IDK like 2 weeks ago me and mom had started to fight when ever she came home. She'd be mad when i dont pick up my mess or if she gets a phone call from my teacher. She says if i wanna live like some person that will get envoled with drugs, and drinking then i should keep up what im doing. The other day i kinda cursed her off and walked out the door and went to hang with my friends. IDK what to do anymore.. i say sorry but shes like u dont mean it. I cant turn anywhere only to my dad (not my REAL dad but my close step dad) but that'd be worse. What should i do to not come home to my mom screaming at me?
♥Keepin it Melina style♥
2007-12-13 17:23:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ROFL! ME AND DRUGS DONT MIX! HELL IM ONLY 13 MAN!! JESUS CHRIST
2007-12-13 17:31:03 · update #1
Okay... you are 13 and old enough to know better.
Your parents work hard to put a roof over your heads, food in the pantry, clothes on your backs, and heat in the winter.
You are NOT holding up your end AND you are showing blatant disrespect to your parents.
You are not too old to be spanked.
If you want to have peace in your household, you need to hold up your end. Go to school, keep your grades up, clean up after yourself, stay out of trouble, and do whatever little chores your mom assigns to you.
It is a lot easier to just do these things... than it is to fight and resist doing them.
Perhaps you can make a schedule of some sort and mark the chores off just to show you did it... this happens on Thursdays, and that happens on Mondays... you get what I am saying.
When you demonstrate that you are a mature person, you will be given more freedom. Expect them to treat you like a brat for as long as you behave like one.
2007-12-13 17:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you dabbling with drugs and alcohol? If so, then maybe you should think twice about what you are doing and listen to her.
If not, what I used to do when my mom was just in the mood to argue was leave the house or not be home when she came back from work and be back later on when I knew she would have been cooled off. Try to talk to her. Communication is really important, if that fails, then just keep your distance. Maybe shes just having a temporary episode.
Moms can be weird. Be strong.
good luck
2007-12-14 01:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by BumblebeeQueen84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to deal with your mistake , by going off on your mom never do that even if she deserve it. Wait until she cools off and tell her sorry again and try to speak from your heart. Be sincere!
2007-12-14 01:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by lee lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your mother and take her words to heart. You may not know it NOW, but she will be your backbone for the rest of your life. You'll be lost without her, so treasure her while you still have her.
2007-12-14 02:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean up your act and try giving her a little respect...remember she's the parent and your the child. What the heck do you expect.
2007-12-14 06:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋