This couple from my gym(good acquiantances,the guy is 30,the girl is 23).He said that they want to invite me out with them.I'm one of the only ones that know they are a couple there,but what is the motive here?I'm just fairly good acquiantances with them.I dunno if he's pissed at me for something or what.Or is he just being nice?I know i'm being paranoid,but why would people who barely know you(save for the gym)want to all of a sudden invite you out. I just told him i've been busy lately and we'll grab numbers sometime and maybe down the road.Again am i being paranoid?I've formed many relationships in the past where i thought things were solid but i ended up having differences with the person.What is the motive here?
2007-12-13 19:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-12-14 21:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that people have differences with each other is what makes the world go around. Rejecting someone because they thinking differently about something is really closing yourself off before you're even getting started!
There's no need to be so paranoid, they probably just want to get to know you a bit. It may be that they have a male friend who they would like you to meet, perhaps. You won't know until you take the plunge.
Learn to accept that people are different, you will be so much happier.
2007-12-13 22:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sound like they just want to make friends and see how you are. If you meet them in the gym often and talk to them a bit then they may think that you are already friends and going out or something is the next step.
It is kind of like in a word place, you make friends in a way with someone from work but you dont talk to them outside of work till one of you asks for the others number or something like that.
You can go if you want, but if you dont think it is right then dont go. It is completely up to you if you want to make friends with them. You can choose your friends.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-13 21:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are trying to be friendly. You said you are fairly good acquaintances with them so it's not that strange for them to ask you out socially is it? Stop being paranoid & go. You might actually enjoy yourself.
2007-12-13 19:41:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mimkat hate the new Yahoo Answers so has retired. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they want to make new friends...but if you get a bad vibe from them then stay away from them .
it sounds like your not a people person............ you should really try and get out there and make friends if that is the case or you will find you have a very lonely life
2007-12-13 19:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
er... maybe you guys just get on well and they thought it would be nice to go have a drink and chat about stuff that isnt gym related?
Oooor maybe they want a threesome!? Either way go for it I say :))
2007-12-13 19:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by Gemma T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sound pretty genuine to me!! just sounds as if they want to be friends with you!!! get to knoww you a little bit more!! I would go for it, having lots of friends is a good thing!!!
2007-12-13 21:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by cooper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋