are you just saying this or did she really?
2007-12-13 13:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ava 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all I can't believe she actually told you that. Who does that? I mean I can see people meeting people out of state but I would suspect they would lie about it.
I don't think anything good is going to come of this though.
2007-12-13 13:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by jenny s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time to get out of the relationship. For one thing, I'm suprised she's meeting men online and the second thing is that she's gone to meet someone and you let her. She is cheating if she's with someone else.
2007-12-13 13:43:27 · answer #11 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋