Yes, and I'm a guy and I'm not afraid to admit it. If it makes you cry means you really loved that person deeply
2007-12-13 19:59:58
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answer #1
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answered by jeseeme 3
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The first time was the worst time. It took a while for me to get it under control, but I can give you a few tips that helped me.
Don't look at the photos, listen to the music, etc. It only makes it worse. Put away as many of the memories as you can...even tear them up, smash them, throw them out.
Don't ring him, go places you think you will see him (if at all possible), or ask friends about him. You need to keep your dignity so you don't have to add feelings of humiliation to all the other emotions you are feeling right now.
Don't try and get even: that never works and makes you feel like crap later.
Give yourself time to grieve, but don't make it the only thing you do.
tell yourself that every tear you cry and every minute you are without him, is one minute closer to being over him. I promise you, the time will come when you suddenly realise you haven't thought about him for a whole hour. Then it will be 2 whole hours...it does get better, trust me.
2007-12-13 20:08:36
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi yes! I think we all have that love that when it ends breaks our hear and can make us physically ill. The hardest thing is going to the places you once wen together but take some good advice go back to those places as soon as you can even if you get teary...It sure beats having that lingering pain. Best of luck.. Please do not feel bad I think most of us have been there...;Mine was in 1980 and that has been awhile
Peace to you
and remember the next one is even better
2007-12-13 20:01:50
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answer #3
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answered by weewab 1
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Yea.. Always.. I always cry whenever we have a fight or when he's far away from me.... O yea, bout the heart breaking thing, i broke his heart the first time... ^_^
2007-12-13 20:00:27
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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yah i did...one month ago when he broke my heart...i cried even in my dreams,at work have to hide somewhere to cry ....but now im over it i just let it go and feel the pain now its gone its all but memories and im glad he broke my heart cos i realized i dont deserve him i deserve much better.
2007-12-13 20:04:21
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answer #5
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answered by light girl 4
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Yeah ! Love has it's ups and downs !
The ' Ups ' are GREAT !
The ' downs ' are always really tough to deal with !
Is love worth it ?
2007-12-13 20:09:10
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answer #6
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answered by Helpme 5
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crying is best way to release the pain..but if that person really make u cry always..then fight..its not love its bullshit thing done to u..
2007-12-13 20:05:35
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answer #7
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answered by Anonymous
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No, i think my crier is broken...Only if I'm really, really mad i may cry, but that's to stop me from hurting someone...
2007-12-13 20:19:55
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answer #8
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answered by ABBYsMom 7
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Take a wild guess?
2007-12-13 20:08:39
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answer #9
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answered by Captain S 7
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of course. but i move on easily..im hot u know, i can find much better pipz to love
2007-12-13 20:00:16
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answer #10
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answered by beachbum 1
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