..cut off his...ya know...or stalk him, burn his house, or eat him alive...i love him!
2007-12-13 20:08:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
@Suspect
problem is it's almost three months and we haven't seen each other yet...he calls me up everyday...he thinks he's safer that way O.o
2007-12-13 20:32:30 · update #1
@Elaine
i'll never give you a thumb down *mwah =)
2007-12-13 20:47:35 · update #2
Well, you could always go with the logical route. Just reason with him. Here are a few examples:
1. It has been 3 months. Any psycho in that amount of time could have managed to cut off anything, stalked him without mercy, burned an entire town, or eaten a village. Unless he just thinks you're a lazy psycho, in which case he should be able to outrun you.
2. Assuming he is larger than you, he should be able to take you in hand to hand combat. Offer to supply him with a large stick to carry around if he feels he needs the extra insurance.
3. Assure him that you have stopped sacrificing chickens in his honor. (my husband was thrilled when I gave that up!)
4. Remind him of the well known psycho/tinfoil partnership. All truly dangerous psychos tend to line things in tinfoil, such as the windows of their homes, key holes, electrical outlets, etc. (you know, to keep the lasers out). I am assuming here that you have no tinfoil fetish. If you do, don't bring it up.
Best of luck to you!
2007-12-14 02:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy--relatively harmless 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I agree... 90%. As far as exploring and having fun, I couldn't agree more... The only issue that I worry about is his clothes... we don't have much, and we can't just buy new outfits if he gets one dirty... so I'm a little bit picky with that issue, but otherwise you're completely right. We have a couple designated outfits for getting dirty, and unfortunately, if he isn't wearing one of those, he knows to try and keep it clean. Especially shoes... no white sneakers or church shoes in the mud. He has boots for that.
2016-05-23 21:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being "a little psycho" is the same as being "a little pregnant." The condition grows with time until it reaches a conclusion, which can be birth or death. I'm still trying to figure out if all the things you say are real. If they are, I wish you would get some professional help. (Okay, here come the thumbs down).
2007-12-13 20:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you have wrote. and if he doesn't believe you there be sense in keeping the relationship, since a relationship can't be entirely over the phone. a relationship requires being with each other and going to places together.
maybe he is just afraid of a commitment and is doing his best to avoid saying anything to hurt you. I don't believe you would hurt anyone, you seem too sweet.
2007-12-15 03:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by sweetnspicy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
has he ever mentioned being afraid that you might physically hurt him? he cares about you... he has probably read up on abnormal psychology, and knows you won't hurt him. but, hon, try to put yourself in his place. if you can. it's very painful for most people to be around someone they love, and that person has self-destructive qualities. i remember the way my mother looked at the scars on my arm. he would like to help you if he could, but he doesn't know what to do.
2007-12-14 03:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by deva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like My Mother Always Says, "Time Will Tell"
2007-12-14 13:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Day by day make certain to show him that you love him in the things that you do & say. If he truly loves you he should be able to see that he can trust you. As I said in one of my poems " When your spirits entertwine they will merge to make one whole ".
2007-12-13 20:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by ethology 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds sensative. Change "my bf" to you in the sentance above, and you have it. ASK HIM? If hes that unable to trust from past expierences. I think hed love hearin that ?.
2007-12-13 20:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's either going to have to trust you and give you a chance
to prove it to him or he should just end it now. he's never going to know the real you unless he is man enough to meet
you in person.
2007-12-14 13:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mary S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You admit being a "little psycho", and yet you expect him to trust you not to lose it with him? Think about it...would you leave a child molester you knew alone in your house with your kid, just because he or she told you they would never hurt YOUR child? I wouldn't...
2007-12-13 20:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋