I need help. Please I ask anyone that can help me. I'm 18 years old and hate my life. I do the same routine everyday:
Get up
Go to School (Tech College)
Come Home
Play Xbox 360
Go to Bed
I do it all over the next day. On weekends I do the same thing except without school. I have 2 friends. One that I hang out with once a week usually and the other lives about 45 minutes away. I never had a steady relationship with a girl I admire for more then 2-3 weeks. It never got serious because I find some way to screw it up........so I never kissed a girl. I don't think I'm bad looking, but mainly....
My life feels so empty. I think if I had a girlfriend that would make me happy and make me feel like I'm worth something to someone other then my parents.....I think for the FIRST time in my life, I'll be happy. Please help me figure out what to do. If I didn't have God, I probably would have commited suicide by now.
2007-12-13 13:29:35 · 7 answers · asked by Tyler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey Hai!
Don't you ever worry! This is something everyone goes through... believe me, life feels empty when u dont really try to fill it up! and girlfriends or boyfriends arent the only way to fill it up either..... Dont consider this as an advice. I share my experiance.... Sit with urself.... write down all ur emotions in a piece of paper..... everything!!!
when ur done, read it! and tell urself that this 'was and is' what u feel till this moment! convince urself and give urself a confidance sincerely that this is not what u want and that YOU are the only one who can make a change in ur life.... and YOU are the only one who can help u out of this emptyness..... tare of this paper now..... and into the waste bin it goes...... go to sleep......
Wake up the next day... fresh!!! greet urself.... ask urself what u love doing? ask urself what u've always wanted to do.... U r 18! Maybe u wanted to learn driving! or u wanted to have a change in everything.... so go ahead, renovate ur room, change ur wadrobe..... add color to ur life! going for a walk in the nearby park would defenitely give u a boost. sit on a bench and look around..... maybe u will get inspired by someone or something that u see there one fine day.... look around for kids..... Did u know, kids make a hugeee differance in ur life..... they ask u sooooo many things and answering them in patiance does make u feel so worthful and satisfied..... teach them good things u know! they'll apreciate u and will soon be ur fan! help people around who are less fortunate, financially or health wise. it will sure give u satisfaction! Moreover, do atleast one thing everyday that makes u busy and gives u no time to think of this emptiness feeling!
You say, u belive in God! so, also believe that He hasnt sent a single person into this world without atleast one thing that he does not excell in.... recognize what makes u unique from the rest of the world! U r special in ur own way! Noone is like U and no one can be U!!! so know it and be it! U'll be noticed and u'll be popular too! and u will have more friends!be proud of urself and if u arent, then do something that makes u proud of yourself!
Hey! i maybe a bit tooo boring! but i sincerely wish i can try help u make a change in ur life just like how i have changed to Myself and made my life colourful, fun and lively..... I've managed to fill in soooooo much into my empty life... and hope u too do!
2007-12-20 10:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by A world of peace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a smart man in desperate need of companionship. Try first of all to speak to a counselor either at College or a professional one. Think of it as a guidance advisor. Finish school you will find someone all in good time.
2007-12-13 13:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry that u feel that way about ur life...i sometimes feel the same
change the way u do things ask someone at ur college if they wanna hang out
girlfriends wow....if u find a good one u wont mess up (that may sound harsh oO) but trust me
go out and find new friends
ul have a ton of fun
ask out a girl that u hardly know (but obvouisly know her a little lol)
fill up ur life...go to church, go to the mall and bbuy a new wardrobe go to partys
HAVE FUNNN!!!!
i hope i helped!!!! please dont do anything ud regret!!
2007-12-13 13:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, then tomorrow after school, skip the xbox session and kiss a girl instead...I guarantee you that's a better arrangement than what I'll have going on all day tomorrow. Then, if you like that (and I'm sure you WILL) you don't have to entertain thoughts about killing yourself...you can kiss girls instead...it's a nicer way to spend a day, and there's more of a future in it than killing yourself.
2007-12-13 13:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a life man. Join the military and get some life experiances and money for college.
2007-12-13 16:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by oneiloilojeepney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the book by the Dalai Lama "The Art of Happiness". It will bring light to reasons why your are unhappy and will teach you how to find peace within you. Find a hobby and you will be excited to wake every morning.
2007-12-13 13:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Life is great
2016-05-23 11:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋