Last night I had a dream that my boyfriend left me at the alter, and no one could find him. Now, he always gets a little antsy when ever any of our friends get engaged, but I had that dream , and it bothered me. Anyway, I asked him today if someone offered to pay for a wedding, EVERYTHING, but we had to get married in a few months or so, would he go for it. He said no, and that he wouldn’t be ready.He wants to wait.
Understand that we are both in college, and that we have been dating for four years. I guess I don’t understand why I feel so crappy about it now.Plus he's mad at me for bringing it up.Any ideas about why I feel so crappy?
Thanks.
Other times he wants to talk about it.
2007-12-13 13:33:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It appears that he is not in the least serious about marrying you .He is shirking his responsibilities as soon as the issue of expenses come up. He wants to delay the marriage as far as possible so as to continue exploiting you further. It is now time for you to listen to your intuition [which made indications in your dream] and have a face to face talks with him.You may then decide whether it is correct for you to continue relations with him or not.
2007-12-14 02:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋