Ok me and my ex broke up this summer in july07 we had sex one more time so i moved away and we never spoke again so i recently found out i was pregnant late october so i try 2 contact him 2 let him kno and i find out he has a gurlfriend and they been together since April07 and now they r so in "love" so of course he denies my baby at first because he is young and immature.
so later he contacts me sayin ok he wants a test. and now his whole family knows and his girlfriend knows and she is really young she is 16. so i agree on takin a test but im not due until march08 so what can he do now until the baby is born? he is only 18 and im 20 . i talk 2 him on the phne and we just have normal conversations but i want him involved during my pregnancy. at first he said its not his tthen he want a test and now he think its his but he wanna b around.
2007-12-13 16:35:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can go around in circles with this, have the test and find out for sure. Next time, have the maturity and sense not to "have one for the road" and get into this mess.
2007-12-13 16:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by cattbarf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him on the Maury show! You get a free flight to NY and get paid for being on the show (and losing your dignity...especially if he's not the father.)
Tell him you're sure he's the father and that you want him to be a part of the pregnancy because you don't want to go through this alone. If that doesn't work, guess there's not much to do until the baby is born.
2007-12-13 16:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on the talk show maury polvich or whoever does that paternity/sleeping around with someone else show. I see 16 is a statutory rape scene waiting to happen which depends on the state him and his gf lives. but anyways if he lives far from you no chance he can be there for you. forget about him and become super mom and get child support from him from denying the baby in the first place if it is his.
2007-12-13 16:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be prepared to be on your own, if he's a decent guy he'll be involved but you shouldn't expect anything out of him except for child support. If he's not involved though, he doesn't get to be a part of his/her life
in case you didn't know, i don't know what the question is...
2007-12-13 16:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by saeuta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to be invloved with the baby, if the test is correct, and hes the dad, he should at least be there and supportive for the baby. good luck and congrats with the baby
2007-12-13 16:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋