Why? I would like to know who reported my question and why? Is it really that offense that I dont understand why a woman would get so mad because her man has a tired/stress/med issue that has nothing to do with her? Is it so offensive that I have enough self confidence to know that just because one of us cant climax doesnt mean we are cheating or dont find the other appealing.
Come on people, it happens. Why do you people get so offended?
And I never did get any of the women to say how they expect their men to feel when THEY are the ones who cant climax or finish......
So what is it people? I want HONEST answers here. Why do you not have the self esteem or confidence to know this has nothing to do with you? With that kind of pressure, could you perform on cue everytime? What about medical issues? Medications, depression, anxiety?
2007-12-13 21:34:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bottom line is... Question is why are women so offended when their man loses erection? Why dont they understand that it NOT ABOUT THEM?
And, What do women expect their men to be like when THEY are the ones who cant finish? WHy is this so hard to explain?
2007-12-13 21:42:22 · update #1
Also, I would think it would be cool if the person or people who reported my question would stand up and say why
2007-12-13 21:42:56 · update #2
BTW, I am not a male having issues... I am actually a female who just understands and think the hyporcrasy of some of the women on this board is funny......
2007-12-14 02:25:07 · update #3
Your girls get offened once you lose erection? I think it depends on the situation. If losing erection happens again and agan, they would be offended...but no, i dont think we all, women, get offended. Only your girls who did, not all of us.
If you have a good and understanding partner, she will advise you to see the doctor, not to offend you at all. Dumb ur girls
2007-12-13 21:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Anything concerning sex, nudity or the human body in general is oftentimes "offending" to certain religious groups who have been taught that their bodies are sinful and sex is non-existant except for procreation -- and then women can't enjoy it. Only men can enjoy it, as this ensures procreation of offspring of the same religion. This is most likely why your question was deleted. Also, some people are afraid of what the children on YA are reading because they would rather them get a sex education on the streets, it seems.
Now, as for your original problem: I have to admit, it is sometimes difficult for women to understand men's physical issues. Remember that we are taught all our lives that if we are perfect in every way, men will find us attractive and desireable (like all those airbrushed, tweaked women in those magazines men love. It is unrealistic to think we can be that way in the real world as we can't airbrush ourselves every morning.) In our logical mind, we understand that maybe you're tired, not feeling well or have something on your mind (bills, work issues, etc). But sometimes our logical minds take a back seat to our egos. Please try and have a heart-to-heart talk with her about this. Stroke her ego and tell her she's beautiful, desireable and you really do want her, but (fill in the blank with "tired" or "job issues" etc) is really making it difficult for you right now. Women want to feel desireable and numero uno in our man's mind and heart. If she feels like you think she's the hottest thing around, you'll be suprised at the fringe benefits you might get ;)
2007-12-13 22:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by wiccanhpp 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
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2014-09-18 20:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've pointed out to Yahoo before that if they are going to have a section on Answers called Family & Relationships, inevitably there's going to be frank discussion of sex. Instantly that raises the issue of whether there should be separate Answers areas for adult discussion and stuff more suitable for children - the adult area would have an age disclaimer on the front door which would allow Yahoo to absolve themselves of any inappropriateness as far as children viewing it goes.
But as usual trying to have any discussion with the Answers management is like banging your head against a brick wall... or more like being attacked by a cliff.
Having a "Family & Relationships" section and not expecting sex to be discussed is like trying to work on an engine without being allowed to lift the bonnet (or hood as our USA friends say). Very, very silly. You can't discuss sex without mentioning body parts and Latin anatomical names - unless we're expected to start using slang or euphemisms like "wiener", "*****", "pink tunnel" etc. You'll note that b/o/n/e/r got asterisked out. This simply isn't joined-up thinking... S I G H . . . .
2007-12-13 21:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the question was deleted simply for words that it contained or something. It might not have been a commentary on the point you were trying to make.
2007-12-13 21:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That bites!I spent a good couple minutes answering that!
2007-12-14 05:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want the complaint department, go down the hall turn left go through the doors up the stairs out the door and OFF the roof.
2007-12-13 22:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I dont know why your question was deleted.
2007-12-13 21:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by nik 28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line...What exactly IS your Question??
2007-12-13 21:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋