i liked this girl and went in too fast or maybe she didnt like me and she rejected me. i felt terrible. a month later i sent a text asking if were still friends and she said of course. weve been maintaning a friendly conversation via text for the past week. im not sure if i should pursue her. the other day she said she was looking foward to leaving for awhile to go to another country and i said basically i would also if i had the chance and she seemed happy with my answer. she is single and i do not bombard her with messages, only about twice per week. three the most. should i send her a message today concerning the weekend? should i still be her friend? she doesnt seem annoyed to receive my messages as some girls do. but then again she doesnt send me a spontaneous message. should i just forget her and move on or keep the friendship and hope for the best?
2007-12-13 19:49:23 · 10 answers · asked by jim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u should be straight forward if u really want to have the answers. Just prepare yourself for her answers. If she will dump u again, move on and forget her.
2007-12-13 19:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by t|nE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no harm in remaining friends unless of course you can't handle it. If you are interested in being more to her and she wants only friendship you will just be setting yourself up to feel rejected all the time. I guess you need to find out how she sees you, friend or more. Go from there. If you are trying to hold on for something that's never gonna happen then I would just move on.
2007-12-14 03:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes u, maybe at least a little bit. U should send message to her but not too often. U're a guy, u gotta make ur moves first. U should keep the relationship cos it might turn out well. Ur relationship is moving fast. Maybe last time cos u were too fast. So this time, go slowly.
2007-12-14 03:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i know this can be easier said than done, but you need to listen to your heart because if you can learn to hear it, it will never tell you the wrong thing. the best way to hear it is to mediate in a quiet place with no interruptions or distractions. alot of people think meditating is 'new age bull shitt' but all it is, is quieting the non-stop racket in your mind long enough to hear the voice of your intuition.
anyway the bottom line is, there is no such thing as a mistake, everything happens exactly how its meant to. so stop stressing and start listening!! good luck man, i wish you the best.
2007-12-14 03:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by vectracan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its obvious she dosent like u that way bc if she did u guys would have been have talked to each other before the month u text her and it seems like she maybe a little annoyed but she just dont want to be rude to say so and it also seems like you are sending messages to her and shes just responding ,but shes not sending any message to u ...so i say just move on there are more girls out there
2007-12-14 03:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Traci G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be forward. Ask her out on a date and see what she says, otherwise you will never know whether she may be interested in you as more than a friend.
2007-12-14 04:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first comment if she rejected you once then you shouldnt pursue her again. Stay friends with her and if she wants you she will let you know. You may be mistaking her kindness for something more.
2007-12-14 03:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point you're just messaging. She could see you as a friend. But you'll never know unless you ask her on a date.
2007-12-14 03:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in touch but look else where for a relationship
2007-12-14 03:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come straight out and tell her your feelings its better than sitting around wondering
2007-12-14 03:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by hunttru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋