Okay, I have always had alot of friends, But it use to be cause i was funny, Now girls are always hitting on me and telling me they think im hot, My friend who has ALWAYS been a really pretty girl, told me you get use to that stuff after a while, But i think its really awkword when a girl hits on my infront of my girlfriend,.And now im even being stalked. People i don't know send me pictures on myspace, of me walking home, or at the mall, and now my girlfriend thinks im cheating on her cause all these girls are around me, so SHE IS STALKING ME. She is always confronting me about going places., and when im at the mall with friends, SHE JUST WALKS UP TO ME AND CONFRONTS ME. I really want people to leave me alone and go away, but at the same time, like anyone else, i kinda like the knew attention. What should i do?
2007-12-13 18:30:04 · 20 answers · asked by Nickhats. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are so lucky.
Why You?
2007-12-13 18:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mr realistic...believer in truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, use spell check on this thing. Your question was a bit hard to read for the misspellings.
Second, you have to make a choice if you like the attention well enough to put up with the stalking or not. I think it's dangerous...jealous girls, jealous boyfriends who don't like their girls wanting to go out with you, ego problems, etc. Anyway, decide what's more important to you and then take steps to gain what you want. If you want left alone, maybe you can make yourself less cute? Don't shave, wear goofy hats, goofy clothes....lots of different things you can do. I know you shouldn't have to change your looks to have people treat you like a normal person, but there's not much you can do about that since there doesn't seem to be any laws broken.....yet.
As for your girlfriend, talk it out with her. Tell her that this is just the way it is, that you can't control what other girls do and that she's just going to have to grow up and trust you if she wants to stay with you. Do it nicely, though. Don't go getting a cocky attitude because then I'm sure I know what her answer will be and I don't think it'll be the one you were wanting. Just be nice and let her know how silly it is for her to get upset about something you have no control over, especially since you know you're innocent.
Anyway, I can't think of anything else. Just keep your friends close and learn to give menacing looks. That might deter some of the more shallow girls from bothering you.
Good luck.
2007-12-14 02:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's see, You are popular with both the guys and the gals, so you must be a pretty nice person to everyone. But the girls are getting to be too much to deal with. I have to ask what, if anything, did you do to encourage them? Did you flirt too much, or play one girl against another? You stated you have a girlfriend, but for some reason she follows you around (or stalks you as you put it.) Sorry fella, but all these girls don't come around or put you on Myspace without some encouragement. Your girlfriend may not be expressing her mistrust of you in the most mature manner, but you definitely have given her reason to doubt your fidelity and you did state that you liked all the attention. So let's be honest, here. You shouldn't have a girlfriend while keeping all the other girls interested. It's obvious to the other girls that you are not into this relationship and that's why they hang around. You are sooo close to cheating on your girlfriend now. You'd do well to think about what you want the most and go with it. You can't have your cake and eat it, too. Good luck.
2007-12-14 03:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by cantbeme_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have a major male magnestism that some flock to. You may just have to deal with it, unfortunatly, kinda like the Poparrazi, it is something you will have to deal with.
You need to be extremely honest, and let those other girls know your taken, no flirting back because if you do you are only giving those girls false hope that you will be with them. And that is cruel. Some girls feel with everything they have, wearing thier hearts on their sleeves, and to be led on and than rebuffed is wrong.
Good luck to you, I would certainly let my girl know that she was everything in the world to me, or you may lose her, you need to reassure her, by NOT looking at all the eyecandy that has been popping up in your new field of vision.
Guardianofthemoon
PS you can make your myspace page private...hint hint.
2007-12-14 02:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by guardianofthemoon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i got stalked by my old friends ex
then i told him 2 fu ck off and he left me alone.
maybe just drop a hint tellin her 2 go away from u and give u some space or get some1 2 say something 2 her good luck!
x
2007-12-14 02:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by MissJay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur girlfrined might be behind it all taking pictures and stuff and making myspace accounts to stalk you with. she confronts u out the blue for no reason becuase she might be psycho or just super possessive. dump her and u'll see it stop.
2007-12-14 02:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by ...pleasehelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it roll off your shoulders, tell your gf to chill out, you arent doing anything wrong and if she has that big of a problem with it maybe you should ask this girl to please back off, you appreciate the compliments but your gf doesnt and until she does you would appreciate it if they stopped.. and if she doesnt at least you tried, make sure your gf knows your giving it a shot though.... and if these or this girl(s) doesnt stop and your gf is still getting mad and doesnt trust you then let her go, at least you tried but its not your fault that this or these girl(s) are psychotic..
2007-12-14 02:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by kaligirl...xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like attention too, but i love my love. show it to her. your gf then can only feel more proud of getting you. otherwise she might be less confident about herself. then you are the best boost of her confidence. she is your focus. not the other hits you get. there are always other attention in our life, so what?
2007-12-14 03:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by hwlwlf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what is right and tell her your feelings you know. If I would be in your stuation. I gonna say " thanks for your consideration, I know I'm cute but so terrible...."
If not do the 1,2,3 step 1st: snob 2nd: run 3rd: Hide
she will give up and say "Im so fool to believe that he loves me".
2007-12-14 02:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People you don't know send you pictures of yourself in the mall or walking home?????? CREEPY!
2007-12-14 02:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by kyliekissesx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police or get a face transplant, your choice.
2007-12-14 02:34:55 · answer #11 · answered by caityjayne13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋