for women who didn't wait until marriage...did you somehow regret it???or was it an advantage???? I mean did you ever tell you hubby that you wished he was your first???...
i'm 17..i'm planning to save mine...but of course it still confuses me....
2007-12-13 16:38:46 · 35 answers · asked by justME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am still a virgin and I am 20 years old with a boyfriend of the same status. We have been dating over a year and have known each other for three years. He is the best thing that has happened to me.
I don't regret it because I haven't done anything to regret. It is an advantage because we are both saved, virgins, who are saving our virginity until our wedding night.
I do wish and pray that he will be my first. And that our lives will be fulfilled with one another.
Please keep yourself, it is God's will and you will be more than happy when you meet that special someone who is saivng himself for you as well...it makes it well worth it!
God Bless you,
2007-12-13 16:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems virginity is a popular subject here in Yahoo Answers!! LOL. Anyways, I myself am a virgin and I've decided to lose it when the time is right. Not necessarily until marriage though. If there is a special girl I would want to share it with, then of course I would, but not for a one night stand or anything of that matter. I may be a young 19 year old, but I'm not the type of guy to simply sleep around. At first, I told myself I would save it until marriage, but then I realized why wait if you feel the time is right with this certain someone? She may or may not be my wife, but either way I will make sure they both mean something special to me...
2007-12-13 22:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Randy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I lost my virginity, I was 17 and it was my junior year of high school. I ended up marrying the guy, lol. However, I have never come to regret it.
When the time is right, you'll know. The best way to do it is to wait til marriage. It makes it really special - but do what your heart tells you to do.
And if you don't wait til marriage, don't fret over it. People are going to talk either way. =)
2007-12-13 16:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy so my opinion might be different than a woman's but here it is. I think you shouldn't wait until your married. What if after the sex the relationship dies? or what if he is just the type of guy that isn't good in bed. You will loose interest in him even though you might love him. You will want that feeling other women talk about that can lead to cheating. You also want to know what your life would be like with that guy after you have gone the whole way. I am not encouraging you to sleep with many other people, but the one you think is the right one. ok! Holla!
2007-12-13 16:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by cesars33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, save it if u want to. I didn't and had no regrets. I lost mine at 15, to see what all the fuss was about, and got pregnant. I DO regret the fact my mom made me have an abortion. Otherwise, he/she would be 25 now. If u want to save yours, great. But in my case, I was married to my 4th hubby, when I was almost 29, and had had 3 kids by then, and was single and loving it when I met my virgin, ( yes, he was a virgin!!!) hubby, and he was 26. I thought he was gay, when he told me he was a virgin at 26. The rest of our friends said he was gay too, because he had the worst luck with women!!! zI took pity on him, and led him to the Garden of paradise. and we have been together ever since.
2007-12-13 16:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If being a virgin is something that YOU want to be until marriage, then go for it. What other women did is irrelevant, since you get to decide how to live your life.
For the record, I was neutral about virginity and had no motivation to wait until some unknown future marriage. And nothing bad happened as a result.
2007-12-13 17:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, my hat goes off to you for waiting until marriage to have sex. It's hard to refrain and I commend anyone who can. I don't regret having sex before marriage. I have been with the same person for 6 years, but I didn't lose my virginity to him. While a part of me wishes I did lose it to him, part of me is glad I had other experiences to compare it to. Because we have such a great sexual chemistry, I know I'm not missing out on anything else that's out there, 1 because we have a great sex life and 2 i've been with other people.
2007-12-13 16:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i lost it pretty young. i don't wanna say i regret it but i wish i would have wait until later like 18+ to someone who truly care about me. i mean it all depends on the person, whatever makes you feel comfortable. it doesn't matter if its before or after marriage, when you feel its right and with that special person. make sure u don't regret it, then you'll stop being confuse. and yes i do wish sumtimes i would tell that special person later on in my life that i am his first but he'll just have to accept it or else, screw him cuz hes missing out lol ...but your young, you still got college and a career to look forward to. play it safe then sorry! good luck!
2007-12-13 16:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by SimplySweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a virgin nor am I married. I have no regrets at all That I have not waited until marriage. I have no idea when or if I will be married. I think if I do get married the man will not feel it is necessary that I am a virgin, if he does he is out of luck.
2007-12-13 16:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but I regret loosing it to the person I lost it to. I would much rather have saved it for marriage or if not that I wish I could have saved it for the guy I'm with now, who is my fiance'.
2007-12-13 16:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋