We talk at least 4 times a day and IM almost daily. He and I have had a sexual relationship for over a year. He has called it off a few times, but always comes back. Even when we are "off" he calls all the time. He critiques all guys I start to date negatively. I am very confused because we seem to connect very deeply, but I know he is engaged, so it seems weird. What should I do?
2007-12-13 21:43:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for the input! I know it should be obvious, but everytime I think we are over, he comes back and I stupidly can't resist. I have to be strong!!! : )
2007-12-13 22:04:04 · update #1
You are a perfect example of why I like to view Yahoo! Answers. Thank you for the laugh.
2007-12-13 21:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should realize that he isn't going to leave his fiancee for you if he hasn't done it by now. he just wants you on the side, he doesn't love you. he probably likes you and thinks you're attractive, but i don't think this is love - it might be to you, but you're not the one getting married here.
as for him criticizing new guys you date, that's probably just because he doesn't want to lose his f*ckbuddy. because that's what you guys are, right? at least that's how it appears since you are also still dating other men on the side. if i were you, i would stop doing this since i don't think it has any future. and i think you know this yourself, because if you really still believed it would ever turn into an actual relationship with his girlfriend out of the picture, then you wouldn't still be out looking for dates, or would you? he's just having his cake and eating it too. it doesn't only seem weird, it IS weird. and you deserve better than a guy who just wants you as a side dish!
good luck... =)
2007-12-13 21:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he plans to get married, cut off the relationship now. It seems like he's probably not going to leave his fiance and have a serious relationship with you, so he's just stringing you along, not to mention cheating on his fiance. You don't need a guy like that.
2007-12-13 21:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
End it with him. He can't be trusted since he's cheating on his fiance. Plus, he's also bad karma, since I'm sure you wouldn't want your significant other cheating on you. And if you guys really connected deeply, the ring would be on your finger. He's probably stopping you from meeting better, single guys with all his negative remarks.
2007-12-13 21:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by BLACKEST- i 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you were his partner?
And remember that if he can have an affair with you he can do the same thing to you if you were his partner.
My suggestion is to end it asap....
2007-12-13 21:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that he is engaged. There is a story line somewhere.
2007-12-13 21:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋